Why do these girls want me so bad?

[Skwurll]

Dear Ng, I am just a regular High School student. I've always been a little anti-social, I guess it's because I don't really like people. I just try to be a good person and make it through the day. I don't flirt, hit on girls, or put myself out there too much, but all of the ugly girls are after me. I'm not talking just aesthetics either, these chicks are mean as fuck. Now I know I'm not a walking symbol of sex appeal, but I'm moderately attractive. I always reject their advances, shrug off their arms, and decline from dating them. They don't seem to get the message. Why are these girls so intent on going after me? I don't want to date anyone, to be honest, I hate intimacy. What can I do to seem less attractive to them? (Personality-wise)

I'd appreciate serious replies, but any advice is welcome.

[Itsbroken2]

At 11/2/09 12:06 AM, Skwurll wrote: I'd appreciate serious replies, but any advice is welcome.

I would advise not asking General for help then.

I've been having this problem too, I just ignore them and avoid them at all costs.

For example I walk home instead of taking the bus, it's much faster anyway.

[RoboJesus]

You sure have a silly way of bragging. I'm not going to post a serious reply to anyone who refers to themselves as moderately attractive. Hopefully it's an incredibly elaborate practical joke that will result in them splashing water on your jeans so it looked like you pissed yourself and all the cool kids will point and laugh at you.

IT'S HIGH SCHOOL. SHUT THE FUCK UP.

[Sinitech]

Get violent.

Only rational answer.

[Skwurll]

At 11/2/09 12:09 AM, Itsbroken2 wrote:

I would advise not asking General for help then.

I've seen general give sound advice once or twice. Here's hoping.

I've been having this problem too, I just ignore them and avoid them at all costs.

For example I walk home instead of taking the bus, it's much faster anyway.

It's normally in the hallways where I see them.
For example, there's an extremely obese girl that always wants me to give her a hug. I always say no, but sometimes she comes up behind me and hugs me, when I tell her not to hug me she just laughs.

[HollowGrave]

Raise your pimp hand and lay down the law on them lol.

[polym]

At 11/2/09 12:12 AM, Skwurll wrote: It's normally in the hallways where I see them.
For example, there's an extremely obese girl that always wants me to give her a hug. I always say no, but sometimes she comes up behind me and hugs me, when I tell her not to hug me she just laughs.

It's not that necessarily these girls particularly want you. It's just girls like that have low self esteem (they're ugly?) so they try to be more out-going. And they find it easy to relate to you (you're slightly anti-social and attractive, so 2 + 2 = 4.)

[WhaleSnail]

You are doing everything right. Just keep going how you are and eventually they will piss off. If they don't, it's time to file for a restraining order. No joke.

[Skwurll]

At 11/2/09 12:17 AM, polym wrote:

It's not that necessarily these girls particularly want you. It's just girls like that have low self esteem (they're ugly?) so they try to be more out-going. And they find it easy to relate to you (you're slightly anti-social and attractive, so 2 + 2 = 4.)

I'm perfectly fine with being friends with them, but I wouldn't want to date them.
It's not that I dislike them in particular, I just hate intimacy in general.

At 11/2/09 12:19 AM, WhaleSnail wrote: You are doing everything right. Just keep going how you are and eventually they will piss off. If they don't, it's time to file for a restraining order. No joke.

I hope so, two of them have been after me for 3 and 4 years now.

[Luxury-Yacht]

They want you because they can't have you. It's driving them nuts.

[EpicFail]

Man, if they're ugly. Just tell them to fuck off before you take a gun to school and shoot some kids.

[ELITE-101]

rape

[BetaOrionis]

If you point out people's personal flaws to their faces, they always leave, I promise.

Just tell them that they are extremely fat. EXTREMELY FAT. Even if they're just a little fat, EXTREMELY FAT. They will either lose weight and be worth thinking about touching, or they will get very angry and never talk to you. In addition, they will probably spread rumors about you and further lower the number of womens who try to talk to you.

I once told a girl that she was fat, just plain fat, and she never approached me again. Imagine if I'd used the term extremely fat? Or caps locked it?

She would have fucking exploded, man.

[AHintofMoonlight]

Walk to school and fap on the way.

Fap in class.

Fap in the hallways.

Fap in the lunchroom.

They will either stop harassing you, or you will recieve free secks.

[Peacekid]

BITCH, YOUS UGLY

[BrainlessDan]

Tell them straight up to their faces that they are ugly as fuck and you don't like them.

[iamgrimreaper]

They want you because... well, they'll go for just about anyone...

[Robotchk12]

At 11/2/09 01:13 AM, AHintofMoonlight wrote: Walk to school and fap on the way.

Fap in class.

Fap in the hallways.

Fap in the lunchroom.

They will either stop harassing you, or you will recieve free secks.

That's your solution for everything, huh?

[AHintofMoonlight]

At 11/2/09 01:45 AM, Robotchk12 wrote:

At 11/2/09 01:13 AM, AHintofMoonlight wrote: Walk to school and fap on the way.

Fap in class.

Fap in the hallways.

Fap in the lunchroom.

They will either stop harassing you, or you will recieve free secks.

That's your solution for everything, huh?

Yes. Fapping can end most, if not all problems.

[Goldfire64]

it sounds like with your mention of them being after you for several years now that the have seen you single for a while. Since they are ugly and can't do better they are hoping that eventually you will just settle with one of them. They are trying to be your runner up prize. You need to escape while you can or you may find one of them following you to college.

[hhhh]

High School student.
Anti-social.
I don't like people.
I don't flirt, hit on girls, or put myself out there too much.
I always reject their advances, shrug off their arms, and decline from dating them.
I don't want to date anyone, to be honest, I hate intimacy.
What can I do to seem less attractive to them? (Personality-wise)

What the shit is wrong with you?
Sounds like the girls are just trying to be nice cause your coming off as this loner sad and alone for life tard. Maybe someone just wants to put a dam smile on your face. To be honest it doesn't even sound like they are interested in dating, you just sound so sad that hell i would probably try to talk to you to.

The girl that asks you for a hug.
Either really likes you.

Or just wants you to not be so dam sad :P

really this must just be a troll.

[alucardxmeow]

This might not sound serious, but make yourself uglier.

[Falonefal]

Have sex with them so they will see how bad you are at it.

[xxdomoxxkunxx]

At 11/2/09 12:06 AM, Skwurll wrote: Dear Ng, I am just a regular High School student. I've always been a little anti-social, I guess it's because I don't really like people. I just try to be a good person and make it through the day. I don't flirt, hit on girls, or put myself out there too much, but all of the ugly girls are after me. I'm not talking just aesthetics either, these chicks are mean as fuck. Now I know I'm not a walking symbol of sex appeal, but I'm moderately attractive. I always reject their advances, shrug off their arms, and decline from dating them. They don't seem to get the message. Why are these girls so intent on going after me? I don't want to date anyone, to be honest, I hate intimacy. What can I do to seem less attractive to them? (Personality-wise)

I'd appreciate serious replies, but any advice is welcome.

they might and i said MIGHT like you don't listen to these idiots these newgrounders here are like the 2nd graders on the playground telling you girls like dead frogs but anyways these young women might like you so you should tell them off easy with a simple down to earth view rather than "get away from me fat ass" or 'fap fap fap fap" or anything like that. these women what to see you happy and think they are what you need in you're life and they may be right however the choice is yours you can be a total ass about it or be sincere whitch is good you may have heard of "ugly duckling syndrome" and you would be kicking you're self 10 years down the line when they see you and think of you as a ass. my opinion is to try... if you dont like it in a day then quit its better to try something and see if you like rather than judge what it would feel like you might be surprised about you find. besides you never know if THEY might say no/get the hell away from me

[Leo625]

What's wrong with fuckin a few ugly chicks? That's how you get warmed up for the right girl, otherwise when you meet a girl you really like and don't know what you're doing at sex she's gonna kick you to the curb.

[Lost-Chances]

They have no one else due to their past actions and they think you haven't paid much attention to what they have done. Plus, they've sucked everyone else's dick and now want yours.

[truegamer1]

At 11/2/09 01:00 AM, BetaOrionis wrote: If you point out people's personal flaws to their faces, they always leave, I promise.

Just tell them that they are extremely fat. EXTREMELY FAT. Even if they're just a little fat, EXTREMELY FAT. They will either lose weight and be worth thinking about touching, or they will get very angry and never talk to you. In addition, they will probably spread rumors about you and further lower the number of womens who try to talk to you.

I once told a girl that she was fat, just plain fat, and she never approached me again. Imagine if I'd used the term extremely fat? Or caps locked it?

She would have fucking exploded, man.

Basically be House.

Also all you really have to do is just say that you're gay.Sure it will label you gay for some time,but atleast they'll leave you alone....or you'll just end up with a guy problem.

[Lost-Chances]

At 11/2/09 03:15 AM, truegamer1 wrote: Basically be House.

You don't mean neo-House right? The pussy who has to stop pills so he can be nice to people.

[xxdomoxxkunxx]

another idea get to know them they may be like you just a lonely soul in the feeding frenzy of high school they may be physically repulsive n you're eyes but mentally appealing. for example i know a young woman in high school that might like me (very steathly about affection but i can tell.....) she is not one of thouse prim and propper kids on the playground or thouse airheads that think they are best thing on gods green earth she is beautiful, even if she dosent wear makeup she a rule breaker, just like me even if i am a bit worse (i did enough shit to warrent a few good million dollars in computer piracy). she seems smart. even if i might be a cut above (i dont want to make that last one to far from each other i never know if she might be watching @_@) she as a great taste in music as do I and she as a nice.... ANYWAYS you see my point even if i got rambly you should look into there minds before you precive btw i am that general kind of guy that makes sence

[truegamer1]

At 11/2/09 03:20 AM, Lost-Chances wrote:

At 11/2/09 03:15 AM, truegamer1 wrote: Basically be House.

You don't mean neo-House right? The pussy who has to stop pills so he can be nice to people.

Of course not.I was talking about the pill popping guy that would crush your beliefs and other stuff in seconds while figuring out whats wrong with you.