Fuck the friend zone.

[Siggles]

I fucking hate it. It's nearly destroyed my life. This has probably happened to a lot of other people too, so share your experiences.

[372]

I'm trying to stay in the friend zone D:

[Siggles]

At 9/24/09 11:16 PM, 372 wrote: I'm trying to stay in the friend zone D:

Well when my friend is the nicest and prettiest girl I've ever met, and she loves me like a brother, and doesn't tell me about some other guys she's been trying to hook up with, it kills me on the inside.

[CapnCrunchDaPimp]

It destroyed my first relationship. I was madly in love with girl but she treated me like a sack of dirt. I once went to the movies with her and she made me sit in front of her a row so she could use me as a place to put her feet and she talked to her friends the whole time.

[turbosquad]

shit sucks man, but dont let it get to you. just keep moving forward.

[Snicp]

never happened to me.
no joke.

[Siggles]

At 9/24/09 11:18 PM, CapnCrunchDaPimp wrote: It destroyed my first relationship. I was madly in love with girl but she treated me like a sack of dirt. I once went to the movies with her and she made me sit in front of her a row so she could use me as a place to put her feet and she talked to her friends the whole time.

What a fucking bitch. I woulda got up and left, then called/texted her saying "Thank's for being so nice back there, I really appreciate it."

[CapnCrunchDaPimp]

At 9/24/09 11:21 PM, Siggles wrote: What a fucking bitch. I woulda got up and left, then called/texted her saying "Thank's for being so nice back there, I really appreciate it."

I just sad, depressed, and fuming. That was four years ago. She apparently never knew she hurt me so badly. That was just the beginning of her shenanigans. It's heartbreaking, loving someone who doesn't give a fuck about you. We're still best friends, but it took me 3 good years to get over her.

[Siggles]

At 9/24/09 11:24 PM, CapnCrunchDaPimp wrote: I just sad, depressed, and fuming. That was four years ago. She apparently never knew she hurt me so badly. That was just the beginning of her shenanigans. It's heartbreaking, loving someone who doesn't give a fuck about you. We're still best friends, but it took me 3 good years to get over her.

Shit man.. I'm going to die if it takes me that long, unless of course we do have a real relationship.

[YoinK]

yea the friend zone sure is a big waste of time.... I need a lady to fuck...

[CapnCrunchDaPimp]

At 9/24/09 11:25 PM, Siggles wrote: Shit man.. I'm going to die if it takes me that long, unless of course we do have a real relationship.

Now my loving girlfriend of one year decided to fucking date my ex best friend I've known since the first grade. Technically we're friends now, and I still have a chance to become her boyfriend again but I never see her and today she blew me off for fucking hair dye that didn't even work. Fuck this shit, I suck at women. This is what I get for being the compassionate and romantic nice guy.

[Nosferatu-of-Worms]

Yeah it fucking sucks and I'm in the same situation. I want to move it out of the friend zone (tried to once, but got rejected), but I'd rather not push it and lose her as a friend. I think I'll just stay in the friend zone unless I feel she might change her mind.

Also best advice, try to move on and find someone else. It won't necessarily be someone better (as in my case), but it could end up being someone just as good and someone who wants to actually be with you.

[FUNKbrs]

Fuck that.

If it's ok for me to hump my male friends on the ass "in jest" , why should SHE get preferential treatment?

[o0-0o]

That sucks bro. Although I don't consider myself to be in the 'friend zone' since I've long since gotten out, learned to stay out, I'm still yet faced with an after effect that I am thinking of a way to deal with. Said 'friend' is part my usual hangout since we're like one big group, and said 'friend' tries to cock block me at every possible chance. Complete cutoff is an option, but that'll lead to awkwardness in the group etc etc etc.

[CRF250]

I just got myself out of that damn friend zone. That shit is treacherous. Hurt one of my other female friends in the process, it wasn't my fault, I didn't know what her problem was but she flipped out once I asked out my 'friend zone' friend. Life is hard.

[xXShortEmoKidXx]

What in the fuck is the 'friend zone'?

[o0-0o]

It's almost like the end zone in football, you get your ass kicked to get there except once you get there you still don't score.

[Major-Blood]

I fucking hate the friend zone. I'm madly in love with my best friend, but she has a boyfriend. It sucks being the friend. I'm always just the fucking friend. Fuck, I hate it.

[Dmabster]

I told a girl i loved her. She said "i love you too... like a brother" I asked "brother with benefits?"

[Sizzlebuzz]

I've been there I guess. Wasn't a big deal though. You get over it.

[JustsTrollingAlong]

Get over it, if you want to be more than a friend to a girl that you've gotten to be friends with, stop being friends with her. She's not going to see you in another light, unless of course...

[MissSkylark]

I'm going to play devil's advocate.

As a girl, I do have guy friends I only like in a friendly way and I'm personally not attracted to them. I guess that means they're in the "friend zone."

But, I have to ask. Don't guys reject girls that they aren't attracted to? What if your best girl friend had a huge crush on you and you rejected her on the basis that there was no real attraction? Wouldn't you be putting them in the friend zone too? I mean, I understand that it sucks really hard to be on the end of unreciprocated love, but not everyone you are attracted to is going to like you back... That's kind of how life works.

[JustsTrollingAlong]

At 10/22/09 12:20 AM, MissSkylark wrote: But, I have to ask. Don't guys reject girls that they aren't attracted to? What if your best girl friend had a huge crush on you and you rejected her on the basis that there was no real attraction? Wouldn't you be putting them in the friend zone too?

No, I would either reject her and not hang out with her any more or I would fuck her. One or the other, that's what it should come to when the issue is brought up (which it should be if there ever is an issue). Doing anything else would be bullshit.

[Timmy]

I feel like most guy-girl friendships do revolve around some sort of physical attraction, either between both or just one of the friends.

I know it sucks, but even if you are desperately in love with the girl - if she only views you as a friend, it's still better to just remain friends then try to push the "friendship" boundaries into a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship, thus ruining the friendship in the process.

If you truly care for the girl, then you want her to be happy - and she's happiest with you as "just a friend". Just put your physical desires aside and enjoy her friendship in return.

[cast]

At 9/24/09 11:45 PM, FUNKbrs wrote: Fuck that.

If it's ok for me to hump my male friends on the ass "in jest" , why should SHE get preferential treatment?

lmao

I totally agree with this man.

[Fineas]

freind zone sucks. My ex told me she wanted to be "just friends" when we were still dating. I caught the whore making out with my best friend a day later. I am no longer friend with him.

[Gian]

At 9/24/09 11:18 PM, CapnCrunchDaPimp wrote: It destroyed my first relationship. I was madly in love with girl but she treated me like a sack of dirt. I once went to the movies with her and she made me sit in front of her a row so she could use me as a place to put her feet and she talked to her friends the whole time.

Dude, that's horrible. You should have faked a hug and did this.

[Cybersief]

Probably the worst relationship event right there.

[DragonFyre9]

I knew an amazing girl when I was a freshman and I flirted with her for months. We had so much in common she had wonderful taste in music and a great sense of humor. She and I really clicked (also she smoked weed and that meant that she wouldn't object to me smoking). The only problem was that she had a boyfriend, and he was a douchebag. Eventually they broke up, but by that time we were "friends". I suppose it doesn't really matter now since I moved away from where I lived.

I still think of her once in awhile and it makes me sad because if circumstances had been different we could have had a great relationship..

[tarahloveshentai]

It always surprise me how much guys get upset over this for some reason. I don't mean to be unsympathetic about it but I guess I don't expect guys to react so upset for being shot down in flames, maybe it's because I still look at it with stereotypical gender roles.

What happened that caused that to happen? Like the events?