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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-03 23:00:20 Reply

I would want to.. but you know you might hate the person after you tangle with them and youll have bad memories

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-04 13:20:49 Reply

that compltly depends though. there is such thing as love at a young age, but its pretty rare.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-04 20:42:57 Reply

You don't know what love is when you are young. Most people go there whole lives and they never understand it. I don't think kids that are under 16 should date. They don't have much of a clue about love at all.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 03:43:14 Reply

So you think 6 year olds should date? I know a couple of families that allow this to happen.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 04:08:29 Reply

At 5/5/04 03:43 AM, FatherVenom wrote: So you think 6 year olds should date? I know a couple of families that allow this to happen.

He said no one under 16 should date.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 04:13:08 Reply

Oh my bad. Ok then why does dating have to be about love? Can't it be about practising a different type of relationship?

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 04:15:54 Reply

At 5/5/04 04:13 AM, FatherVenom wrote: Can't it be about practising a different type of relationship?

Either way, why should children practice it? That's perverse


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 09:39:14 Reply

At 5/4/04 08:42 PM, MasterGooie wrote: You don't know what love is when you are young. Most people go there whole lives and they never understand it. I don't think kids that are under 16 should date. They don't have much of a clue about love at all.

i dont think thats true at all. there can be love at a younger age, but i beleive it to be more dangerous when your younger, though. because if somthing goes wrong, then the whole world ends for awhile, if not forever.
It actualy happened to me.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 13:07:32 Reply

You'll never really know what it was until you are older and you know more about who you are. Monday Morning QBing should help you understand lost loves and what love means to you.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 13:17:40 Reply

At 5/5/04 04:15 AM, RedSkvnk wrote:
At 5/5/04 04:13 AM, FatherVenom wrote: Can't it be about practising a different type of relationship?
Either way, why should children practice it? That's perverse

I agree, but I don't see why teenagers shouldn't be dating.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 19:39:36 Reply

the problem with ahveing sex when your under 18 is that you probably have no idea how to take care of the baby and you might have a birth difuct

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 19:49:02 Reply

At 5/5/04 01:17 PM, FatherVenom wrote: I agree, but I don't see why teenagers shouldn't be dating.

Because they are children, and shouldn't be partaking in sexual gratification.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 20:02:50 Reply

At 5/5/04 07:49 PM, RedSkvnk wrote:
At 5/5/04 01:17 PM, FatherVenom wrote: I agree, but I don't see why teenagers shouldn't be dating.
Because they are children, and shouldn't be partaking in sexual gratification.

Very true. Nowadays, kids are having sex at younger and younger ages than we did. However, we don't know that all young couples have sex on the brain, but most do.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 23:12:32 Reply

Dating and sex are two different things.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 23:14:56 Reply

At 5/5/04 11:12 PM, FatherVenom wrote: Dating and sex are two different things.

But what's the point of dating? The chances of illicit child sex skyrocket.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 23:19:14 Reply

At 5/5/04 11:12 PM, FatherVenom wrote: Dating and sex are two different things.

Or at least should be. It was years ago, but now it seems that if you don't get to get it on on the first date or even getogether, a relationship is a complete and total failure.

And that's because most youths are dense idiots.

I've got a condom!
I've got the pill!
Let's just get funky here in your dorm!
Ok! Even though I've known you for maybe just a few days!
<weeks later>
What? I've got AIDS? I'd better press murder charges against that slut.
What? I'm pregant? I'd better get an abortion, because I just wanted sex, not a baby!


So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains, and we never even know we had the key...

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 23:42:20 Reply

At 5/5/04 11:14 PM, RedSkvnk wrote: But what's the point of dating? The chances of illicit child sex skyrocket.

Having fun times with a member of the opposite sex to whom you are especially attracted.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 23:45:21 Reply

At 5/5/04 11:42 PM, FatherVenom wrote: Having fun times with a member of the opposite sex to whom you are especially attracted.

"having fun". I know what that means to you kids now. I've seen the specials on "60 Minutes" about blowjobs on the schoolbus! You can't get anything past me!


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 23:46:28 Reply

At 5/5/04 11:42 PM, FatherVenom wrote: Having fun times with a member of the opposite sex to whom you are especially attracted.

well yeah. and you dont nessicarily have to have "sex" with somone your dating. depending on the people, if you've been dating for a longer period of time, then there is chances of different kinds of pleasure. Or maybe just more comfort.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 23:53:39 Reply

I for one enjoy playing drinking games and watching movies with my girlfriend.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-05 23:55:55 Reply

drinking games arnt to bad, i dont drink to often though. I dont currently have a girlfriend right now though. I have had some, but usualy when im with a more serious one, we chill on the couch together and relax, when we are just at eachothers houses or whatever.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-06 15:32:00 Reply

At 5/5/04 11:45 PM, RedSkvnk wrote:
At 5/5/04 11:42 PM, FatherVenom wrote: Having fun times with a member of the opposite sex to whom you are especially attracted.
"having fun". I know what that means to you kids now. I've seen the specials on "60 Minutes" about blowjobs on the schoolbus!

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww.... wwwwwww. Yeah, kids today know a lot more about sex than most of us at that age. Dating today----->sex

You can't get anything past me!

Not true

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-09 15:36:19 Reply

hey gooie, that is pretty true. Im living in this generation, and as a teenager (a freshman at that) i know of a lot of things people who are dating (not even serious couple) do, that years ago you would either have to pay serious money to do, or you would be married, or it would be the whole "love" issue.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-09 17:37:32 Reply

At 5/6/04 03:32 PM, MasterGooie wrote: Dating today----->sex

That's not totally justified. This past weekend my girlfiend and I slept together, but that doesn't mean we had sex or that we plan to in he future. I know this isn't an isolated incident and maybe it's not even the norm, but I'm willing to bet that the cynic in me is blowing the whole thing out of proportion. Granted I may not be the best example in the world considering my first semester at college, but I wasn't dating any of those girls so I hardly think that counts.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-09 21:15:37 Reply

well yeah, you dont always have sex if your sleeping with somone. its happened to a lot of people who have slept with the person they were seeing. but usualy that happens what it is in a deeper stage of the relationship, i have found.


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-10 02:47:47 Reply

At 5/9/04 09:15 PM, Fiend_Lore wrote: but usualy that happens what it is in a deeper stage of the relationship

Except for hookers and some college students.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-10 09:59:16 Reply

why are there a lot of hookers around the campus?


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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-10 10:01:49 Reply

No, but there is an abundance of young women looking for parties, and other things.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-10 10:32:44 Reply

Bad memories are apart of what make us human. If at that moment you feel its right then do it. Regretting is apart of life, especially growing up. Sometimes thinking too much loses a moment that could have changed your entire life. The most important this is to act safe about things. Be cautious and always expect the worst.

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Response to young premarital sex 2004-05-10 10:38:54 Reply

At 5/5/04 04:13 AM, FatherVenom wrote: Oh my bad. Ok then why does dating have to be about love? Can't it be about practising a different type of relationship?

Dating is about love no matter how un-involved it may be. Deep down inside we all think of finding that one person to be with forever even if it doesn’t seem to play out that way.