At 6/25/12 06:51 PM, RacistBassist wrote:
Texting is completely honest. I would argue even more so, since you'll have the false cojones to say what you feel compared to being in person and trying to spare feelings.
If you honestly want to end it, you'll acknowledge the decision and do it. If you hesitate, you're just naturally trying to be respectful because your partner is right there; the feelings are present and real.
You're breaking up. Of course you don't give a shit.
You do if you want to contact the person and have a mutual agreement that it's over. To each his own.
OP, your situation is looking very grim. Have there been any times recently where she hasn't been aggressive towards you? If it has been all miserable so far and there is no sign in the near future of restoring your relationship, it would be best to end it. Ask yourself and really think about it: do you really love her?