Get. Over. It. It's a time of caring. Just because YOUR family is shit and because YOU don't like the holiday, don't go and ruin it for other people. M'KAY?
I don't wanna bag on you. But seriously several people have made these kind of threads and the fact is its just
1. Your area.
2. Your family
3. Most importantly. YOU.
The holiday spirit has only dropped a little in value as money got tight for most so maybe there wont be awesome decorations and shit.... But cmon, its your family. No one completely loves everyone in there family. there your blood and you love them unconditionally.
Everything you listed seems like your own personal thing. i can happily say my family and i enjoy meeting up for huge dinners exchanging shitty gifts we all wont care about the next week.
Also if i bought someone in my family a hand held console and they broke it cause its "boring" id kick there ass and show them the meaning of fun.
WITH AN IRON FIST!