At 4/11/12 06:13 PM, AKACCMIOF wrote:
Jeez, am I the only guy on here who's looking for a girl he can be hisself with? Like sex is cool, but I don't get why it's worth messing with people's heads, putting on a giant front and just generally getting into pissing contests with other guys about the size of your harem.
Naa yo, you misinterpret. This is what I'm getting at.
I was more commenting on my mistake in thinking that prostitutes would fix my girl problems. Now, as for the "manipulation" thing...
Girls want the fantasy. They want you to lead. If you look back on conversations with your ex I bet you will see that I'm right on. So when I say "manipulate," I mean "having your shit together so much that the chick doesn't have to worry about anything so they want to come into your world."
Of course we as men know that no one can ever have their shit completely together, but it's all about acting like you do. So in that way, it is manipulation. But because you are taking "manipulative action" for the advancement of your partner, not towards the detriment, it's not the evil you think I'm talking about. It's the protection of the female spirit from the bullshit we males have to deal with.