Boyfriends and breakups

[VGmasters]

A little while ago I read a journal from a girl whose 6-year relationship ended in some cruel manner. I can't tell if it was a fight or the girl's ex verbally abused her or what. I feel that guys like him take girls for fools making you think that they love you, then they simply walk all over you in the end. Do you hate it when that happens?

[Tobi]

That will teach her to stay out the kitchen.

[Proottalfain]

I've never had any boyfriend, nor do I intend in ever having a boyfriend.

[STEM]

Every gold digger deserves what's coming to her! Diamond jewelry, an escalade, a black eye, shiraz wine...

[ForkStorm]

Yeah of course after A 6 year relationship the guy was OBVIOUSLY just using her. Fuck I don't even have that long of a patience. Longest relationship I've had was about 3 and a half months, and even then I was dating for an actual relationship.

[Blush]

At 9/30/09 10:05 PM, tobi0 wrote: That will teach her to stay out the kitchen.

Hey man, she might have been out trying to drive. It's like watching a baby take it's first steps and then crash into someone. Just so cute.

[VGmasters]

Here's exactly what was said:

"I want to apologize for the last couple of journal entries. I don't like ranting about my personal life into my journals, but the last problem in my life was, needless to say, a DOOZY. My 6 year relationship with my (now) ex-boyfriend ended in a very cruel manner. I'm not gonna go into too much detail. Rest assured folks, it was ugly AND humiliating. NOT something I'd like to repeat in this lifetime.

In any case, the long and the short of it is this: I've finished wasting my tears over it. I can't go on blaming myself. You know, even after all this he doesn't even talk to me anymore. I guess I can't blame him though, either he's feeling really bad or really awkward. OR he's just very busy with his new life. Either way, I wasn't enough for him. And whether or not he talks to me again should not and WILL NOT be the deciding factor in whether I live or die. All I can do is pick myself up, dust myself off and go on knowing that I tried my best"

[X-Gary-Gigax-X]

Sounds like she got over it pretty fast. It must not have been a very satisfying relationship to begin with.

[OddlyPoetic]

Its not always the guy's fault. Sometimes the girl thinks its love when its clearly not. Some girls expect to fall madly in love with every boyfriend they have. Which just doesn't happen...

[Gedveikur]

somehow feel that that was hardly worth making a topic out of.... pretty just seemed like mos breakups...

[VGmasters]

At 9/30/09 10:20 PM, Gedveikur wrote: somehow feel that that was hardly worth making a topic out of.... pretty just seemed like mos breakups...

I dunno, it could've been a unusual kind of breakup.

[Gedveikur]

At 9/30/09 10:44 PM, VGmasters wrote:

At 9/30/09 10:20 PM, Gedveikur wrote: somehow feel that that was hardly worth making a topic out of.... pretty just seemed like mos breakups...

I dunno, it could've been a unusual kind of breakup.

Well it didn't say so... in fact, it didn't say a damn thing! Just said he broke up with her and that she was sad, but not anymore.

[Aci6]

At 9/30/09 10:05 PM, tobi0 wrote: That will teach her to stay out the kitchen.

I think its safe to say that that made no sense. As to the topic at hand, I must agree; it is pitiful. Being with someone for so long demands a face to face dumping as well as a light way of doing it, that long both parties have to be considered.

[HighWayStar365]

Men are cheap, ungrateful whores.

[Aci6]

At 10/1/09 06:54 AM, HighWayStar365 wrote: Men are cheap, ungrateful whores.

Hey now with the generalisations.

[Sealander]

At 10/1/09 06:54 AM, HighWayStar365 wrote: Men are cheap, ungrateful whores.

Only on newgrounds.

[fixaprob]

She took really long time to understand the guy...
She should have thought with her brain a little before thinking and believing the guy with heart in the relationship 1st.

And according to me the guy should be cut into pieces

[AnalPenguinFarming]

At 10/1/09 06:54 AM, HighWayStar365 wrote: Men are cheap, ungrateful whores.

I can account for being one of those men.

[EpicFail]

I only date mature people who aren't stupid and a waste of time and pieces of shit.

No, it's never happened to me.

[Lou500]

If you don't know how it ended then don't just assume it was the guy's fault.

[VGmasters]

At 10/1/09 06:05 AM, Gedveikur wrote:

At 9/30/09 10:44 PM, VGmasters wrote:

At 9/30/09 10:20 PM, Gedveikur wrote: somehow feel that that was hardly worth making a topic out of.... pretty just seemed like mos breakups...

I dunno, it could've been a unusual kind of breakup.

Well it didn't say so... in fact, it didn't say a damn thing! Just said he broke up with her and that she was sad, but not anymore.

She actually told me that it ended in a "terrible argument and lots of tears". That pretty much sums it up. Girls deserve so much better.

[agustana]

Men are only good for their dick.

[jmalouin7]

At 10/1/09 10:54 PM, agustana wrote: Men are only good for their dick.

thanks sweetheart

[agustana]

At 10/1/09 10:55 PM, jmalouin7 wrote:

At 10/1/09 10:54 PM, agustana wrote: Men are only good for their dick.

thanks sweetheart

And roses. And fancy champagne.

[CapnCrunchDaPimp]

That's exactly the position I'm in right now. Months ago, my ex girlfriend of a year said she'd never break up with me and we were meant to be together forever. Now, she's deciding whether she wants me or my ex best friend. They've been dating for two months, I've seen her maybe 4 times, only for an hour, and I still have a chance but I have to act like her friend and never be depressed when I text her. It's hard to do when I love her so much it hurts and she's fucking him now. That was her first time. It was supposed to be for me. She lied when she said she'd wait till marriage.

So yeah, I'm depressed all the time, hopeless and in love, waiting around until she makes up her fucking mind. I don't even know if I want her back when she lied to me on multiple occasions after hiding the lies from me, plus sleeping with my mortal enemy.

[VGmasters]

To those who'd like to know who she is, here's her Deviantart page. She's a very talented artist!

[quagmire690]

maybe he went onto colage ... started to cheat and do things that she did'nt like and after a while they started to fight... who knows... for as long as she keeps it a secret from the world, we may never talk about it.

[VGmasters]

At 10/1/09 11:03 AM, Lou500 wrote: If you don't know how it ended then don't just assume it was the guy's fault.

Of course...

[ParadoxSaint]

What a boring thread. I mean, sure, that's sad, but what a genuinely boring thread.

[VGmasters]

At 10/2/09 04:22 PM, ParadoxSaint wrote: What a boring thread. I mean, sure, that's sad, but what a genuinely boring thread.

Well you have no idea what she's been through in life. This is just one of many many things she's been through. For the past two years she's been dealing with assholes at work and other crazy shit that no one deserves to be in. She's a great artist and she's been going through endless cycles of bad luck, now she's dealing with this.