At 10/26/09 07:18 AM, General-Malcontent wrote:
It would have been nice if I could of gotten one decent response that made me feel even a fraction better.
Allow me to actually try.
Okay, so you like women, and you like men. That's alright, don't get me wrong, I myself am like that. What you need to understand if that you need to calm down. Why are you asking yourself this question at THIS point in time? You may have been asking them for a while, but why?
There is no need in asking such questions because you know yourself, THERE ARE NO ANSWERS TO THEM!
Why is there no answers to them? Because life can take any twists and turns it wants. However, you have some control.
You may wake up on day and feel sexually attracted to a woman, or a man. That's not a problem. Just take your time with it.
Here, just to prove you wrong I will actually try and answer your questions.
At 10/26/09 05:14 AM, General-Malcontent wrote:
How can I get married and have a family if I like sucking cock?
By my accounts you are 21. Not a lot of people actually get married at that age, you have most of your life left. Live THAT before you start to get tied down.
How can I create a lasting relationship with a man if I want to fuck every other woman I meet?
Its called being Bi-Sexual. It happens, you like both sexes, but you know yourself you must only choose one of them. Its a hard choice, but one you shall make sooner or later.
What the hell am I supposed to do with my life?
Live it to the full.
Dude, your Bi-Sexual. Not retarded or have some life long disease like Down syndrome. Live your life while you can, go out and fuck everyone that you feel attracted to.
Why? Because you only have one life, and in this life you shall decide who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Get on a bus to SanFransisco and trick on the streets until I find a guy to take me in, or stay here and continue to build a "normal" life?
Build your life up. You can't say normal.....Because what is normal in this century? In Iraq there is a war....The people that live there, think that is a normal life. Those people born with dwarfism, that's a normal life to them.
Not that I'm comparing Bi-Sexuality to those things, I'm just trying to get my point across that NOBODY knows what normal is. NOBODY.
How can I be gay if I'm not gay?
Be Bi-Sexual.
How can I be straight if I'm not straight?
Be Bi-Sexual.
I just want to get it off my damn chest and be open with people about who I am.
Then just tell them! If they react in a strange way tell them to get out of your life.
For example:
You go up to your best friend, he has been your friend for years, you have shared everything with each other. Take him out for a drink and say to him....I'm Bi-Sexual. Now....He can react in two ways.
1) He can stay with you and maybe make terms that you don't try and hit on him, but he will laugh about it, so that will make you feel more comfortable being around him because you know he isn't going to ridicule you about it.
OR
2) He can suddenly leave the bar, being that he won't speak to you again for a while. Therefore, he is a childish twat who shouldn't even be your friend.
Yes?
Sexually I'm attracted to both men and women thats for sure, but emotionaly what is the best path to take?
Emotions. Ah emotions. Those damn things that build up walls and make your head go funny. Yes....Those things.
To be honest my friend. That question is not answerable by anyone apart from yourself. They are your emotions, only YOU can tell them to do things.
The only thing you can do is experiment. Make a relationship with one of each sex for a while, take notes, and admit to the other person that you are Bi. If they truly love you, they will understand, and possibly not pressure you into making a decision.
Explain to them, AND your family and friends, that you are going through a rough time. Your confused about your sexuality and don't know what to do. Maybe a course of counselling or sexual advisor might help you. I'm afraid that Newgrounds isn't the best place for asking these questions, as you get crappy answers.
I'm not going to lie and say that your decision will be easy, because it wont. However, if your friends and family are behind you, they will give you support and make you feel not so alone.
I would have hoped that this has helped you somewhat. If you need any more help, just PM me or just post back in this thread, and I will help you the best I can.
