Being talked behind your back

[assassin1337]

There was this time I liked a girl who was a friend,and was also two years older than me,I had a crush on her since the day we became friends,a few months later I confessed to her,she told me that she never felt the same,about a week ago I found out that she was mocking me with her internet friends that I know,and that she only did that few days after confessing to her,I fell out of the whole crush thing and showed her the evidence,she didn't respond,I'm currently staying neutral with her,though we barely spoke,but still,does anyone find it bullshit to say something negative about you behind your back,especially with someone you like? discuss.

[Asandir]

At 5/29/11 12:34 PM, assassin1337 wrote: ...,does anyone find it bullshit to say something negative about you behind your back,especially with someone you like?

I don´t like this kind of behaviour and don´t do it, if there is a problem or something to complain, then I want to hear it directly from the person.

[assassin1337]

At 5/29/11 12:35 PM, Piss wrote: pwned!

D:

[Xgsniper]

I make it a point to never do that, but you were right in letting her know that you know. Maybe she'll be less of a cunt in the future...maybe.

[UCanCallMeJesus]

Other way around with me I heard my friends friends where making fun of her the second she walked away. I almost strangled them but in the end I couldn't even get it in myself to tell her that those people weren't her friends and they where spreading lies about her. I started avoiding her because I would get extremely pissed whenever I saw her hanging out with them so our friendship pretty much died ;_;

[Wunderbar]

Don't waste your time, she sounds like a cunt.

[NekoMika]

Yea it sucks when people do, not much one can do about it though since even if you are being nice and such they will still try to find something to talk about behind your back most of the time. Keep what few friends you got close and if you make a new friend who isn't an ass then that makes it better.

also that is one long run-on question, saying it all in one breath

[Heretic-Anchorite]

Why care?

Does your self image depend upon how other view you?

People talk about me all the time, I just ignore them.

they don't really know me anyways.

[Sequenced]

Be a man and move on. She is a little cunt.

[Jackho]

At 5/29/11 12:39 PM, Addict wrote: people who talk behind others backs are simply assholes

Everyone has done it

[ChainsawNinjaZX]

If they have to talk to you behind your back, then they are weak cowards that could only wish to be you.

[Dosensuppen]

Not exactly talking. But one person started sending people text messages, pretending to be me, and asking them if they wanted to buy weed. Nothing came of it, I've already been accused of being a dealer, before. Really, it's quite minute, but I don't like people pretending to be me for any reason.

[Magical-Zorse]

It happens, and it always will happen. I don't really care anymore.

[The-Great-One]

At 5/29/11 12:37 PM, assassin1337 wrote:

At 5/29/11 12:35 PM, Piss wrote: pwned!

D:

Dun DUN DUN!

[iateamexican]

Word comma space word.

Jesus christ man.

[Boss]

you bitch you dont be all like "i have a CRUSH on you" be all like "biddy hed to my place and you can lick my nuts" but more subtly

[saqwert]

Everybody talks behind everyone's backs all the time. That includes family and friends.
Bitch was probably talking about you for 5 decades before you found this out, I tell you what

[satanbrain]

These people are the same people i'll ignore if they say it straightforward, so i'm not offended.

[assassin1337]

Well,she simply called me unfunny with her internet friends,just because I enter the same chat with them and that they don't like me that much,my bet is that she only turned against me once,and only for this reason,plus,the evidence was that she that she actually PRINTSCREENED and put it in a site called ctrlV that shows the private message between her and one friend in the chat,now who does that?

[zooos]

It's bullshit but it happens. I wouldn't bother talking to her again though considering she's probably a heartless bitch. It's one thing to not have mutual feelings for someone but it's another to go out of your way to mock them.

Don't feel bad here's a story of encouragement(more like to make you feel better?)

So in High School I was a loser (wait still am) and had my eye on one of the "popular" girls. So feeling ballsy, I wrote this girl a poem about how "beautiful" she was. After I gave it to her I didn't receive any reaction from her, but by the end of the day she had shown it to all of her friends. Spent the next week getting constantly mocked about it.

Oh this has happened multiple times, I'm quite the lucky guy.

[zooos]

At 5/30/11 08:24 AM, assassin1337 wrote: Well,she simply called me unfunny with her internet friends,just because I enter the same chat with them and that they don't like me that much,my bet is that she only turned against me once,and only for this reason,plus,the evidence was that she that she actually PRINTSCREENED and put it in a site called ctrlV that shows the private message between her and one friend in the chat,now who does that?

Also being called unfunny really isn't mocking you behind your back and really isn't that bad. You should of been more clear. As well even if she only did it because of her internet friends (who really cares what the fuck internet friends think anyways) she obviously is still a bitch and you shouldn't pay any attention to her.

Explain to her that she was wrong for doing it and then stop talking to her. If you want to be an extra dick be extremely nice about it. Tell her how attractive you thought she was and how much you liked her "personality" and such and you were extremely disappointed with how she acted. Wish her a good luck in life and then afterwards tell her to get fucked by a truck( or you could just leave off on the life part and end there, either way it will probably sting).

[SuspiciousPenguin]

Wow she sounds like a two-faced bitch, be glad you a through with her. I couldn't care less what people are saying about me behind my back as long as they are straight with me in person, I'm sure I find out one day anyway.