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well..... i think you should tell her how you feel. NOT TOO FAST, OK!!! besides, HO CARES WAT OTHER PEPLE THINK?!?! Do watyou tink is right. (I should know)

Just don't puke on her. That's a definite no no.

At 8/13/10 10:35 AM, NervousGuy wrote: Go for it. Be confident about it. Even if you're not confident faking confidence will make people think you're confident.

i c wat you did thar.

OT: You should probably become friends with her and then ask her out.

Ask her out. Frankly, it's your choice anyways.

if you expect this to get answered without getting trolled go to yahoo answers

You're not supposed to 'ask women out'. You're supposed to tell them that you're going to do this awesome and fun thing this upcoming weekend and they should join you because otherwise they'll be stuck doing something boring or nothing at all.

Or, y'know, you can pussy-foot around it and since the girl is equally as immature and insecure as you maybe she'll go for it anyway.

At 8/13/10 01:59 PM, toad77777 wrote: if you expect this to get answered without getting trolled go to yahoo answers

AAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA no

At 8/13/10 02:09 PM, Evark wrote: You're not supposed to 'ask women out'. You're supposed to tell them that you're going to do this awesome and fun thing this upcoming weekend and they should join you because otherwise they'll be stuck doing something boring or nothing at all.

Or, y'know, you can pussy-foot around it and since the girl is equally as immature and insecure as you maybe she'll go for it anyway.

This, and, unless your in 1-7 grade, giving a girl a box of chocolates will give you a "Aww, how cute" instead of the response you want. I also incredably suggest you try to make freinds with her. Or that other girl, it may be easier since your lockers are next to eachother. Start small conversation, a quick hello and a name change, just dont push too far, ala, "Hey thats a cool backpack/shirt/binder, I listen to that band/watch that show all the time" is a great conversation starter, but saying "hi im *name here* whats your name" is usualy a bad one. And whatever you do, dont be a foolish joe untill you have known her for at least a month or so.

Above all else, just remeber to NEVER ask a girl on a date without knowing them. 75% failure. Also, dont have your freind push you or anything, thats corny, cheesy, and makes you look like a tool. So do chocolates. And flowers.

... Well the only advice I can give you is to fake confidence . Don't give her chocolates . And Drop A few Hints ... After about a day or so Ask her out. maybe a Week . Just stare at her constantly . make sure she catches you looking and look away. just little stuff like that up until , you ask her out.

Because if she doesn't know who the hell you are and you come out of left field from no man's land , most likely you aren't gonna like the answer you get .
Hell their may even be girls giving you hints , that you arn't even aware of but meh i dont know your situation to well . so just go for it.

At 8/13/10 10:32 AM, Sekhem wrote: someone lacks confidence

pretty much this
Don't ask strangers on Newgrounds
If you have the guts just do it man

First, you should probably invest in some testicles

do it ya fucking pansy...

At 8/13/10 10:30 AM, MorningAlligator wrote:

I'm not really worried as such of her saying no and rejecting me, i'm more worried of the after-math, what if she would tell people,what if it would become awkward being around her.

Yes, do it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Don't play it safe, just go for it.

I've never asked anyone out but still,I know a bit.Try to get to know her.Like, if you walk home,walk close to her if she has a circle of friends around her,and try to eavesdrop.If they ask you why you're so close think of an excuse, like "There's a boy that's really disgusting back there," or "I wanted to look at your notebook or something like that.Then,try to practice a bit before asking her out,so if you have female friends,practice with them.The, confidently walk up to her and spark up a conversation so you can become friends.Then, ask her out to something,because sooner or later you'll have a good enough relationship for her to know maybe that you've become a good enough friend that she might wanna become your boyfriend,and if she doesn't ask,you could say it, (in the way I say if you can't think of anything) "I've been thinking you've been quite nice for a while,so maybe you wanna step it up a bit,ya know."And most likely she'll say yes.

I don't support having a backup plan. :P Go with whoever you feel right with. If not talking to her enough is going to be a worry, she's probably not right.

GET TO KNOW HER BETTER!
Yeah, take her out and get to know her first. If you like her then just go out with her, if not well just act like a friend.

At 8/13/10 10:30 AM, MorningAlligator wrote:
I never really liked her that much before, I had my eyes on another girl, but for some reason today randomly I started becoming attracted to the other girl.

TODAY, you started becoming attracted to her? That's the first strike...

I'm not really worried as such of her saying no and rejecting me, i'm more worried of the after-math, what if she would tell people,what if it would become awkward being around her.

Worried about rejection in such a way tells me you're in middle school. But whatever. I wont judge your cowardice.

I am going to get a friend to help me and I am going to try and ask her out while she is alone to save her from the embarrassment of being around her friends while I ask her out.

You're getting a FRIEND to help you? When she's alone? You're taking this way too seriously. It's not a marrige proposal. It's a date.

Another thing i'm worried about is if she does say yes that what if I end up no talking to her enough... what if i'm to shy to go up to her.

I've honestly not heard this one before... If you love somebody, that's not a problem.

I highly doubt she would come asking me out herself...

Well duh.

The other girl
There is always plan B if things don't go so well, I should go for the other girl who I originally had my eyes on until today, I did start to loose interest a while ago but then one day she kept giving me these looks as if she liked me...

A plan B? What the hell? Is having a girlfriend absolutely imperative to your survival? Jesus...

The reason I never asked her out was because her locker is right next to mine and it is a rather cramped locker space so if she said NO... then I am going to have to deal with huge awkwardness for the whole school year...

Ya know what... Wow... I'll just skip to the conclusion now...

You're too young and your motivations are terrible. Go ahead and ask her out, but it'll end in disaster within a month. I guarantee it.

I can't believe someone asked the General Forum for dating advice and didn't get even one "Rape her" response.

Ask her best friend out and make her completely blow off the chick you like. Chicks always have a plan to stab their friends in the back, usually by sleeping with each others boyfriends.

Or just ask her out. Even if she says no, after a couple weeks the awkwardness will be gone unless you start stalking her.

Would you rather sit there and have nothing happen at all, then find yourself years later regretting not asking her out, or would you ask her out and maybe have something happen!

Even if it is a 'No' that will help you gain the courage to ask her more often or maybe even ask that other girl out, so do it.

Even though it may be remembered for a few weeks, it will die out after a short time, people will forget and only bring it up no even very often

Go for it dude. Just be all natural, don't be awkward, if you know what I mean. If she does say no, who cares? It's not the end of your life. You only live once.

At 8/13/10 10:30 AM, MorningAlligator wrote: There is some girl I really want to ask out...

Grrrr.....

At 8/13/10 12:20 PM, estrago1 wrote: Go up to her when she's alone (probably after school if possible) and ask, "Would like to see a movie with me this weekend?" That may be a little straightforward, so you may want to hint at it a little more. Now, before the date, you should try to find out what some of her interests are. Then you'll have something to talk about besides the movie.

If asking her out right away doesn't sit right with you, then talk to her some more and get to know her a little. Then ask her out. Then the date won't be as awkward; you already know each other; you both know a little about each other; and you enjoy each others' company.

This.

Although really, having a girlfriend is sort of overrated. Yeah, it's fun, but you don't need one, and judging by your post, you're not mature enough for one anyway. Stop taking shit so seriously.

At 8/13/10 11:14 AM, MorningAlligator wrote: Bump
I guess you are kinda right, it's better to ask and try rather then wait and never find out...

OH YOU INEPT SONOFABITCH.

ALRIGHT LOOK; if you're going to hit on a girl, YOU NEED TO HIT ON HER BEFORE ASKING HER OUT. This step is more simple than you might figure.

1. Have something to offer: Are you making a damn pizza? Ask if she has mad pizza making skills. Key is: Friendly, non creepy question. Also note that it is almost always best to introduce yourself with a handshake when applicable; it's appealing to most people.
2. Get friendly. Just keep talking and be like you like to be. Introverted? Talk less -OR- get used to it fast!
3. Get a phone number or other contact info when it feels VERY COMFORTABLE.
4. Don't forget to flirt! Give flirty glances and make sure she knows your not there to just be friends. If the attractions there, it's easy. If it isn't, it's not working out unless you get her feeling more friendly.

Good luck! My AIM is Hotyak and I'm rather good at this. This guide is in no way comprehensive.

Oh and yeah, go for it.

Thanks for all the tips guys, I hope this goes well!

Got some bad news...
You know how I was trying to ask her alone?

Now shes started hanging out with a bigger group of friends... This will be highly embarssing and hard to do...

STALK HER! FOLLOW HER HOME! FIND WHERE SHE LIVES AND LIVE NEXT DOOR!

Anyway...

But you have to take the chance. If you fail you get embarrassed. If you can stay calm (Unlike me) get your friends to do it, and if she says no, pretend that you didn't ask them to do it, get them to say it was a joke. If she says yes, just go with it.

At 8/21/10 07:22 AM, MorningAlligator wrote: Got some bad news...
You know how I was trying to ask her alone?

Now shes started hanging out with a bigger group of friends... This will be highly embarssing and hard to do...

Get her alone you fucking terrible excuse for a boy.