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The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 12:35 PM Reply

Recently I was dumped by the girl of my dreams... She was the best thing that ever happened to me. I know im too young to say I loved her, but nonetheless, it's a very intense feeling. We were very happy together... we never fought... we had the same interests... we had hour long meaningful discussions over nothing... all was well. but emotional circumstance drove her to make a decision, one that i ultimately respect. a few days after the breakup, I sent her a note... Anyways. The point im making here on NG, is that the best break up is a mature, clean break up, no arguments gainst it. Here is the note i sent her...

Tori,

I'll always be here for you... I just wanted you to know that. Just to let you know once more, I respect your decision. Maybe sometime in the future we can pick up where we left off... just don't do anything to break my heart in the meantime if you would, for it is still somehow intact. I'm not saying that you leaving me didn't sadden me or bring tears to my eyes... but I realize that a relationship is sometimes a two faced coin... sometimes you gotta call it tails and accept the outcome. But I have to say, I did enjoy our time together, and I will remember it for years and years to come. I'm sorry we couldn't see each other very often, and I might have been a bit clingy at times, but I tried to work on it, all thanks to you. You taught me the meaning of a relationship... it's not what you want, it's what they want. I mean, I always tried to please you, to make you happy, but I'm guessing that wasn't enough to distract you from your previous life's experiences, which was my ultimate downfall. And maybe if this would have happened maybe a moth or two later, you might have been able to solve your problems and we could have been together guilt-free. I know you said to not lay blame upon myself, but I can't help but say it is partially my fault. Before this happened, I knew you weren't ready for a relationship, you told me so and yet I allowed it to happen. If i could, I'd go back to that moment where we decided to start a relationship, and tell you that you aren't ready, and maybe another time. It might devastate you... maybe even turn you off me forever, but at least you wouldn't have to suffer the heartache over me as well as anybody else in your life. I hate to see you suffer, and if i could prevent it, even at my own expense and harm, I would prevent it from ever happening. Please forgive me, both for that and for writing this... I hope this note will not sadden you in any way. And don't hate me. Please. I still want to be your friend, feelings aside. The least I can do is when I'm around you or talking to you, I can pretend I don't have those feelings, but they will be there regardless. I will always have you in me heart... And, even if that momentous occasion when you get your life straight occurs and you decide a relationship in your life would be a valid choice, I hope I am there to be there for you... to hold you... to tell you everything will be okay in life... to share your glowing aura with the world. I miss you... and nothing will ever change that. Always remember...

Love, Dylan

Tell me what you think of this... both the note, and your opinion on breakups.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 12:40 PM Reply

thanks... it was rather hard to send...


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 12:45 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 12:35 PM, phlamingkorndawg wrote: ...a moth or two later...

Moth??

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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 12:48 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 12:45 PM, Lucian-MK-IV wrote:
At 3/23/10 12:35 PM, phlamingkorndawg wrote: ...a moth or two later...
Moth??

strangely... that... cheered me up? unexpected but ok :)


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 12:59 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 12:46 PM, wtflolnoob wrote:
At 3/23/10 12:40 PM, phlamingkorndawg wrote: thanks... it was rather hard to send...
These kind of things always are. My current girlfriend sent me a letter that she was writing to herself with no intention to send. It was very embarrassing for her but I thought it was really cute and I sent her a similar one back.

She knows what it's like, there's no doubt that she'll read it and smile.

Well, I wish this note was under the same circumstances, unfortunately it is not. but im glad to hear it :) we exchanged noted all the time... each one sweeter than the last


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 01:04 PM Reply

I think this is the most applicable thing I ever read.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 01:09 PM Reply

Touching story.

Good luck on getting her back, if she doesn't, time heals all wounds.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 01:11 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 01:04 PM, Tribalfusion-X wrote: I think this is the most applicable thing I ever read.

applicable? i thought i had a good vocab... i had to look that up xP but ah. i think i covered everything... no loops or flaws as i see it.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 01:21 PM Reply

Aside from the 'moth' bit i think that was a very heartfelt and honest letter to send. At least there are still some good people in the world. I hope evrything goes well for you man.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 01:26 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 12:35 PM, phlamingkorndawg wrote:

Tell me what you think of this... both the note, and your opinion on breakups.

Well, I think that it was REALLY gay. My suggestion is you stuff her in the trunk of your car and drive off a cliff.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 01:28 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 01:26 PM, Fineas wrote:
At 3/23/10 12:35 PM, phlamingkorndawg wrote:

Tell me what you think of this... both the note, and your opinion on breakups.
Well, I think that it was REALLY gay. My suggestion is you stuff her in the trunk of your car and drive off a cliff.

LOL, im sorry, i laughed out loud at that. right after i read what you sad, i read you signature, and... lmao! respect women, eh?


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 02:00 PM Reply

It was good, very sweet.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 02:11 PM Reply

Well it wasn't the worst thing i ever read.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 03:15 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 01:09 PM, RuinedMartyr wrote: Touching story.

Good luck on getting her back, if she doesn't, time heals all wounds.

No wound in the heart is ever fully healed.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 03:19 PM Reply

other than letting her know that she has complete control over you and that you're on a leash, it was very touching.


That's what she said.

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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 03:26 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 12:35 PM, phlamingkorndawg wrote: Tori,

Love, Dylan

But... your names are both so androgynous! You have to give it a chance!


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 03:30 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 03:19 PM, Ryane926 wrote: other than letting her know that she has complete control over you and that you're on a leash, it was very touching.

Exactly what I thought...

How old are you anyway?


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 06:46 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 03:15 PM, EgoistXIV wrote:
At 3/23/10 01:09 PM, RuinedMartyr wrote: Touching story.

Good luck on getting her back, if she doesn't, time heals all wounds.
No wound in the heart is ever fully healed.

Yeah I agree. I also think you should get some new tampons.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 07:29 PM Reply

I wish I had wrote something like this with my last love interest. Good job man


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 07:53 PM Reply

you made me feel kinda bad, I guess taht should go to how strong your letter might be


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 07:54 PM Reply

HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN TO MEEEEE?

Sorry, I generally do that to anyone with 'Break Up', and the Sobbing emoticon.

The only 'after break-up' note you should have is the headbutt to her breasts.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 08:26 PM Reply

I think that the note was a bit much at some points, but a nice gesture nonetheless.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 08:29 PM Reply

At 3/23/10 01:26 PM, Fineas wrote:
At 3/23/10 12:35 PM, phlamingkorndawg wrote:

Tell me what you think of this... both the note, and your opinion on breakups.
Well, I think that it was REALLY gay. My suggestion is you stuff her in the trunk of your car and drive off a cliff.

Ah, the old James Sunderland treatment


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 08:33 PM Reply

Aw...that was actually kinda nice. Good job on it, I think that it will help to clear things up a bit.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 08:37 PM Reply

I think you did the right thing there, now all you have to do is let go and forget, i know it's not that easy but in time all will be ok.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 08:37 PM Reply

Wow. Even though I was your age and have been there, it honestly is hard to take a break up seriously when you're still in high school. Just saying. Anyway I'm really sorry about that. If you need help I can probably give you some usable advice.


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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 08:39 PM Reply

To me, that letter sounded rather pathetic and borderline stalkerish.

But whatever. It's not as if it's addressed to me.

Also... Try not... To use... Too many... Ellipses... Because it... Just looks... Terrible... They are not... A replacement... For full stops...

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Response to The After Break-up Note Mar. 23rd, 2010 @ 08:45 PM Reply

Lmfao why thank her? from what I've read she has only made you a weaker being thats full of "feelings". You need a girl that will constantly make sure you're an inch away from becoming a fucking nutcase with all her fucked up games to make you stronger and not become this lets be friends because I'm a bleeding heart fucking baby that will kiss your ass just to get you back.

You want her back? Fuck her friends and send her pictures saying how you're finally glad that you don't have to fuck her walrus looking body anymore