So I'm talking to this girl over PM, and we got onto the subject of sex.
She told me that she's currently not allowing herself to orgasm, some sort of fetish she has.
I asked her why she does this, and she said that I have two options.
"Option one (aka the boring option):
I explain the appeal to you as best I can and give you some facts about it/ link you to websites about it.
Option two (aka the fun option):
You hand over control of your orgasms for a day or two and masturbate when and how I tell you and I show you the appeal.
Which do you guys think that I should do?