At 3/29/12 08:06 PM, omgroflatu wrote:
I was not wearing a condom.. I couldn't ejaculate from sex, oral sex, or by my or her hand.
Here's your problem and you're damn lucky you couldn't ejaculate this time. Next time you wear a fucking condom because you are 17 and you don't need a baby or any STD's. It's also not fair to the woman. Yes sex feels better without a condom but it still feels great with one and is totally worth not having that worse stuff happen. Don't think pulling out is a great method, people have gotten pregnant from precum.
Don't masturbate the day you're gonna have sex because that certainly won't help you being able to cum from it.
Make sure you're actually attracted to the person you're with. Don't even worry about cumming. Get out of your head and just focus on how your body is feeling and go with that. Make your goal to make her orgasm and yours should just come naturally.
If it's not working maybe you just aren't as ready for sex as you thought you were or maybe the person isn't right.
And I just reviewed the thread and saw she's supposedly on the pill. But Idk if I'd trust a girl in high school. I'd reserve no condom sex for someone I knew and trusted and was with for a long time. But as long as you're being safe I won't complain. The pill doesn't protect against STD's though. And you better hope she always remembers to take it.