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Aight, I wouldn't consider myself a player or pimp, but i do get with quite a lot of girls, and i see so many topics here about failure with girls etc. Now I'm not saying this is the DEFINITE right way to get with girls, but let me just say i used to be terrible with girls back in high school but a lot has changed since then, let me pass down my advice for which works for me most of the time now...
1) Now the most important thing I would say is
CONFIDENCE
I know this sounds so cleechay(?) but trust me confidence is so important, don't walk around with your head down, body language is so important, walk with your head up and always keep contact when talking to her, always! Also, try make the first move, by this I don't mean say "hey baby how u doin", Don't come on too strong, just be friendly but show confidence, like say somethin simple like "hey how u doin", seriously, you'll be surprised how often this works. Also, if she catches eye contact with you for a few seconds, just do a cheeky smile, nothin too much just a lil smile.
2) Be slightly dickheadish
Ok, I'm gonna need u to be slightly a dick. If she's talking, interrupt her a bit, not too much but just at the right time. Girls "LOVE" a man who takes control in every way. So show some sense of status and power, also don't act all needy, if she arranges a date with you and it actually interrupts your schedule, tell her, don't let down your plans for her, playin hard to get is so attractive to girls. Also, if you meet a girl, I'd say it's best not to text her, wait for her to text you, it may come to the point were your dying to text her but just leave it a few days (atleast 3) and then if she hasn't said anything get in touch with her
3) Humor
Humor should of been second actually, I really think humor is important thats what a lot of girls like about me (no idea why), but try to read a person, to understand someone you have to know what makes them tick and spark! try read their kind of humor and use it on them, this is really important, so if she likes witty be witty, if random, be random etc, I've noticed girls like a lot of cheeky humor and charming at the same time, but maybe that's just a British thing I dunno
4) CERTAINTY
Girls "love" a man with ambition, trust me! they want a guy who knows what he wants, and shows sign of hidden power, because I'mma singer this works quite a lot lol but seriously just show signs of you're true self and it should work out, if you have a band tell her about it or like to make music whatever...
5) Highlight
Many of you may think you're ugly but it's probably just hidden, you need to highlight your shit! trust me! Like I always get told I have a nice smile, so I smile a lot when talking to someone I like (not too much), so try just do whatever you are told is you're best feature, if you have good hair make sure that shit looks right
6) Fuck You
I'd say the last one is fuck you! By this i mean fuck whatever is about you, the conversation should be 20% you and mostly about her, try direct questions to her and ask about her. They can revolve back to you sometimes but try keep the subject on her and try to learn her, and make sure u actually listen!! Don't go too personal on the first meetings, make sure everything progress' at a steady speed, so ask about her previous boyfriend's after like a week or something, not on the first time meeting her
Oh yeah I just remembered sometimes people get rejected (happened to me once, worst feeling ever), but don't let that put you down. I mean even if you get rejected thats the worst thing that can happen, it's better to be like oh i got rejected, and then move on, to be thinking to myself "oh what if i made a move on that girl, maybe she would of been the first girl i fucked or made love to". Btw, sometimes if you try the move the second or 3rd time, she will accept and get with you, I never had the chance to do this but I've seen it happen so many times, be persistent, i guess..., but only if your drunk so you have an excuse
most of the shits on you, these are just pointers that work for me.
Good luck, if anyone else wants to add something feel free...
