...is it "ok" for me to date a girl that I don't really have strong emotional feelings for (or "love", whatever fits for you). This girl that I met a few months ago has this huge crush on me. She doesn't tend to hide it. All my friends tell me I should date her, but I don't really have loving feelings for her. Don't get me wrong, I like her, but I'm not exactly in love with her.
Should I still date her and try to get stuff out of the relationship?
I think you should watch "The Land before time" with her and have some grilled cheese sandwhiches.
Render Unto Caesar
At 7/28/09 08:43 AM, OddlyPoetic wrote: I think you should watch "The Land before time" with her and have some grilled cheese sandwhiches.
Now I am bloody hungry thanks allot...
This post was valuable.
At 7/28/09 08:44 AM, GeneralAC wrote:At 7/28/09 08:43 AM, OddlyPoetic wrote: I think you should watch "The Land before time" with her and have some grilled cheese sandwhiches.Now I am bloody hungry thanks allot...
Wanna just go make like 49 of them together? Just chill, have wine, talk about high school and leave the kids to Aunt Edith?
Render Unto Caesar
I don't think that everlasting love should generally be the aim for every sexual relationship you might have, at our ages anyway. It might've been the norm at one point, but you know, things change. If you like her on a different level, at least you're probably not forcing it upon yourself too much at this stage. I'm not really an expert on relationships at all, but you could probably see how it goes. If you follow it through, then you'll both be learning about each other, and feelings can easily change as a result of that (for good or worse, mind). I think it would be a nice idea to try dating this girl, but take a look at yourself and try to see if it's only because your friends want you to do it, or whatever. If that was the case, I might want to think otherwise.
Anyway, my thoughts.
At 7/28/09 09:00 AM, Scarab wrote: Anyway, my thoughts.
thank you for the one helpful post. More posts would still help, though.
At 7/28/09 09:13 AM, TJoyal wrote:At 7/28/09 09:00 AM, Scarab wrote: Anyway, my thoughts.thank you for the one helpful post. More posts would still help, though.
It's common knowledge that grilled cheese cures everything.
Render Unto Caesar
At 7/28/09 08:43 AM, OddlyPoetic wrote: I think you should watch "The Land before time" with her and have some grilled cheese sandwhiches.
HAI FIAVE!
Not all caps ;P
You probably shouldn't even know what love is at the age of 16. Many people your age just throw around that term thinking that it refers to anyone you regard slightly higher than others, in other words someone you have a crush on. You shouldn't feel any need to have a long term relationship with her which you would if this was genuine love. The best thing to do would probably be to go out on a date with her, but without the promise of further dates. The one date should be enough for you to get to know her and decide whether you want her to become your girlfriend.
At 7/28/09 08:41 AM, TJoyal wrote: Should I still date her and try to get stuff out of the relationship?
It's good practice.
Though she might end up being super clingy, which would be bad...
If Heavy Metal is so evil, why would God create it? BECAUSE I FUCKING TOLD HIM TO, BITCH!!
Mushroomn. 6 years later it's kind of a dumbass name. Sorry about that
If I were that girl, I wouldn't want you to date me just because your friends want you to.
I'd say go with SeaBoundRhino's, but tone it down a notch. I wouldn't advise dating her until/if you actually are interested in dating her yourself. Spend of some time with her as friends and see what you think later on. Your feelings may grow.
But, really, your feelings are not what you should be concerned about in this situation. You should be concerned about what's going to happen to her if she found out that you were just dating her for the shits and giggles.
At 7/28/09 08:43 AM, OddlyPoetic wrote: "The Land before time"
OH GOD! NOSTALGIA RUSH
WELL I PERSONALLY WOULD GIVE IT A SHOT YA KNOW
could be nice.
if it isn't nice then just tell them you aren't digging it. they should understand, unless they are a fool.
Ask her out on a date somewhere, get to know her better, see if you actually like her. It doesn't hurt to see what happens. If you don't have any feelings, tell her honestly, and explain that she shouldn't be chasing after you.
Or be a douchebag and ask for the fabled, "friends with benefits".
"Vi Veri Veniversum Vivus Vici"
At 7/28/09 08:41 AM, TJoyal wrote: ...is it "ok" for me to date a girl that I don't really have strong emotional feelings for (or "love", whatever fits for you). This girl that I met a few months ago has this huge crush on me. She doesn't tend to hide it. All my friends tell me I should date her, but I don't really have loving feelings for her. Don't get me wrong, I like her, but I'm not exactly in love with her.
Should I still date her and try to get stuff out of the relationship?
Dear god, please do not judge your decision on what newgrounds says. If you wan't a girlfriend and you don't think you will find another girl that will like you any time soon, I would say go for it in my personal oppinion. You can ALWAYS back out.
you sound like this guy
cookie if you know who it is
At 7/28/09 09:41 AM, InsertFunnyUserName wrote: THINGS
Oh, Katherine. You and your long, helpful posts. :3
I WANT TO FUCK ON THE FLOOR AND BREAK SHIT
Just go out with her and see if you actually do get some feelings for her. If you don't, then just break up with her.
Please disregard all of my pre-2013 posts. I was young and borderline retarded.
as quoted by thelittleemo in my other thread... "Tap dat ass!"
i agree wholeheartedly, you should tap dat ass brah.
Absolutely NOONE is in love before the relationship starts.
What the fuck.
If you LIKE her, thats as much as you'll get from a pre relationship emotion.
fffffffff
At 7/28/09 08:41 AM, TJoyal wrote: ...is it "ok" for me to date a girl that I don't really have strong emotional feelings for (or "love", whatever fits for you). This girl that I met a few months ago has this huge crush on me. She doesn't tend to hide it. All my friends tell me I should date her, but I don't really have loving feelings for her. Don't get me wrong, I like her, but I'm not exactly in love with her.
Should I still date her and try to get stuff out of the relationship?
yes, it is "ok" but why would you want to waste time on someone not worth spending it with?
At 7/28/09 08:41 AM, TJoyal wrote: ...is it "ok" for me to date a girl that I don't really have strong emotional feelings for (or "love", whatever fits for you). This girl that I met a few months ago has this huge crush on me. She doesn't tend to hide it. All my friends tell me I should date her, but I don't really have loving feelings for her. Don't get me wrong, I like her, but I'm not exactly in love with her.
Should I still date her and try to get stuff out of the relationship?
Well you if have even a little something for her then yeah. At least give it a chance before saying you don't love at her in the deep sense. One Date should help you out with that problem.
You should fuck her, wait till she falls asleep, then drag her body out to the curb with a bus pass taped to her forehead.
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