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Posted at: 10/17/09 02:21 PM

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Okay Newgrounds, I need help.

I've got this mate, he uses this website, and if he comments here, I'll point him out, but anyway;

Me and my mate have been friends for years, but when we hit year 8, he started being a depressed sad sack, constantly having the look on his face that says; 'My life sucks, I'll kill myself later', but slightly less obvious, if you get what I mean...

I try to cheer him up but he says sod off everytime, so no one can help him, which i wanna do, coz i hate seeing my mates sad, but he doesn't let me. I'm sure people will play the puberty card, but this is extereme, he says 'there area a ton of little things wrong' in his life... I have a ton of BIG things but i deal with it...

2 days ago a recive a message in my Facebook inbox for a different mate, but he also recived it. I asked him why he turned his chat off and he told me it was because he blocked me. I asked him why. No reasonable answer, he ignored me. He begins to moan that I have done something(s) to piss him off. I apologise for everything I could have possibly done but he says thats not good enough and that I probably do know wht ive done but dont wanna admit it (but i dont know wht ive done) and plays the immaturity card as he tells me to 'eat out' some girl he thinks I like... anyway...

All i wanna no is wht can i do, he wont tell me wht ive done so i cant apologise... and i dnt wanna lose him as a mate... any advice, and no, not 'grab his cock'

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Ram your fist into his anus while he's sleeping.

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At 10/17/09 02:24 PM, Sinitech wrote: Ram your fist into his anus while he's sleeping.

You can substitute a baseball bat or a golf club for your fist, if you'd like.

How bout an Uzi?

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At 10/17/09 02:25 PM, robo885 wrote:
At 10/17/09 02:24 PM, Sinitech wrote: Ram your fist into his anus while he's sleeping.

You can substitute a baseball bat or a golf club for your fist, if you'd like.
How bout an Uzi?

going off the bat, i say lets cure his emo ass with a nail-bat.

never fails,if it does uzi isn't a bad idea....

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Posted at: 10/17/09 02:37 PM

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At 10/17/09 02:33 PM, kanon1 wrote:
At 10/17/09 02:25 PM, robo885 wrote:
At 10/17/09 02:24 PM, Sinitech wrote: Ram your fist into his anus while he's sleeping.

You can substitute a baseball bat or a golf club for your fist, if you'd like.
How bout an Uzi?
going off the bat, i say lets cure his emo ass with a nail-bat.
never fails,if it does uzi isn't a bad idea....

LOL I would go on, but if he reads this it kills wht little chance i hav of fixing this...

Gd bk up plan tho

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Posted at: 10/17/09 02:44 PM

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Honestly, tell your buddy's parents or something.
Obviously somebody who has more power of your friend needs to do something about it.
Depression is a very serious problem, take it from me, somebody who has suffered from depression for many years of their lives...

Don't spoil your friend, and don't do everything he wants you to do, make sure you treat him no different than anybody else just because of his problems.

Take the time to try and talk to him about it, see if there is anything you can do to help him.
Don't get angry with him during the process though, even if he says something you disagree with or dislike. He is only human, always keep that in mind.

Try and find ways with him to cheer him up, if you can't help him, try and find somebody else who can.

I know that for him it is going to be difficult to have somebody trying to help him, especially if he doesn't want the help. A lot of people can not admit to being as depressed as they truly are.
If you can't help him, try getting somebody else to.

I've learned that one of the keys to happiness is finding your own ways of cheering yourself up, nobody likes being depressed.

Try and get him to do the things he enjoys doing, he will probably have a lack of motivation to do anything, if he doesn't enjoy the things he does or no longer enjoys the things he used to enjoy, try new things with him, make him experience new things throughout his life, and hopefully he will find happiness in one of those things.

Depression is incredibly difficult to maintain and fix.
Don't be surprised if you can not help your friend, but always be there for him, you seem to care, and that's a great start. Don't give up on him, he needs you.


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Posted at: 10/17/09 02:47 PM

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This dude doesn't even sound like a friend worth having. However much you care about him, I'd honestly just say fuck it because depressed guys like him just end up bringing you down. It may sound pretty harsh, but fuck the fucking fucker.

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At 10/17/09 02:47 PM, Strength wrote: This dude doesn't even sound like a friend worth having. However much you care about him, I'd honestly just say fuck it because depressed guys like him just end up bringing you down. It may sound pretty harsh, but fuck the fucking fucker.

He cares about him, and nobody can control their feelings for other people.
I wouldn't give up on him.
What will giving up on him do? It won't do any good. If you think you need to help your friend, do it.


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Cheers for the help guys... I guess ill just stop being friends if EpicFail's advice...well... fails...

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At 10/17/09 02:50 PM, robo885 wrote: Cheers for the help guys... I guess ill just stop being friends if EpicFail's advice...well... fails...

I honestly don't think you should give up man, I can't stop you from giving up of course.
Regardless, still be his friend, he needs you, he may not admit to it, but if you've known him for 8 years or whatever, that's a long fucking time.
He's going to need you to support him, or at least talk to him when he is down.


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Suck on his cock!

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At 10/17/09 02:53 PM, EpicFail wrote: I honestly don't think you should give up man, I can't stop you from giving up of course.
Regardless, still be his friend, he needs you, he may not admit to it, but if you've known him for 8 years or whatever, that's a long fucking time.
He's going to need you to support him, or at least talk to him when he is down.

Except the OP's 13. They're teenagers man. Shit like this doesn't matter at age 13, because chances are the OP won't even fucking know this kid by the time he's 21. I mean, yeah I get what you're saying and this is just my opinion, but seriously come on, you've got fucking better things to do as a teenager than worry about some depressed fuck who the world would be better off without anyway.

Also, /opinions.

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At 10/17/09 02:21 PM, robo885 wrote: 2 days ago a recive a message in my Facebook inbox for a different mate, but he also recived it. I asked him why he turned his chat off and he told me it was because he blocked me. I asked him why. No reasonable answer, he ignored me. He begins to moan that I have done something(s) to piss him off. I apologise for everything I could have possibly done but he says thats not good enough and that I probably do know wht ive done but dont wanna admit it (but i dont know wht ive done) and plays the immaturity card as he tells me to 'eat out' some girl he thinks I like... anyway...

On the topic of this, you could get another friend to try and figure out what he thinks you did wrong. For everything else, I agree with epicfail.

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At 10/17/09 02:53 PM, EpicFail wrote:
At 10/17/09 02:50 PM, robo885 wrote: Cheers for the help guys... I guess ill just stop being friends if EpicFail's advice...well... fails...
I honestly don't think you should give up man, I can't stop you from giving up of course.
Regardless, still be his friend, he needs you, he may not admit to it, but if you've known him for 8 years or whatever, that's a long fucking time.
He's going to need you to support him, or at least talk to him when he is down.

I no... but its seems like he really hates me sometimes... but ill try... thing is, whenevr i try to tlk to him he turns his back to me/ignores me

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At 10/17/09 02:57 PM, robo885 wrote:
I no... but its seems like he really hates me sometimes... but ill try... thing is, whenevr i try to tlk to him he turns his back to me/ignores me

Well, if he doesn't want the help, there is nothing you can do.
Let him be his depressed pissed off self then, he'll learn hopefully.


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Except the OP's 13. They're teenagers man. Shit like this doesn't matter at age 13, because chances are the OP won't even fucking know this kid by the time he's 21. I mean, yeah I get what you're saying and this is just my opinion, but seriously come on, you've got fucking better things to do as a teenager than worry about some depressed fuck who the world would be better off without anyway.

i no u think it doesnt matter, buti dnt wanna lose a m8, things r going down hill in my life right now... but yeah, thnx EpicFail

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Actually, I feel bad for saying what I said earlier.

Give him flowers, see if that cheers him up ^^

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At 10/17/09 03:17 PM, Falonefal wrote: Actually, I feel bad for saying what I said earlier.

Give him flowers, see if that cheers him up ^^

THATS RIGHT YOU SHOULD MOTHER TRUCKER!!!

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At 10/17/09 03:17 PM, Falonefal wrote: Actually, I feel bad for saying what I said earlier.

Give him flowers, see if that cheers him up ^^

I'll get called gay and a slap for my troubles...

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At 10/17/09 02:24 PM, Sinitech wrote: Ram your fist into his anus while he's sleeping.

You can substitute a baseball bat or a golf club for your fist, if you'd like.

It works for prison inmates, it just might work for him too.

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Most of ur advice is great guys and ill try it.

he is 066pop btw if tht does anything

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