Hi guys. Okay a few of you know that I was engaged, and have had a child. But I am no longer with the father due to him being a controlling obsessive freak.
I knew he wasn't good husband/fiance/boyfriend material, but I always thought he would be a very good dad. But how wrong was I.
When I finished with him he became obsessive and stalkerish. He would stalk me on facebook, stalk me outside my home and constantly ring me. Up to only a week ago he stopped. But the last thing he said was that he loved me, and wouldn't be able to move on, and that his daughter is important and he will keep seeing her.
He stopped calling, stopped asking to take Tiffany (my daughter). And he took her to the doctors the other day because I was too ill and brought her straight back, hadn't even changed her or fed her.
I had a dream last night, and he's already got a new gf I looked on Facebook today and low and behold he had a new gf. Don't get me wrong, I don't love him or anything, don't have any other feelings than dislike towards him. But if you love someone, you don't move on that quick do you?
He has turned into a total hypocrite, because he didn't even let me wear normal jeans and a t-shirt as that would be classed as too revealing. But yet, his new girl is on facebook in her underwear. Don't even ask why I was with him in the first place, or why I even had a child with him. I guess I was just stupid, naive and loved him.
Meh. But seriously, I would love to know what goes on in guys heads for them to say one thing, completely control you, then forget about their daughter and go off with a whore.
Explain guys. Please.