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Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 09:36:57 Reply

What would you do If you fell for and loved someone for three years who never dated in their whole life they lead you on all that time by saying theyd be with you however the day never came but now you found out they are pining still over someone from their elementary school the girl is practically your only hope of what you ever wanted in someone

would you wait for them?

basically how the story goes is shes 20 and never dated however for unknown reasons shes had a crush on this guy from her grade school the guy never even seen her for years a few months back apparently she told them via the net how she had felt the guy said he needed time.

The girl claims she wants someone but doesnt want a serious relationship until after college

In all reality its nearly impossible to find someone abstinent and religious and non corrupted. All these other girls in the area like only blacks/ negative culture.

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 09:39:09 Reply

Lets see her tits, they'll help me come up with a logical response.


Just when you think you have all the answers i change the questions

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 09:50:20 Reply

At 8/21/12 09:36 AM, Armissea wrote: All these other girls in the area like only blacks/ negative culture.

Well racism aside, the qualities you see as 'positive' in a woman lead that very same woman to hold a crush on a grade school guy for most of her life! What could you possibly see in such an unrealistic person? What is this, some Lifetime movie? And if you only like her because she's "uncorrupted" and never dated, you really have nothing in common.

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 09:54:59 Reply


Well racism aside, the qualities you see as 'positive' in a woman lead that very same woman to hold a crush on a grade school guy for most of her life! What could you possibly see in such an unrealistic person? What is this, some Lifetime movie? And if you only like her because she's "uncorrupted" and never dated, you really have nothing in common.

Its not only that. I spent alot of time talking to her and shes the only one pretty much around here who wasnt a dick and has some potential to be something in her life.

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 10:30:07 Reply

If I can be serious though, if you really care for this girl and think she'll be worth it in the long run, then don't completely give up on her. Im in a similar situation with a girl and I know it sucks, but you cant just quit. Just make sure you don't spend too much time on her. You can't focus on her forever.


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 10:31:23 Reply

Hahaha women dating you.
That's hilarious.

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 10:33:03 Reply

At 8/21/12 09:39 AM, jeremyjamal wrote: Lets see her tits, they'll help me come up with a logical response.

You sir, deserve a blowjob.


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 10:36:04 Reply

At 8/21/12 10:30 AM, jeremyjamal wrote: If I can be serious though, if you really care for this girl and think she'll be worth it in the long run, then don't completely give up on her. Im in a similar situation with a girl and I know it sucks, but you cant just quit. Just make sure you don't spend too much time on her. You can't focus on her forever.

How much is too much time?

5 years?

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 10:54:14 Reply

At 8/21/12 10:36 AM, Armissea wrote:
How much is too much time?

5 years?

Good god 5 years, she must be amazing if your spending that much time. Your way past my limit, but honestly my situation is ongoing too so I cant speak. All I'll say is don't take too long. Don't rush it, but make sure you don't waste a a litle under a decade on this girl. I mean, you've fucked some other girls right?


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 11:00:14 Reply

Good god 5 years, she must be amazing if your spending that much time. Your way past my limit, but honestly my situation is ongoing too so I cant speak. All I'll say is don't take too long. Don't rush it, but make sure you don't waste a a litle under a decade on this girl. I mean, you've fucked some other girls right?

I dated before all went to shit (typical high school crap)

this one I could see marrying.

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 11:18:55 Reply

The answer is punctuation with a dash of capitalization.


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 11:25:31 Reply

Any amount of time is too great to be wasting on someone who has made it clear that they don't want something with you. Seriously, if you're finding that 'the girls around here all suck', why is your answer to fixate on ONE that might be ok instead of going somewhere else where the culture is more in line with what you find attractive in women? You're only in control of your life, dude... sitting around for 5 years waiting for this girl who CLEARLY doesn't know what she wants to decide is such a waste of time thinking about it kinda pisses me off.


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 14:27:33 Reply

Why is there no picture?


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 14:54:25 Reply

At 8/21/12 02:27 PM, DoctorStrongbad wrote: Why is there no picture?

Cause she's too handy. ;)

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 14:58:28 Reply

5 years... Dude, you got trapped in the friend zone after 3 weeks, I gurrentee it.

Also, if she still harbors a guy that she liked since grade school, I'd give up on her. She probably has more issues then she actually lets on.


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-21 22:47:37 Reply

At 8/21/12 11:25 AM, Evark wrote: Any amount of time is too great to be wasting on someone who has made it clear that they don't want something with you. Seriously, if you're finding that 'the girls around here all suck', why is your answer to fixate on ONE that might be ok instead of going somewhere else where the culture is more in line with what you find attractive in women? You're only in control of your life, dude... sitting around for 5 years waiting for this girl who CLEARLY doesn't know what she wants to decide is such a waste of time thinking about it kinda pisses me off.

Because I was an idiot you see this has been going on since early 2010 where shes claimed she loved me and all that but wasnt ready yet blah blah. Its even more shocking that the reason she wasnt ready was something as retarded as a weird fixation on a guy who doesnt even talk to her from several years ago

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 00:18:42 Reply

Seriously, Ultor getting a date. THAT'S GOD DAMNED HILARIOUS.

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 00:21:17 Reply

tl;dr lmao u sound gay
jk jk dont ban me jk (just kidding)
or is jj better? (JUST JOSHING LMAO)

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 00:29:19 Reply

At 8/21/12 11:25 AM, Evark wrote: Any amount of time is too great to be wasting on someone who has made it clear that they don't want something with you. Seriously, if you're finding that 'the girls around here all suck', why is your answer to fixate on ONE that might be ok instead of going somewhere else where the culture is more in line with what you find attractive in women? You're only in control of your life, dude... sitting around for 5 years waiting for this girl who CLEARLY doesn't know what she wants to decide is such a waste of time thinking about it kinda pisses me off.

Seriously and for the most part girl's don't change their minds and realize they should be dating you. If she's strung you along for 3years, she has no intentions of ever dating you. She has told you reasons why she wouldn't date you, that's a good indicator that she is not and will not be interested. MOVE ON. My god there are many women, lots even that fit what you're looking for. GO OUT AND FIND THEM. Stop wasting all your time on this one woman who is clearly NOT INTERESTED.


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 00:42:09 Reply

update:
I found an inside reporter this is how gay u r

jk jk don't ban me plz
http://www.newgrounds.com/audio/listen/499896?updated=1

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:01:26 Reply

When asked if she still felt I was her type like she said in the past she had stated she doesnt know what her type is basically I proceeded to say how do you NOT know and then the folliowing she said

How do i find the answer when i don't know what i am looking for? I still love you and your my type right now until i know what my type is actually. I need to go out and actually look and find out what m type is for real.

Please advise

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:04:17 Reply

At 8/22/12 01:01 AM, Armissea wrote: When asked if she still felt I was her type like she said in the past she had stated she doesnt know what her type is basically I proceeded to say how do you NOT know and then the folliowing she said

How do i find the answer when i don't know what i am looking for? I still love you and your my type right now until i know what my type is actually. I need to go out and actually look and find out what m type is for real.

Please advise

If you be less of a scrub you'll probably start to get the ladies. LMAO.
Learn 2 360 nosC0pe then we'll talk....
NOT!! LMAO!!!

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:06:44 Reply

Mal come ban this fucking guy

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:12:21 Reply

At 8/22/12 01:06 AM, Armissea wrote: Mal come ban this fucking guy

Boo hoo. Boo hoo.
I'm not breaking rules boy boy.
You said a bad f word.
I'm telling my mom.
Also this is how you sound:

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:16:46 Reply

Just watch guarantee youll end up getting slapped with something

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:19:35 Reply

At 8/22/12 01:16 AM, Armissea wrote: Just watch guarantee youll end up getting slapped with something

Hey dude this is what you soudn like:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxy336UQev0&feature=player_de tailpage#t=5s
contructive criticism:
start 2 toke up, ladies love evironmental men lMAO

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:21:00 Reply

At 8/22/12 01:19 AM, Teh-Leather-Face wrote: contructive criticism:
start 2 toke up, ladies love evironmental men lMAO

nope.


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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:21:45 Reply

At 8/22/12 01:21 AM, Raab wrote:
At 8/22/12 01:19 AM, Teh-Leather-Face wrote: contructive criticism:
start 2 toke up, ladies love evironmental men lMAO
nope.

Sorry jk I just want 2 be funny.
Drugs are bad. But enivorment good.

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Response to Advice Newgrounds 2012-08-22 01:39:14 Reply

At 8/22/12 01:01 AM, Armissea wrote: Please advise

Even if you do manage to get this girl. Ask yourself this question. Would you be happy always knowing that you were her second choice and that you only got her because she could not get the man she actually wanted, so she settled for you?