Alright guys

[RetardedNINJA666]

i've got a legitimate problem.

im with this girl right now that i've been with for almost eight months.
Lately things have kinda died down between us, which we dont talk about, but its obvious that the spark is gone (at least from my end)

Now im talking to this other girl who is amazing and everything, and shes really cool and stuff, but im still going out with the first girl.

I want to break things off, but at the same time i know it's going to hurt her very badly.

Can't anyone help?

[Dew]

I don't see what the problem here is.

[Digital-Terror]

If you really hesitate to break up with her, then you still have feelings for her.

[Lamar537]

Well, first you need to go bake her a cake with an ear of corn inside so she can bust out of jail.

[estrago1]

No one should stay in a relationship if they are not happy. You can tell your current girlfriend that you are no longer happy in this relationship and you want to break it off. Chances are, she will probably cry and beg you to stay, but if you no longer see the love and romance in the relationship, then you should leave it.

[BeAFreeThinker]

I'm not an expert in the area, but I'd say that you either like your current gf too much to break up with, or the other girl doesn't appeal to you enough to leave your current gf.

[Proottalfain]

Since you're hesitating between two girls, you're in love with none.

Do whatever.

[Craigie]

Don't break up with girl 1 and have them both! :D

[Attacknun]

If the spark is gone, then you shouldn't really give a shit about her feelings. But if you lost interest in the first girl, then how do you know if you'll loose interest in the other girl?

[sh0k]

At 8/17/09 11:22 PM, Attacknun wrote: If the spark is gone, then you shouldn't really give a shit about her feelings.

Obviously ur a douche who has never has a gf...but n e way read your own post over...its sounds like you should break it off with girl 1 and see where it goes with girl 2

[milinko959]

You really just have to man up and do it. it's not good at all to stay in a relationship that you don't want to be in. Don't stay in it for her sake if you want something else.

And tell her that. Tell her exactly how you feel. Sure, it will hurt her, but then again, maybe she feels the same way.

[RetardedNINJA666]

Thanks guys
I ended it and now shes crying on the phone.

[BeAFreeThinker]

At 8/17/09 11:31 PM, RetardedNINJA666 wrote: Thanks guys
I ended it and now shes crying on the phone.

Well as the others said its better to not be in a relationship that to be in a relationship you don't want to be in.

[Carmilla]

Just send her a text message and break up. OMG J/K Don't do that.

[Rabid-Echidna]

At 8/17/09 11:31 PM, RetardedNINJA666 wrote:

Thanks guys
I ended it and now shes crying on the phone.

Hang up, it's not your problem anymore.

[agustana]

At 8/17/09 11:31 PM, RetardedNINJA666 wrote: Thanks guys
I ended it and now shes crying on the phone.

Now you go ask the other girl out.