Friends with Benifits.

[gr33k-prty-b0y]

Gotta admit, I've had an opportunity recently for friends with benifits. If you guys don't know friends with benefits is basically having a close friend where you can get as close as u want with em or do things you would normally do in a relationship without the actually attachments of being bf/gf so kinda like a open relationship.

Problem with it is im not sure if it's gonna just start leading to shit and fuck up everything. What's your thoughts on it guys and have u guys had an experience like that.

[Gobblemeister]

If the buttsex becomes a little too personal then it's best to break it off

Because that means it's just going to end badly

[Faintly]

Don't you want an sexbuddy?

[gr33k-prty-b0y]

At 6/15/10 03:43 AM, Farafor wrote: Don't you want an sexbuddy?

Don't get me wrong the sex is good xD just can fuck up a reputation or it could start getting weird ><

[Platypus]

i say do it, thats the good thing about it, you dont have to worry about emotions or anything

[GreenLanturn]

Most often in every situation like that someone starts to catch feelings on either side or both sides. This most often leads to jealousy when someone is with someone else as if they have claim to who they're with or what they're doing. The alternative is that someone does meet someone else and really wants to make it work and thus ends the friends with benefits and the other person isn't happy.

Possible that it could last as long as it does with no problems and good times, however unlikely.

[gr33k-prty-b0y]

Yeah me and the chick have been there before but that was a one off thing at the time and it was fine afterwards so I might try it out, if things get weird ill just talk to her about it

[GreenLanturn]

At 6/15/10 03:51 AM, gr33k-prty-b0y wrote: Yeah me and the chick have been there before but that was a one off thing at the time and it was fine afterwards so I might try it out, if things get weird ill just talk to her about it

Hey friends with benefits is always good while it's lasting or going on. The options you have to weigh with that is what happens afterwards which can be the thing to leave it as friends.

Because if things go sour you may possibly lose a really good friend. Or say you start to have feelings and they're not returned, but you stay cool. Now you are gonna be left with them most likely not wanting to continue that relationship and you have to suck up seeing or knowing they have this relationship with someone else or that they are legitimately with someone that is not you.

Helps to step back from the situation to give you a more realistic aspect of it and then make a decision from there.

[Cootie]

Leave it as just sex and you should be fine. Never fuck it up by pursuing a romantic relationship. You have a good thing going don't fuck it up.

[Platypus]

At 6/15/10 04:13 AM, Yamor wrote: Leave it as just sex and you should be fine. Never fuck it up by pursuing a romantic relationship. You have a good thing going don't fuck it up.

This.

[TheSongSalad]

I had a relationship that ended because the girl was transferring schools across the city. We still hung out and fooled around, and it was a really great relationship for a while, but then I hung out with her when she was with someone else she was interested in. I didn't really think I was the jealous type, but it really pissed me off to see her with someone else.

I'm not telling you to not go for it, but I'm just saying she's not the only one who could end up jealous. I totally thought I'd be cool with it, but I guess I started liking her too much.

[SuzpektClean]

Soon you will learn to realize F W B is the path of rightouesness. It only makes sense man!

[Psil0]

I could use a "friend with benefits"/fuck buddy right now. Ever since my girlfriend broke up with me, I haven't had sex in about a month. And she broke up with me just right before I wanted to have sex too.

[elace]

Id rather have a girlfriend then a fuck buddy. Ive had both but the fuck buddy had to stop becuase she had 2 or 3 other fuck buddies so that had to go but a girl is all yours and u dont have to worry bout cheating if you get one thats not a hoe.

[Psil0]

At 6/15/10 06:40 AM, elace wrote: Id rather have a girlfriend then a fuck buddy. Ive had both but the fuck buddy had to stop becuase she had 2 or 3 other fuck buddies so that had to go but a girl is all yours and u dont have to worry bout cheating if you get one thats not a hoe.

This is true for me, but right now I just want to get sex out of my way and off my mind, so what I need is just a fuck buddy. I don't want to be super aroused the first time I'm with whomever my next relationship is with.