Girl problems

[bassaaphex]

So theres this girl who i went to school with but i was never really that close with. anyways year and a half or so after we have graduated and i bump into her at a club, we really hit it off and weve been calling and texting each other for the last two weeks.. ive only seen her like 4 or 5 times in the last two weeks, but now ive every time ive asked her if she wants to do somthing, shes like ohh i dunno got somthing else on or gives some lame excuse as to why she cant hang out etc. so im reading this as shes not really that intrested or just want to be friends or whatever. however she still sending me flirty messages, and still calling me babe and sending me goodnight messages and shit. right now im so confused as to what this girl wants aye its messing with my head :O

will guys ever understand whats going through girls heads?

[RockMessiah123]

it means she's a flirt and is seeing someone else. happened to me before.

[gamejunkie]

At 1/25/10 06:31 AM, bassaaphex wrote: will guys ever understand whats going through girls heads?

Ummm, NO! Also your thread title is wrong, it should read thusly, Girls are Problems.

[bassaaphex]

At 1/25/10 06:32 AM, RockMessiah123 wrote: it means she's a flirt and is seeing someone else. happened to me before.

yeah thats what i thought, but i asked her best friend who im also pretty good friends with and they said that shes not and is fully keen on me and stuff..

seriously doubting if its worth all this trouble hey.

[Auz]

I wouldn't immediately go and guess the worst (she's making lame excuses cause she's not interested etc.). I mean of course I don't know what she's like in real life, but it could be that she's just a little too nervous to go out with you at the moment ;)

[AlexCo]

Yeah, I met a girl 5 months ago who was perfect, she looked gorgeous and had the funniest personality. We loved each other and all that shit, then 2 months ago she changes, treats me like shit and we argued every day so I just decided to not talk to her.

Yesterday I tried to sort things out with her, huge argument, then just as I make things right and sort it out she just turns around and says that theres no point, and that we'll argue again.

I've seen her true colours, she can fuck off. :)

[AlexCo]

At 1/25/10 06:40 AM, Dew wrote: She's playing you man. Can't you see that? The reason she says I don't know is because she doesn't want to.

Happened to me aswell, if you see these signs straight away, you save yourself alot of misery by just letting her go.

[Peaceblossom]

"When are you free? We should hang out / grab coffee / go for pints / watch a movie at my place / etc"

If you get some bullshit answer, stop talking to her forever. There's nothing worse than continuing to talk to a girl that won't be your friend or girlfriend. If you just talk on the phone and text, then you're wasting your own time.

[bassaaphex]

mm this is a shitty situation, i think ill try her like 2 more times or somthing if she gives me the same old stuff ill just move on.

[Cute-Penguin]

she is probably using you to get some guy jealous

[Silver-Glint]

Maybe she's not that into you as you are into her. Most people naturally flirt. I flirt with most of the guys on here, doesn't mean I want a relationship out of it. If she doesn't want to go out with you, then it's best you move on, she might get jealous and want to date you if she knows your unavailable. Sometimes us girls are confusing, sometimes we want what we can't have.

Not all girls though, just some of us.

[Quinny]

You should've grabbed her cock.

HURR HURR HURR :3

[LinkSilvermane]

You should've made a move a lot sooner than that. She wanted you to, initially.

It's the luck of the draw, too. Some girls like to be courted nice and slow, some of 'em like to be swept off their feet as soon as you can.

Now? Unless you're REALLY into her, I suggest you stop hoping for a romantic sort of relationship with her.

[Saxturbation]

At 1/25/10 06:31 AM, bassaaphex wrote: will guys ever understand whats going through girls heads?

No. Maybe she just wants a no-strings-attached type thing ya know?

[HazeStigma]

At 1/25/10 09:18 AM, BobbaQ wrote: You should've grabbed her cock.

HURR HURR HURR :3

Thats what the last guy did to me, i learnt my lesson (jk)
So, yeah, first off... She's probs already with somebody or just wants attention, girls are known to have stupidly low egos and need to replenish them, unluckily you were just a free gas station to her.
And please don't stereotype girls as complicated or bitchy, just because a lot are doesn't mean they ALL are.
Sorry, btw.

[DrCornflake]

if your having girl problems i feel bad for you son, i got 99 problems but a bitch aint one

[blue-ice-cube]

Because she's probably being a whore and seeing other.

[Warforger]

Well either way she's wrong, because she's a woman.

[Slug-Gunner]

will guys ever understand whats going through girls heads?

A guy once was walking on the beach, and he kicked a can. Then all of a sudden, a genie pops out of the can and tells the guy
-"OK im fucking busy so I'm only going to ask for 1 wish, so make it quick you asshole"
Man responds:
-"Well, Ive been doing some thinking, and I really have to go to NY a lot for business meeting and all that shit. I really hate taking planes and all that shit, so why don't you make me a bridge to NY?"
The genie responds:
-"What the fuck. No man, you know how much work it is to build a bridge???? Its like, funking hard to build!"
Man says:
-"I thought you could do everything I wished for..."
Genie says:
-"Yea but, you know, the material, the time, the money. Too fucken expensive, ask something else..."
Man says:
-"Ok then... I want you to tell me how to understand women"
Genie then replyes:
-"........at what time did you want that bridge done?"

[tatsumaru7]

Maybe you showed alittle tooo much interest in her? You may have spooked her. If you constantly kept sending her texts and asking her to hangout then, she may have gotten bored with you. Do yourself a favour, don't call or text her for a while give it like 3 days and see what happens. If she doesn't respond, to hell with her! If she does play it cool don't seem so needy.

...also check my sig?

[HazeStigma]

At 1/25/10 01:42 PM, kikomannnn wrote: stop responding to her texts, stop texting her. It will drive her CRAZY.

trust me

Oooh, burn. Yeah, although im sure this'll annoy pretty much anyone wont it?

[Project-Mayhem]

Could be she's liking the attention from you and is only really flirting to make sure you stay interested. It's a crappy situation but yeah it happens, my advice would be to forget about her and move on and once she sees that she'll either just be an idiot and not talk to you as much any longer (which means she never was your friend to begin with) or she'll realize her mistake and want you back but it would be up to you if you'd want to even want to risk falling into the same thing over and over again. Big complex web of problems my friend.

[Lagatag]

At 1/25/10 06:32 AM, RockMessiah123 wrote: it means she's a flirt and is seeing someone else. happened to me before.

Probably this, it's happened to me before as well. Also, what really sucks is when they go out of their way to contact you (over facebook or something), but then end up doing this.

[Jon-86]

The word your looking for, used by the popular masses, is "cock-tease" if uncertainty is annoying you then just force a decision. If shes not into you then no more flirting simple.

Your stupid for not just being out with what's on your mind.

[Ragnarokia]

We will never know what is going on in a girls head, it is foolish even to try. Girls are a strange being.

[LoneIcon]

there's a relationship club on this website, go post all your problems there.

[Echo-Konosko]

She wants you to be assertive, and force her out on a date. Only then will she realize the true man you are, that or she thinks you are gay.

[Xatanxa]

When i saw the title i thought you were a teenaged girl who had just hit puberty and had no idea what was going on.

On a side note, Ask her out? And im going to say it because someone else will and i just want to piss them off, or maybe someones said it before me. Grab. Her. Cock.

[KAG8893]

At 1/25/10 06:40 AM, AlexCo wrote:

Yesterday I tried to sort things out with her, huge argument, then just as I make things right and sort it out she just turns around and says that theres no point, and that we'll argue again.

this has to be my least favorite thing women do.. fuck them.

[masheenH3ad]

Just don't waste any of your time trying to fuck that Bitch! That Bitch is classified as a SCHEMER. She'll just tease you and when your dick is angry and ready for action, she'll just leave you hanging. And those type are having fun doing it. Now just stay away from schemers.