Sparring fights in Ju-Jitsu i have been in way to many to count.
Real fights i have also been in many of those. Simply because when i was younger i was very very skinny, very very small, had very very BIG plastic glasses and also was raised not to take shit from people.
Before my friend started teaching me Jiu Jitsu
i did lose a few fights but i never have been in a fight where you could say i got my ass kicked. When i used to lose fights it was because the fight got broken up before i had a chance to do any damage or it was basically a stale mate because me and the other person were just rolling around on the ground breaking out of and putting each other in headlocks and stuff.
I was a very energetic and wiry kid so most of the people that would pick on me and get into a fight with me were much bigger thinking they could just punch me a few times or grab me and throw me and the fight would be over. But because i was so small i was also very quick and agile so unless the fight was in a small room i usually won.
To this day i hate fighting because of all the fighting i did when i was younger. I came to know the type of people that start fights and they sicken me. Anyone that believes that physical violence is a way to prove oneself, dominate socially or resolve and argument deserves any severity of beating they get. I'm a firm believer that most altercations can be solved with communication wether it be a calm talk or a rousing bout of cursing and insulting one mother wether she is alive or dead.