At 8/8/12 06:52 AM, tarahloveshentai wrote:
But what I've noticed is, alot of people feel it's wrong to oust a cheater and you're suppose to just ignore it. But I have tons of disdain for cheaters.
I don't just hate cheaters, I loathe them. I may forgive them eventually, but there's no good excuse for cheating on a significant other.
If you were cheated on, would you want someone to tell you? Or rather not know unless your significant other told you?
I have been cheated on, multiple times. I'm not sure which way I'd prefer honestly -- if they came to me themselves and told me, which is the only way I've experienced -- it shows in a way how brave they are. They more likely than not feel guilt, and want to take it back, and want forgiveness. It's still wrong, but it's a small step in the right direction, I think.
Am I a total cunt for letting his wife know what janky shit he'd been doing?
No, you're not. If anyone tells you otherwise, ignore them. You did what was right. That's what's important.