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Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 10:43:16 Reply

So I have this girl I have been best friends with for a year. We talk about everything and are basically super close. But I have a girlfriend I have been going out with for 5 months. So Me and the girl that is my best friend hang out a lot. I haven't told my girlfriend this. I'm not cheating on my girlfriend and never would. But is it wrong to hang out with my best friend? I have known the girl that is my best friend for a lot longer than my girlfriend. Advice anyone?

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 10:44:24 Reply

It is not wrong at all. If your girlfriend has a problem with it, she's probably a jealous bitch anyway.

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 10:46:44 Reply

If your girlfriend can't realize that you and that girl are just friends then I would dump her. When someone is jealous in a relationship it makes both people miserable.


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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 10:46:56 Reply

Damn, beat me to it.


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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 10:50:49 Reply

So if my girlfriend has a problem with it, then dump her?

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 10:52:36 Reply

At 8/15/10 10:50 AM, DocDanger wrote: So if my girlfriend has a problem with it, then dump her?

Well, that's your choice, but I would.

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 10:52:40 Reply

At 8/15/10 10:50 AM, DocDanger wrote: So if my girlfriend has a problem with it, then dump her?

Exactly. If she's a jealous bitch then she's just going to turn your life upside down if you keep her for too long. Just start telling some stories about what you and your friend do together, like funny stuff you've said, and see what she thinks.


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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:00:32 Reply


Exactly. If she's a jealous bitch then she's just going to turn your life upside down if you keep her for too long. Just start telling some stories about what you and your friend do together, like funny stuff you've said, and see what she thinks.

That might start an apocalypse.

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:05:39 Reply

No your not doing anything wrong


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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:12:04 Reply

If your gf has a problem with that then chuck her.


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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:12:52 Reply

Are you guys sure?

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:21:48 Reply

At 8/15/10 11:12 AM, DocDanger wrote: Are you guys sure?

Yes. You wouldn't be expected to stop talking to your guys friends, so why should you stop talking to your female friends? Don't ruin a long friendship for a short relationship.

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:35:45 Reply

dude, to hell with girlfriends. just get friends with benefits. i've gone on three dates with three different girls this week, it beats trying to keep yourself from cheating by a long shot.

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:39:51 Reply

I used to have the same problem as you. Then I told my girl that there was nothing going on between my and my friend. Told her how it was and that's that. Everything's fine. Might not work for every girl though.

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:50:51 Reply

At 8/15/10 10:43 AM, DocDanger wrote: So I have this girl I have been best friends with for a year. We talk about everything and are basically super close. But I have a girlfriend I have been going out with for 5 months. So Me and the girl that is my best friend hang out a lot. I haven't told my girlfriend this. I'm not cheating on my girlfriend and never would. But is it wrong to hang out with my best friend? I have known the girl that is my best friend for a lot longer than my girlfriend. Advice anyone?

You are not wrong, she should trust you that you won't cheat on her, and trust your word that to are just friends, if she can't trust you then it's not worth keeping the girlfriend.


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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 11:56:13 Reply

If she can't accept you are just friends and is paranoid about it, you should just dump her. And if mentioning your close female friend in conversation starts an apocalypse, definitely dump her. My ex wasn't exactly jealous, but she was paranoid. And it gets very annoying, because no matter how well you treat them, they always assume your talking to some other girl or trying to get with somebody else. Don't do that to yourself.

Think about the inverse- Would you expect her to stay with you if you told her she couldn't hang out with her best guy friend? Even after she repeatedly told you he was just a really close friend?

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Response to Am I in the wrong? 2010-08-15 12:00:23 Reply

No, you are not wrong. She'll just have to understand that you 2 are friends.
I personally wouldn't like it if my friend's girlfriend doesn't like me because I hang out to much with him, because I am just a "threat" to her. If she has problems with that, she can talk to me and I can explain her things.

Friends forever I say?!