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Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:38:13 Reply

Well Newgrounds. Here's the story.

It all started whenever I was 14. I met a girl who to me, was very special. She was always a close friend to me and I adored her. Around the turn of 9th grade she started dating a guy on and off for about two years. He mistreated her all the time. Cheated on her all the time. Was just an overall dick to her. They finally broke up for good about a month ago. I was always there for her when this guy would fuck her over, and I was there whenever she finally decided to break it off. I was always there for her when she needed me. She tells me she loves me and how important I am to her and how much I helped her out. I did it all out of the goodness of my heart, I really cared about her.

Today, I found out my friend talks to her behind my back and that she asked him to homecoming. And he agreed. He was gonna go behind my back and take this girl, and one of my other friends told me about it. He knew that I cared about her very much. That I always liked her. I told him to make a decision. He never replied to me or anything.

So i'm sitting here. Idk what to do. Be pissed at her for asking him to homecoming, or be pissed at him for goin behind my back? Or fuck em both?

Comments NG?

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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:41:55 Reply

At 9/17/10 07:38 PM, BrandonXDD wrote: Or fuck em both?

Sure, why not. You mean literally right?


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:43:21 Reply

This is what we call being "friend zoned".


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:44:04 Reply

That's what you get for being nice to people.

It gets you no where.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:45:32 Reply

i shall give instruction.

1. meet traitor
2. cock fist back, and yell " FAAAALLLCOONN...."
3.discharge nassive amount of pwn into traitors mouth, and finish with " PUNNCHHHH!!!"
4. go home.

NOTE: if done correctly, a flaming bird will appear out of fist and into target.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:45:33 Reply

At 9/17/10 07:44 PM, Sinitech wrote: That's what you get for being nice to people.

It gets you no where.

seems like it. I be nice, and i get shit on for it.

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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:46:24 Reply

Well dude, do yourself a favour! EXIT THE FRIENDS ZONE. You have to accept that shes a bitch and has assigned you with the role of emotional tampon! That is what you are yo her, she thinks of you as girlfriend, because thats what you are to her.

Accept it, your not going any further with her. THEN! find another girl Im sure your a handsome guy and with a great personality so make the most of it! Your still a kid dont be in a hurry to grow up have fun :)


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:48:23 Reply

At 9/17/10 07:43 PM, BluePikmin wrote: This is what we call being "friend zoned".

That is, You should have ask her out years ago! Why didn't you ask her to go to Homecoming with you?!! Idiot!!


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:50:39 Reply

Don't be angry with your friend, because you were too pussy to ask her out yourself.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:51:58 Reply

That sucks man... but to be honest it's your fault for not making a move.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:56:11 Reply

At 9/17/10 07:46 PM, tatsumaru7 wrote: You have to accept that shes a bitch and has assigned you with the role of emotional tampon!

lol Emotional tampon I like that one.
btw OP you should have manned up and asked her out ages ago. You can't just call dibs on her but never go out with her.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 19:58:18 Reply

personally, I think that you should make her your sexual servant


cocks.

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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 20:01:46 Reply

It sounds to me that she may have told you that she loved you in the sense of the love for a friend without the romantic connotation. Thus, she hasn't done anything wrong by asking your friend out to homecoming seeing as the two of you aren't in a relationship. If you really want this relationship to move forwards, then ask her to be your girlfriend before your friend does.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 20:09:19 Reply

Be pissed at yourself for being a spineless twat who was too much of a pussy to ask her yourself.

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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 20:18:00 Reply

At 9/17/10 07:45 PM, wizardofthehood wrote: i shall give instruction.
meet traitor ... (insert) cock ... discharge massive amount of pwn into traitors mouth.

This is why I wanted to be an editor. Also the same reason why they wouldn't let me.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 20:19:16 Reply

At 9/17/10 08:18 PM, NeverHundred wrote:
At 9/17/10 07:45 PM, wizardofthehood wrote: i shall give instruction.
meet traitor ... (insert) cock ... discharge massive amount of pwn into traitors mouth.
This is why I wanted to be an editor. Also the same reason why they wouldn't let me.

LMAO. id let you, dude XD


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 21:19:13 Reply

Yes you can call them your friends. Acts of love will always be seen as the right decision and the more mature choice over those of hate or vengeance.

However, you shouldn't trust them as much now if you know they knew that it would make you feel this way.

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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 21:33:58 Reply

That I always licked her out. I told him to make a decision. He never replied to me or anything.

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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 21:38:59 Reply

Eh, I guess you just suck it up, and let it go...this time.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 21:40:41 Reply

At 9/17/10 07:45 PM, BrandonXDD wrote:
At 9/17/10 07:44 PM, Sinitech wrote: That's what you get for being nice to people.

It gets you no where.
seems like it. I be nice, and i get shit on for it.

Remember: Good is not nice.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 22:18:49 Reply

Well, you shoulda asked HER to homecoming, or hell, were you two even together at any point? Just because she says she likes or even loves you, doesn't mean she'll be with you forever. That's just how women are these days. If you're not up to their speed, then the relationship may not be so great.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 22:20:39 Reply

I think you're in a situation where two people just don't appreciate you enough.

Sadly, this type of situation with a girl is extremely common


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 22:29:29 Reply

If they get married and have kids, rape there kids and there wife.

Then HIDE YO KIDS!
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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 22:54:48 Reply

hmm, bummer

Can I call them my friends?


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 23:02:15 Reply

this is what I like to call, Being shit outta luck. well it's up to you to decide what to do, but I would try talking about this with him first, then if he's being a douche, talk to her, if she's a bitch, they don't deserve to be acosiated with you, if they're understanding, try to explain to them that your hurt, and that you love her. but of corse this could all back fire. I dunno man, like I said, your decision.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 23:02:50 Reply

At 9/17/10 07:38 PM, BrandonXDD wrote: Well Newgrounds. Here's the story.

It all started whenever I was 14. I met a girl who to me, was very special.

Girls, there are alot of them... and they are all crazy, so... she wasnt special... you are

She was always a close friend to me and I adored her.

your in the friend zone....

Around the turn of 9th grade she started dating a guy on and off for about two years. He mistreated her all the time. Cheated on her all the time. Was just an overall dick to her. They finally broke up for good about a month ago. I was always there for her when this guy would fuck her over, and I was there whenever she finally decided to break it off. I was always there for her when she needed me. She tells me she loves me and how important I am to her and how much I helped her out. I did it all out of the goodness of my heart, I really cared about her.

your in the friend zone, dealing with made up drama, girls like the bad boy, the bad you is honestly ususally just some retard, well not retarded like you actually more dumb, girls like agressive more dumb guys, also rough sex and rape


Today, I found out my friend talks to her behind my back and that she asked him to homecoming. And he agreed. He was gonna go behind my back and take this girl, and one of my other friends told me about it. He knew that I cared about her very much. That I always liked her. I told him to make a decision. He never replied to me or anything.

Dude chiks a man eater and your friend is probably more funny or less fat then you, its sad but its life youll get past it gorw facial hair and bang 2 chicks at once in collage while doing lines,

So i'm sitting here. Idk what to do. Be pissed at her for asking him to homecoming, or be pissed at him for goin behind my back? Or fuck em both?

Comments NG?

blow lots and lots of blow, you know if you cut a mcdonalds(tm) straw on an angle... well youll find out...

so yeah your futre is gonna be awesome....


ever mistake a spoon for a straw and try and sip it ?

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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-17 23:14:28 Reply

At 9/17/10 07:38 PM, BrandonXDD wrote: It all started whenever I was 14.

well, the NG status you have at the moment doesn't include anything about your age.

Or fuck em both?

Yes. They can't even be considered "acquaintances" with honor.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-18 00:38:33 Reply

F.H.A.K.E

Fuck Her And Kill Everything
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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-18 00:45:12 Reply

To be honest.. You snooze you lose.

If you want to be with this girl why oh why haven't you made it painfully clear that you want to be? Girls aren't thw quickest on when guys like them, not really. She'll see you forever as the awesome male friend she can turn to whenever if you don't let her know that you want more. Seriously you're stuck in the caring, nice male best friend job. Get used to seeing this girl with other guys as it will keep happening unless you speak up.

As for your male friend? You should be mad at him completely. Not just the fact that he intends to date someone he knows you like alot, but the fact that he had the cheek to do it behind your back without asking you beforehand how you felt on the subject.. That's a bad friend.


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Response to Can I call them my friends? 2010-09-18 00:49:37 Reply

Get another date for your friend. Then tell the girl that you like her RIGHT before homecoming and explain all your emotions, fabricate some mushy ones to add to the effect. She will feel conflicted but will decide to go with your friend anyways. Now offer to take your friend to homecoming so you can hang out for a bit before he goes with the girl. This is the important part. As soon as you see the girl come in have the date you got for your friend to get all up on your friend, you know sexually, grinding and shit. Once she sees it she'll be devastated. And just like that they'll be broken up. As she cries console her and most likely she'll lean in for a kiss, kiss her. Take her back to your place after homecoming and get romantic, eventually you'll start making out and then, sex. Bang her like no other, give her the best night of your life, make sure you don't come first. Lay down in your bed then promptly tell the bitch to get out of your motherfucking house because she's the ugliest thing in the world.

Your friend is fucked and the girl is depressed

PROBLEM SOLVED


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