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Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 17:54:37 Reply

Hey mates i have something important to tell you.

Im a 20y old guy. I have never dated anyone. Always been a single. But now i got a gf. It all happened really fast. I met her really fast and now we are dating.

She is a good looking girl, few years younger than i am and i always thought dating is super awesome and you would been in heaven when your dating a girl. But the problem is that i dont feel like im the happiest guy in this world. I dont know if all this is my own sad imagination because you know, i have never been in contact with girls much.

So is this girl just not the right one or am i just thinking all this should be more awesome than it is. I always thought when you meet a girl and start dating her your life would change and you would be in real love and think her all the time? I mean i like her a lot but im not thinking her all the time. This is so hard to explain but i just like expected a bit more...

I feel like im just dating a good looking girl but im not actually in love with her. Jesus this is hard to explain.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 17:58:47 Reply

At 12/8/09 05:54 PM, neobyte1 wrote: I always thought

There is your answer, to be honest she sounds like a nice girl, just stick with it as the relationship will progress!


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:01:46 Reply

Yes! She likes all the same things i like and she even listens same music as i do! She is a nice person. She is not a stupid teenager who is like "omg omg" all the time.

Maybe its just like i have never dated and i think everything should go like in the movies you know.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:12:35 Reply

its a trap!


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:14:20 Reply

I hate idiots who have no fucking idea what the word "Love" means and throw it around as if you can say "I LUV U!!!" after 5 minutes of being together.


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:15:07 Reply

SHE HASS A PENISSS.


GURL, ARE WE IN EGYPT? 'CAUSE SOMEONE'S IN DENIAL.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:15:59 Reply

At 12/8/09 05:54 PM, neobyte1 wrote: i always thought dating is super awesome and you would been in heaven when your dating a girl. But the problem is that i dont feel like im the happiest guy in this world. I dont know if all this is my own sad imagination because you know

I felt like the happiest man, when I got my first girlfriend.

Yours must be defective.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:18:11 Reply

At 12/8/09 05:54 PM, neobyte1 wrote:
I feel like im just dating a good looking girl but im not actually in love with her. Jesus this is hard to explain.

Love isnt something you'll be able to figure out having had a chick for a couple days. Give it some time, eventually, love will blossom between the two of you or it wont.


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:20:18 Reply

That's great.

Good luck with the new mate.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:22:51 Reply

It's a funny feeling, I experienced it 2 weeks ago. It might not go as strong as we think but it seems steady.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 18:23:04 Reply

At 12/8/09 06:01 PM, neobyte1 wrote: Maybe its just like i have never dated and i think everything should go like in the movies you know.

Bingo. Love doesn't happen immediately. You start out liking someone, and then it progresses. And, dating almost never automatically changes your life, especially if it's your first girlfriend. Give it some time. If you like her a lot, then it'll probably go somewhere (unless a conflict arises that so enormous that it breaks up the relationship). Where, I don't know. But somewhere, at the very least.


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:02:19 Reply

Just me who read the title as 'Just got a fist girlfriend'

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:06:08 Reply

At 12/8/09 05:54 PM, neobyte1 wrote: few years younger than i am

and you're 20 years old. looks like you're fucked.


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:08:06 Reply

She shouldnt be occupying your mind all the time anyway, thats the wrong way to start off and will end badly. Its good to only think of someone sometimes and lead your own life away from them. Just because youre dating someone doesnt mean you'll instantly get the best life ever.


Release your inner crazy.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:09:01 Reply

At 12/8/09 05:58 PM, Kyuumi wrote:
At 12/8/09 05:54 PM, neobyte1 wrote: I always thought
There is your answer, to be honest she sounds like a nice girl, just stick with it as the relationship will progress!

You better believe that not all relationships didn't start out the greatest. In my old relationship, she was trying to win me over. I gave her a chance and I had the best year of my life. So go for it man, and good luck.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:11:45 Reply

inb4 "GRAB HIS/HER COCK?"
I don't know.

I'm just before a meme of some sort.


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:14:02 Reply

Well you clearly said it all happened really fast. Maybe you went TOO fast and didn't become that well attached to her. But keep on with the relationship, you wont know anything yet it all just began. What have you done with her so far? And try not to rush things or spam i love you to her TOO SOON!


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:24:15 Reply

I have read all your replies now and i think its just about me. This relationship began maybe a bit too fast and i just didnt have time to think all this. This is a big step in my life. We talked in the msn first. I mean like 3 days and then she came to my house and it all started.

I havent said "i love you" to her. I really dont want to say that to her because i would not mean it. I just say i like you because i never say things i do not mean. Maybe the real love comes later.

And one more awesome thing about her = she lives like 200meters away from my house!

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:25:20 Reply

i just got a charizard, that shit is rare


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:26:46 Reply

At 12/8/09 07:25 PM, cheesebizkit wrote: i just got a charizard, that shit is rare

I just got my first bulbasaur, wanna battle?

Anyways congrats on finding someone who likes you and hopefully you like her as well.


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:27:56 Reply

At 12/8/09 07:25 PM, cheesebizkit wrote: i just got a charizard, that shit is rare

Maybe you can go show your charizard to your mom. I bet she will be more interested of it than we are

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:30:58 Reply

Dude, just user and abuse her you loser :p
Rhyming skills!


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:32:48 Reply

I meant use her, sorry for the mistake, but there's NO FUCKING EDIT BUTTON!
(Just throwing that out there, Mr. Fulp : )


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:35:34 Reply

You are infatuated with her. It will wear off soon enough. You see, over the next few months your newfound interest will began to wane, and this sweet, nice girl you thought you knew will slowly but surely transform into a manipulateve cold-hearted bitch who you never would talk to ever in any other circumstance. But she won't have changed, oh no, and neither will have you. The only thing that will change is the loss of the biochemicals that sent you into this state in the first place. Or perhaps you will have gotten lucky, and found someone you can stand for a few years untill it all crumbles down to nothing and you are left only with your own regrets. The only advice I can give is to take an outside view of your relationship, and when the time comes that you should abandon it, do so without remorse, for you will have the knowlege that you have saved yourself from an even greater sorrow. Thus is life and love, class dismissed.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:36:57 Reply

At 12/8/09 07:32 PM, Calibur10 wrote: I meant use her, sorry for the mistake, but there's NO FUCKING EDIT BUTTON!
(Just throwing that out there, Mr. Fulp : )

And after all that crap you just typed your sorry for your mistake? And yes, here is no fucking Edit-button for a reason

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:45:30 Reply

Your love muscle just hasn't been used enough, give it time and the feeling will cum.


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:45:37 Reply

At 12/8/09 07:40 PM, agustana wrote: I think you should show her this thread.

That bitch would leave you so fast.

Ah, ha, you poor bastard.

I think you should show your fucking mom your penis

That bitch would leave you so fast.

Ah, ha, you poor bastard.

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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:49:37 Reply

At 12/8/09 07:45 PM, Prinzy2 wrote: Your love muscle just hasn't been used enough, give it time and the feeling will cum.

Oh my!


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:53:06 Reply

exactly how many years younger...???


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Response to Just got a first girlfriend 2009-12-08 19:53:27 Reply

At 12/8/09 06:12 PM, Aggzza wrote: its a trap!

Succubus!

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