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If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:05 PM Reply

One of my best Pals died a few months ago, should i delet him from facebook? It's really sad and I miss him but am not sure what to do, he is never going to use facebook again and we are never going to speak again so i probably should delete him but it feels a bit harsh doing it, like i am rejecting his memory. I am not sure what to do. What would you do if you were me? Keep or delete?

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:07 PM Reply

The facebook account doesnt matter

what matters is if you remember him your own way. so either choice is right.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:09 PM Reply

Why does deleting him on Facebook matter exactly?

Holy fuck has a "Developed" society come down to this? Facebook apparently now plays a MAJOR part in life?

God I feel so lonely.

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:09 PM Reply

At 2/27/11 07:07 PM, MrPercie wrote: The facebook account doesnt matter

what matters is if you remember him your own way. so either choice is right.

Thanks I think your right, i will delelte him but keep him in my heart. Just hope his mother and brother dont think i am harsh for doing it. thanks

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:09 PM Reply

Let's pretend I use Facebook. If my friend died I doubt I could delete him. I would have the cursor on the delete button and probably start crying while I clicked. I'm sensitive.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:11 PM Reply

At 2/27/11 07:09 PM, SiMpSoN-bRuVaS wrote:
At 2/27/11 07:07 PM, MrPercie wrote: The facebook account doesnt matter

what matters is if you remember him your own way. so either choice is right.
Thanks I think your right, i will delelte him but keep him in my heart. Just hope his mother and brother dont think i am harsh for doing it. thanks

I wouldnt be surprised if they got angry, people these days take faceboook a little to serious at times but im sure they understand


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:11 PM Reply

At 2/27/11 07:09 PM, Urban-Champion wrote: Why does deleting him on Facebook matter exactly?

Holy fuck has a "Developed" society come down to this? Facebook apparently now plays a MAJOR part in life?

God I feel so lonely.

.... I spend about and hour everyday on facebook, so 356 hours a year like 15 days straight without sleep. It is a big part of my life so please dont make fun of it, It is a great way to socialise.

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:12 PM Reply

Do what you want; facebook doesn't matter


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:15 PM Reply

Either way will be a thoughtful choice in his memory.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:17 PM Reply

The question is: Why delete him? You can have limitless friends, so why does it matter?
Also, I'm very sorry for your loss.

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:21 PM Reply

I'd kep him on your facebook, just as a lil reminded of him all the time.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:21 PM Reply

I am sorry to hear about your friend. But, perhaps deleting him is also right. It's part of the "moving on" process. You're not rejecting him, the memories you have with the guy is more important than pictures and updates.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:22 PM Reply

man im down


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 07:23 PM Reply

At 2/27/11 07:17 PM, AioriaRox wrote: The question is: Why delete him? You can have limitless friends, so why does it matter?
Also, I'm very sorry for your loss.

Exactly ... He can never add you again, so keep him.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 08:04 PM Reply

By deleting him, do you mean deleting his account? If so, I suggest that you not have access to his account in the first place. This is, however, more likely if you want to keep him as a friend. I say you should probably do it as it would be a great way to honor his memory. I do not go to my Facebook profile that often, but I think this would be a nice gesture. I am sorry you lost someone so close to you.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 08:04 PM Reply

At 2/27/11 07:09 PM, hitman1993 wrote: Let's pretend I use Facebook. If my friend died I doubt I could delete him. I would have the cursor on the delete button and probably start crying while I clicked. I'm sensitive.

Fuck man, just keep him in your friendlist, I wouldn't be able to hold my tears as I trying to click the remove button


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 09:00 PM Reply

I think it would be better to keep him as a reminder.

One of my good friends got killed, and I still have her as a friend.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 09:01 PM Reply

Their facebook does not matter. What matters is how you remember them.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 09:02 PM Reply

Who cares, unless you're trying to get your friend count down I don't see what the big deal is. But I wouldn't, because you know, if you delete him from your friend's list, he can't accept you back.

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 09:05 PM Reply

At 2/27/11 07:05 PM, SiMpSoN-bRuVaS wrote: should i delet him from facebook?

You're a terrible friend for even debating this. Here, take this gun and off yourself.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 09:07 PM Reply

It was a hard decision but i have deleted him because there was no point in keeping him on there. Just hope his mum and my other friends understand. thanks guys

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 09:10 PM Reply

Those are people who died. Died.
They were all my friends, and they died.


Where's that confounded bridge?

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 09:15 PM Reply

troll is obvious troll, all of u fell for it.

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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 27th, 2011 @ 09:17 PM Reply

Like he fucking cares.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 28th, 2011 @ 07:58 AM Reply

Eh, facebook doesn't matter.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 28th, 2011 @ 07:59 AM Reply

At 2/27/11 07:05 PM, SiMpSoN-bRuVaS wrote: One of my best Pals died a few months ago, should i delet him from facebook? It's really sad and I miss him but am not sure what to do, he is never going to use facebook again and we are never going to speak again so i probably should delete him but it feels a bit harsh doing it, like i am rejecting his memory. I am not sure what to do. What would you do if you were me? Keep or delete?

Hack his Facebook and update his status saying he is dead. That way no one will think he is alive!


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 28th, 2011 @ 08:01 AM Reply

i'll be sad for what has happen but you shouldnt reject his memory like that


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 28th, 2011 @ 08:03 AM Reply

i would keep it for the slim chance that you need it for something or you get *gulp* amensia


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 28th, 2011 @ 08:49 AM Reply

Go ahead - I deleted my friend who passed away a number of months ago.
I still have my one friend who passed away two months or so ago, though.
Facebook shouldn't matter, it means nothing.


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Response to If you had a friend who died? Feb. 28th, 2011 @ 09:14 AM Reply

At 2/27/11 07:09 PM, Urban-Champion wrote: Why does deleting him on Facebook matter exactly?

Holy fuck has a "Developed" society come down to this? Facebook apparently now plays a MAJOR part in life?

God I feel so lonely.

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