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Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:10:04 Reply

My gramps took me out for lunch today, first thing he does though is phone me at 11 this morning and ask when I want to get picked up. I told him 11 30, and he disagreed on that and said 12 00. So whatever.
Then when he asks where I want to go, he says we can go anywhere, I say McDonald's, and he decides to go to A&W.

This happens with Gramps and I on everything, this is just an example. How can I fix it?! He's asking me what and then disagreeing.


Yeah, whatever.
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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:11:12 Reply

Seriously, just let him do what he wants. He's old. He deserves it.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:11:50 Reply

"NO gramps, what do YOU want to do?"


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:11:59 Reply

Understand that while he is picking you up and paying for the meal, he can go wherever he wants. Get used to it. He's merely offering to let you decide when/where to go to seem courteous, while he already knows exactly what the plan will be.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:12:51 Reply

Just be thankful you still have your gramps.


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:16:22 Reply

Don't cry about it. He's old and wiser than you. He deserves the respect. I doubt he got any back then like 60-80 years ago.


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:28:09 Reply

I'm not complaining or whining about it, or crying.
I'm just saying, I don't understand why he does this, it's not only when we go out for meals, it's when we want to go somewhere and do something, and it's also not only with me, but with the whole family.


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:29:37 Reply

Hell if he's paying for it, it's kind of weird for him to ask then not do it.. but if you like spending time with him, just suck it up and enjoy your time.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:36:41 Reply

Wow, ageism much.


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 16:40:26 Reply

"what's good for you?"

Use it.


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 18:17:02 Reply

Well, you did want to go to McDonalds after all...


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 18:28:45 Reply

Unlike you he isn't long for this world.
I let mine do whatever and whenever he wants.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 18:33:35 Reply

The old man is spending time with you and taking you out to lunch. I'd love that guy if he took me to A&W. I haven't been there in ages, and it's closed in the winter. During the summer it's super busy. Our family had an argument on where to eat this weekend. My little brother threw a fit so my parents caved and we ate at McDonalds, like always. A&W > McDonalds any day. I didn't even care where I ate, because it's a privilege to do so.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:02:53 Reply

I wish my grandpa took me places. He just sits at home and watches horse races.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:05:07 Reply

At 12/21/09 04:10 PM, EpicFail wrote: A&W.

The root beer? They make fast food, too?


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:07:33 Reply

At 12/21/09 04:28 PM, EpicFail wrote: I'm just saying, I don't understand why he does this.

He's old.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:11:28 Reply

At 12/21/09 04:10 PM, EpicFail wrote: My gramps took me out for lunch today, first thing he does though is phone me at 11 this morning and ask when I want to get picked up. I told him 11 30, and he disagreed on that and said 12 00. So whatever.
Then when he asks where I want to go, he says we can go anywhere, I say McDonald's, and he decides to go to A&W.

This happens with Gramps and I on everything, this is just an example. How can I fix it?! He's asking me what and then disagreeing.

Alright, you want to go to McDonald's
You say "Ah, ANYWHERE but McDonald's"
Your grandfather will take you there anyway.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:11:48 Reply

At 12/21/09 04:11 PM, DumbassDude wrote: "NO gramps, what do YOU want to do?"

Say this to him everytime you should be fine :P

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:16:25 Reply

My Grandparents have lives of their own.But i would rather do what they want just to be kind and respectful.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:35:13 Reply

Well if he refuses, refuse back.


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:40:31 Reply

OP, I thought you were dying?


Some people feel content to pour syrup on shit and call it pancakes their whole lives.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:45:23 Reply

You killing yourself will lead to no more further disagreements between you and him.


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 19:58:19 Reply

That's not so bad, really.

My grandpa spends all his time laying around on a satin pillow...

In a box. .....

6 feet underground......

With a load of bird shot in his brain. ....


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 20:06:49 Reply

Reverse Psychology?


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 20:09:06 Reply

i agree

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 21:24:11 Reply

At 12/21/09 08:06 PM, ArmouredGRIFFON wrote: Reverse Psychology?

"Let's not go to McDonalds, because I really don't not want to go there today."

brilliant!
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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 21:25:20 Reply

Use reverse psychology?

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 22:15:48 Reply

At 12/21/09 04:12 PM, HighWayStar365 wrote: Just be thankful you still have your gramps.

I lolled.


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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 22:27:35 Reply

Scream, "TIS IS WAR", and/or read this book.

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Response to Gramps and I just can't agree. 2009-12-21 22:29:13 Reply

Your grandpa offered to "take you out to lunch" and you said McDonalds?


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