At 10/22/09 06:18 AM, iamgrimreaper wrote:
At 10/22/09 06:09 AM, TheStonePilot wrote:
Say 'I love you'. It's really not that hard, if you do love her then it should just come naturally; it's not a very meaningful thing anymore you know. It's just an expression now. It's not like your kneeling down and proposing; just say 'I love you' to her face.
I dunno, it's just kinda hard, like saying sorry... She's only been my girlfriend for like... a week...
Okay saying "I love you" because it's "just an expression" is exactly the reason it's "just an expression." Fuck that. Maybe I'm just too into this, but I believe that love should be a true and special thing, not just something that people say because they feel obligated since they're in a relationship.
Do you love her? Probably not, especially if you're asking Newgrounds for advice on the matter. Now I don't know the history behind you too, or how long you've known each other, but you've been dating a week, I'm sure you're not in love.
Personally I'd strive to preserve the power of that phrase, and keep meaning in what love is... If you feel that way, then talk to her about it and let her know that it means something to you. I've been in the same situation before and I let her know that I didn't want to just start throwing that phrase around, and she understood where I was coming from.
Hope this helps. :)
