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Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:31 AM Reply

Because she was "depressed about her husband's deployment".

http://www.4vf.net/military-mom-21-let-her-toddler-die-becau se-she-was-too-depressed-about-her-husbands-deployment/

I swear, men and women should have mental checks before having children.

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:36 AM Reply

She wasn't suicidally depressed at the time of the child's conception, and the report mentions no previous counts of neglect on her first two children.

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:38 AM Reply

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:42 AM Reply

Well now she really does have something to be depressed about, the silly fucking cow.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:42 AM Reply

throw baby.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:42 AM Reply

Women... can't live with them and killing them is illegal.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 11:22 AM Reply

Oh what? THat's horrible.

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 11:40 AM Reply

I hope when he gets back he beats her with a frying pan


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 12:07 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 09:42 AM, Lucian-MK-IV wrote: Women... can't live with them and killing them is illegal.

Thats because they're a protected species.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 12:09 PM Reply

That's an excuse in the same tier as "I don't wanna go to school today because I don't want to"

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 12:55 PM Reply

Anyone else notice that she had two more kids along with the toddler that died?If she was that crazy, it seems her kids will grow up to be the same, but still, no excuse for what she did. Parents are there to protect their children. When a child is first born into this world, the first thing it does is cling to the two beings that raise it. It trusts these two with its life, and when that trust is broken in abuse of any form, that child is broken forever.

I hope she gets the death penalty for this, but knowing the law these days, she'll plead out for Manslaughter Two and 3 counts of Child Endangerment and probably only serve 8-10 years in prison if that.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:14 PM Reply

I honestly don't judge her, and actually feel sorry for her. She's clearly severely depressed, she's tried committing suicide several times but her friend has talked her out of it. She's clearly experiencing heavy guilt from neglecting her children and she's going to regret this for the rest of her life, which could cause her depression to get even worse.

Also, if any of you haven't had clinical depression, you have absolutely no fucking right to judge. I was clinically depressed between the ages of 10-14 and I returned to it 15-17 and it's possible I'll sink into it again.

You have no idea how much it fucks with your mind. Severe depression IS an excuse for neglecting her kids and any psychologist would tell you that. Believe me. I'm not even going to argue, but before any ignorant retard attempts to argue with me while not having a clue what depression is (Here's a hint: It isn't a case of the "blues", it's WAY more serious than that. It's a mental illness.) bear in mind I'm actually not going to argue back unless you actually know what you're talking about and not just being a judging prick.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:16 PM Reply

Why do stupid people have children?


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:18 PM Reply

She no can haz cheeseburger.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:24 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 01:16 PM, Boomstick wrote: Why do stupid people have children?

Because they're too stupid to know they shouldnt.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:28 PM Reply

Wow, what a poor excuse for being a lazy bitch. And chemical burns? This woman should be locked away for a very long time.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:28 PM Reply

I think people should have mental checks, PERIOD!

But I doubt we will ever be able to tell if someones a mad baby murder nutbag or not.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:32 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 01:14 PM, HomicidialFrog wrote:
You have no idea how much it fucks with your mind. Severe depression IS an excuse for neglecting her kids and any psychologist would tell you that. Believe me. I'm not even going to argue, but before any ignorant retard attempts to argue with me while not having a clue what depression is (Here's a hint: It isn't a case of the "blues", it's WAY more serious than that. It's a mental illness.) bear in mind I'm actually not going to argue back unless you actually know what you're talking about and not just being a judging prick.

My mother had clinical depression for 5 years raising us, and we typically came out more behaved and well-mannered. I exclude my sister due to her just being....weird...

She cooked, cleaned, and generally took care of us just fine. I also know people who went through this via military wives as well. They had depression, but still knew they should take care of their children.


Well.

Shit.

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:47 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 01:32 PM, akmeteor wrote:
At 9/13/12 01:14 PM, HomicidialFrog wrote:
You have no idea how much it fucks with your mind. Severe depression IS an excuse for neglecting her kids and any psychologist would tell you that. Believe me. I'm not even going to argue, but before any ignorant retard attempts to argue with me while not having a clue what depression is (Here's a hint: It isn't a case of the "blues", it's WAY more serious than that. It's a mental illness.) bear in mind I'm actually not going to argue back unless you actually know what you're talking about and not just being a judging prick.
My mother had clinical depression for 5 years raising us, and we typically came out more behaved and well-mannered. I exclude my sister due to her just being....weird...

She cooked, cleaned, and generally took care of us just fine. I also know people who went through this via military wives as well. They had depression, but still knew they should take care of their children.

I'm actually going to argue with you because you're not a dumb prick arguing with me over something you don't know nothing about and are infact someone who knows what depression is.

Anyway, yes but this woman's case might of been way more severe than your mother's. I had depression pretty bad at a young age because of a completely awful childhood. I never even attempted suicide because I wasn't that bad, (Though I did think about it alot. Still wasn't bad enough to actually go through with it.) but I could barely manage attending school, keeping myself in good hygiene and alot of other basic things that I completely and utterly neglected. I barely managed even simple tasks, so I couldn't imagine what it's like to have an evidently more of a severe case of depression and having three kids to manage on your complete own.

She also had no whatsoever family around her besides her three kids, so I bet she had little support raising her kids and I could go on. She knew she had to take care of her kids. She said so. And she deeply regrets it, which I have no doubt of. I used to know I had to go to school, shower regularly, eat regularly but I didn't have the energy for it even if I wanted to do those things. They was too much work. And those are relatively simple things. I mean, I never attempted to kill myself once, nevermind three times. So it's evident her case was way worse than mine. Then consider how something like showering and eating regularly was difficult for me, which is relatively simple. I can't imagine what it'd be like to raise kids in a much deeper depression than the one I had.

Considering all that, I can't help but hope the woman get's better, I also deeply sympathize with her, hope she goes into a mental asylum and isn't punished and thrown into a prison but given the help and support she desperately needs and especially hope her husband forgives her.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 01:52 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 01:47 PM, HomicidialFrog wrote:
Many a good valid point in which go over my quote limit.

While I do agree that most likely her case was much worse than my mothers. I just have a firm belief that Maternal Instinct has some strange way of overcoming most mental distress.

Also, on the husband forgiving her. If it were me personally. It would take me a while, but I eventually could. I just want her to put through with the effort of us getting over that together, then I could forgive her.


Well.

Shit.

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 02:15 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 09:42 AM, Lucian-MK-IV wrote: Women... can't live with them and killing them is illegal.

One woman let's her child die.
Your response is to blame women.

You're a man.
Are you Charles Manson?

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 02:39 PM Reply

That's ridiculous. How does depression prevent you from feeding your child?

âEU~I just got tired of always changing the sheets, so it was on there a little bit longer than it should have been,âEUTM she said about her deceased daughterâEUTMs exposure to human waste. âEU~I made a horrible, horrible mistake that IâEUTMm going to pay for for the rest of my life,âEUTM she said.

You'd think the responsibility over your own child would be enough for one to keep their shit together. There has to be more to this.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 02:45 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 09:31 AM, Piemix wrote: I swear, men and women should have mental checks before having children.

Women get massively depressed after having a bairn because their hormones are all over the map.
So any pre-bairn mental checks they go through wouldn't mean anything.

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 08:08 PM Reply

Throw her a bone.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 08:19 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 09:31 AM, Piemix wrote: Because she was "depressed about her husband's deployment".

http://www.4vf.net/military-mom-21-let-her-toddler-die-becau se-she-was-too-depressed-about-her-husbands-deployment/

I swear, men and women should have mental checks before having children.

BRB, Neglecting children.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 08:46 PM Reply

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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:07 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 01:24 PM, Bees wrote: kid deserved it

You beat me to it.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:09 PM Reply

Well that's very nasty.


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Response to Mom lets her child die Sep. 13th, 2012 @ 09:23 PM Reply

At 9/13/12 02:45 PM, yurgenburgen wrote:
At 9/13/12 09:31 AM, Piemix wrote: I swear, men and women should have mental checks before having children.
Women get massively depressed after having a bairn because their hormones are all over the map.
So any pre-bairn mental checks they go through wouldn't mean anything.

But you don't see every single woman doing things like this to their children. So I suppose it wouldn't hurt to have a test right?


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