You know, I'm starting to get sick of people complaining about these things...Not just Sexual things, I mean everything that Humanity does.
It's human nature to go to war and kill shit.
It's human nature to be excessively greedy and take what's not ours.
It's human nature for the female to try their best to attract the male, while the male pursues the female. (If we never had this instinct, we wouldn't be here right now.)
It's human nature to eat BOTH Vegetables and Meat. (Vegeriatians should realize we eat meat for a reason.)
It's human nature to be very ignorant, and be pissed because other people have different cultures, religions, races and opinions.
It's human nature to just want to know EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING because we have a huge curiosity about...Everything and wanting to advance Technology.
So, yeah...Even though you may not be like that at all...I bet that you have an urge to do the above, no matter how hidden it is and I bet if you didn't have knowledge of other people's cultures, you'd have a hate for them.
If we didn't have some of those instincts, we would died off a long time ago.
So stop complaining, and no it isn't just a "nowadays" thing, it's been like that before history was recorded.