At 10/31/12 12:01 AM, Shadow-XII wrote:
Sounds to me like you already made up your mind at this point, and you're going through a lot of stress and anxiety about either having to move to Japan or be away from your husband, and are trolling for attention, sympathy and assurance that you're not being a totally selfish whore, which either way I don't think you actually are.
It's stressful because all the options we have, we basically won't get what we were hoping. I never was looking for attenion or sympathy. I don't understand why I would, it's Newgrounds, not Facebook.
I think you should go. Actually educate yourself about another culture instead of bitching about stereotypes and how 'hard' your life on base is going to be. You speak of 'whore wives' while you're the one nerd-girl'ing yourself silly on the internet.
I wanted to get opinions on everyone's view of moving to Japan but I wanted to emphasize on the area I'll be living at and that it's not just hurr durr Japan. I'm not bitching about Stereotypes, everything I've been told is from people that actually live/lived on base. It's well known Military and Americans over there are hated.
Plus, I've already lived on a base for a year that's basically in the middle of nowhere so it's pretty isolated with nothing but Military and their families. I've learned first hand from trying to make friends with the wives out here that they really are whores. Half the wives I met, have cheated or were cheating on their husbands. If not that, they were fawning of having babies or already had babies. It's hard to make friends when you're disgusted with cheaters and are also infertile. I don't see my life here now or if I moved to Japan would be "hard" it'd just suck. I don't understand how some people can take lightly moving so far from friends/family and not having real options to go home to visit. I know I'm an adult and should "grow up" but holy fuck, that makes no sense in a situation like this.
At 10/30/12 11:57 PM, Shauna wrote:
Also, real wide range of things to do in Japan. Like re-instating your porno career.
I gave up porn before I got married. Also, Japs have no interest in having a redhead in their pornos and I'm not interested in the weird shit they do for porn.