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I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:30:30 Reply

I think I lost my sex drive. I am rather sexually inexperienced, and I always thought I was just sheepish about doing anything with girls because I was afraid of being so bad at it, and thats probably how it started, but at this point I am seriously questioning if I even care anymore.

Just as an example, a few weeks ago I was invited by a girl back to her place, she was drunk and asked me to stay the night. I figured it was pretty obvious what that meant. In her bed we were fooling around and all she asked was that we wait for her roommate to go to sleep before we start anything serious. I said that it was fine, but I just went to sleep after five minuets because I didn't feel it was worth the time.

Less specific examples would be when I see a girl has an interest in me. Most guys would probably start flirting with them or hanging out with them more with the ultimate goal being to get some. I don't. I just don't care enough about the end goal to spend time with these people, much less the hours and hours it would take to get them to bed.

I figured not getting any for awhile would increase my sex drive exponentially, but it seems to just be smoldering out.

Anyway, I know I'm posting this in a sea of posts about teenage male sexual issues. But discuss anyway.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:31:58 Reply

I think you're gay.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:32:03 Reply

At no point in the paragraph did I see anything about your body releasing spores, growing seeminly vestigial, baby shaped masses, or you vomiting out a child.

Therefore you are not asexual.

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:33:48 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:32 PM, Gobblemeister wrote: At no point in the paragraph did I see anything about your body releasing spores, growing seeminly vestigial, baby shaped masses, or you vomiting out a child.

Therefore you are not asexual.

This.

To be asexual, it means you can reproduce without having sexual intercourse.

You alien bitch.

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:34:27 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:32 PM, Gobblemeister wrote: At no point in the paragraph did I see anything about your body releasing spores, growing seeminly vestigial, baby shaped masses, or you vomiting out a child.

Therefore you are not asexual.

I really hope you were trying to be funny.

Here's a serious answer for the OP: I don't know what to tell you, AlphaCentauri. If you feel asexual, be asexual. There's no use in denying your sexuality(Or lack thereof). Don't be ashamed, and embrace it if you are meant to be this way.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:35:24 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:33 PM, SuperSilver123 wrote:
At 4/20/11 08:32 PM, Gobblemeister wrote: At no point in the paragraph did I see anything about your body releasing spores, growing seeminly vestigial, baby shaped masses, or you vomiting out a child.

Therefore you are not asexual.
This.

To be asexual, it means you can reproduce without having sexual intercourse.

You alien bitch.

Bleh Not the scientific definition. The urban definition.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:36:54 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:35 PM, AlphaCentauri wrote:
At 4/20/11 08:33 PM, SuperSilver123 wrote:
At 4/20/11 08:32 PM, Gobblemeister wrote: At no point in the paragraph did I see anything about your body releasing spores, growing seeminly vestigial, baby shaped masses, or you vomiting out a child.

Therefore you are not asexual.
This.

To be asexual, it means you can reproduce without having sexual intercourse.

You alien bitch.
Bleh Not the scientific definition. The urban definition.

Ohhhh. Youngsters these days...getting urban definitions.

Where was the place called? Urban Dictionary?

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:45:35 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:32 PM, Gobblemeister wrote: At no point in the paragraph did I see anything about your body releasing spores, growing seeminly vestigial, baby shaped masses, or you vomiting out a child.

Therefore you are not asexual.

There's a difference between asexuality and asexual reproduction.

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:46:15 Reply

In all honesty, it could be more of a good thing to be lacking sexual attraction. You don't have to get all depressed over sleeping alone every night, and if you do find yourself in love or attracted to someone you'll know it's the real deal.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 20:57:21 Reply

Hire a prostitute.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 21:09:55 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:36 PM, SuperSilver123 wrote:
Ohhhh. Youngsters these days...getting urban definitions.

im with you, screw the urban definitions, get the actual definitions.
Also, i like how you put this thread in your sig....

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 22:26:58 Reply

At 4/20/11 09:09 PM, Lionel738 wrote:
At 4/20/11 08:36 PM, SuperSilver123 wrote:
Ohhhh. Youngsters these days...getting urban definitions.
im with you, screw the urban definitions, get the actual definitions.
Also, i like how you put this thread in your sig....

Oh thank you...how kind of you to notice...


What?

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-20 22:32:35 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:32 PM, Gobblemeister wrote: At no point in the paragraph did I see anything about your body releasing spores, growing seeminly vestigial, baby shaped masses, or you vomiting out a child.

I thought it was pretty obviously implied.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 22:59:25 Reply

Well, even though I think it was a terrible decision to turn down sex with a girl, I consider you extremely lucky to be immune to the amount of cock-teasing in this world. I really wish I felt the same way as you.

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:02:15 Reply

Or you're a latent homosexual, just sayin, it happens. A lot of guys who find they have no interest in girls in their teenage years find out they're homosexual in their 20s or 30s.

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:05:36 Reply

Fab Aura
Not attracted to girls.
You're gay.

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:06:49 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:31 PM, Jedi-Master wrote: I think you're gay.

100% lol

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:07:13 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:30 PM, AlphaCentauri wrote: I think I lost my sex drive. I am rather sexually inexperienced, and I always thought I was just sheepish about doing anything with girls because I was afraid of being so bad at it, and thats probably how it started, but at this point I am seriously questioning if I even care anymore.

Same here.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:14:30 Reply

In response to the gay comments, sure maybe latent, but heres why I think not.

I've actually had a very bizarre experience where a gay guy must have thought the exact same thing. Long awkward story short, we were both incredibly embarrassed. When it came up at the time, the idea didn't even seem appealing to me, I didn't even consider it. So, I think not.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:15:54 Reply

I really doubt it.

On a side note, I think I'm becoming a platypus.

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:16:41 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:30 PM, AlphaCentauri wrote: Anyway, I know I'm posting this in a sea of posts about teenage male sexual issues. But discuss anyway.

If you were truly asexual, you wouldn't have even started fooling around with her. You're just apathetic about it, not asexual.

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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:24:17 Reply

I actually don't think your gay. What you most likely have is low testosterone making you not interested in sex assuming you have not been masterbaiting recently. You should consult your doctor and he should be able to prescribe you a testosterone booster. Good luck.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:27:05 Reply

At 4/20/11 08:32 PM, Gobblemeister wrote: At no point in the paragraph did I see anything about your body releasing spores, growing seeminly vestigial, baby shaped masses, or you vomiting out a child.

Therefore you are not asexual.

You don't quite understand that there are multiple meanings to Asexuality, do you, buddy?

"Asexual: Without sex or sexuality, in particular."


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:32:37 Reply

Go back in time and have sex with yourself. Maybe itll cure your asexuality.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:42:24 Reply

Asexual? You're able to reproduce by yourself? You're a wonder of modern medicine!


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:43:07 Reply

At 4/21/11 11:42 PM, JohnnyDamon wrote: Asexual? You're able to reproduce by yourself? You're a wonder of modern medicine!

Asexuality: Without sex or sexuality, in particular.

You people really need to stop being retarded, and shit.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-21 23:52:57 Reply

At 4/21/11 11:43 PM, Xavierthewarlord wrote:
At 4/21/11 11:42 PM, JohnnyDamon wrote: Asexual? You're able to reproduce by yourself? You're a wonder of modern medicine!
Asexuality: Without sex or sexuality, in particular.

You people really need to stop being retarded, and shit.

sex%u2002 %u2002
[seks]
-noun
1.
either the male or female division of a species, especially as differentiated with reference to the reproductive functions.

sex·u·al·i·ty%u2002 %u2002
[sek-shoo-al-i-tee or, especially Brit., seks-yoo-] Show IPA
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sexual character; possession of the structural and functional traits of sex.

Sounds like you need to eat your own advice bub.

Asexuality explicitly states that one has no sexuality, therefore, does not have an opposite sex to reproduce with. As seen in single cell organisms most often.

Read a book before you come in here trying to down others with your cool and edgy insults.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-22 00:11:00 Reply

Try sexing with someone with a penis, you might be just gay.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-22 00:19:17 Reply

At 4/21/11 11:52 PM, JohnnyDamon wrote:
At 4/21/11 11:43 PM, Xavierthewarlord wrote:
At 4/21/11 11:42 PM, JohnnyDamon wrote: Asexual? You're able to reproduce by yourself? You're a wonder of modern medicine!
Asexuality: Without sex or sexuality, in particular.

You people really need to stop being retarded, and shit.
sex%u2002 %u2002
[seks]
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1.
either the male or female division of a species, especially as differentiated with reference to the reproductive functions.

sex·u·al·i·ty%u2002 %u2002
[sek-shoo-al-i-tee or, especially Brit., seks-yoo-] Show IPA
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1.
sexual character; possession of the structural and functional traits of sex.

Sounds like you need to eat your own advice bub.

Asexuality explicitly states that one has no sexuality, therefore, does not have an opposite sex to reproduce with. As seen in single cell organisms most often.

Read a book before you come in here trying to down others with your cool and edgy insults.

Without sex or sexuality, in particular

Sexuality

1.Capacity for sexual feelings
- she began to understand the power of her sexuality

2.A person's sexual orientation or preference
- people with proscribed sexualities

Capacity for Sexual Feelings- Which he claims he dosen't have, or barley has any.

A person's sexual oreintation or prefrence.

More recently, Asexuality has been recognized as a Sexuality- Much like Homosexuality or Heterosexuality.

Thustly, Scientificaly, Asexuality is reproducing as a Single Celled Organisim. Socially, Asexuality is a lack of Sexual Urge or Wants, or complete lack of Sexual Orientation or Prefrence.

Another Asexual Defenition:

Asexuality (sometimes referred to as nonsexuality), in its broadest sense, is the lack of sexual attraction and/or the lack of interest in and desire for sex. Sometimes, it is considered a lack of a sexual orientation. One commonly cited study placed the prevalence of asexuality at 1%.

Asexuals, while typically lacking in sexual desire for either sex, may engage in purely emotional romantic relationships. Terms concerning this:

aromantic: lack of romantic attraction towards anyone of any gender
biromantic: romantic attraction towards person(s) of either gender
heteroromantic: romantic attraction towards person(s) of the opposite gender
homoromantic: romantic attraction towards person(s) of the same gender
panromantic: romantic attraction towards person(s) of any gender or lack of gender
transromantic: romantic attraction towards person(s) of variant or ambiguous gender
polyromantic: romantic attraction towards person(s) of more than one gender or sex but without implying, as biromantic does, that there are only two genders or sexes

Research is Hard, bro.


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Response to I think I'm becoming asexual. 2011-04-22 00:50:13 Reply

Hey look.

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