At 9/30/11 12:49 AM, zag wrote:
sadly, in many settings, it doesn't actually get better u.u
some people mature. others never learn.
That is sort of sad to hear. I thought that people in college are much more mature than people in high school. But now that I think of it it does make sense, I've seen 40-50 year olds act like they're high school teenagers. It's embarrassing to see.
then I think you should keep it like it is now.
it would be a shame if you changed it and held regret.
I know. The thing that holds me back is, I don't know if I'm going to like it. And if it doesn't make a difference in the way girls see me, then it's a total waste. And it's not like I can go right back to long hair if I decide I don't like it. It really took a while for this to grow.
there will be girls who are turned on by your long hair. you have a rocker/metal head look to you...
trust me. people will be attracted to you. you're an attractive guy ^.^
Thank you :) It's great to hear stuff like this. My confidence is another thing that holds me back.
"shyness is nice, and shyness will stop you, from doing all the things in life you'd like to"
...sorry u.u Smith's quote that I thought was relevant.
I've been there... the internet is an invaluable tool for meeting people that you think are attractive and for finding people that find you attractive. I know it has a bad rep in some places, but give it a chance. especially if you're kinky :P (fetish websites are the best)
I think it's a great idea actually. My brother got his first girlfriend through the internet. Also, people here on Long Island are stuck up. I really can't stand it here.
no... it's not XD
well, depending on the girl anyway. some people will fuck anyone.
lol, true. It's the same way with guys :P
I have to thank you, zag, for all of the helpful advice and comments. You were truly the most helpful person in this thread so far :)