am i overreacting?

[paradox9]

my Gf just broke up with me after we went out for a week, we spent 3 days together and loved every second of it, she told me that it was becasue she still had feelings for her ex, but she also said another main reason was that she wanted to date a girl

and now i feel completely worthless, i cant hold anythi ng up for more than a week and i just feel pathetic and a failure, im actualy just resisting the urge to go downstairs and grab a knife

[Maxxx01]

You know, women arent everything in life. You'll forget about her in a week, so try to occupy yourself to take your mind off of her. There are more fish in the see my good man

[TheThinWhale]

Seriously why so many gaywads?

you can't handle breaking up after going out for a week?

[X-Gary-Gigax-X]

Are you overreacting? Over an adolescent relationship that was doomed from the start as all are?

Kinda

[darkspartan000]

Dude, Chill the fuck out. I've had 2 in my past, The first was for a week, and the second not even an entire fucking 24 hours. The first just flat out dumped me but the second had feelings for her ex, and now her current "boyfriend" is threatening her and me as well.

I'm thinking about grabbing a knife as well, but not to end my life. I'm gonna end that son of a bitch's that keeps threatening her.

[Sekhem]

getting dumped for a woman? ahahahahaha
you must have been TERRIBLE

[esko-man]

She's going to call you in a week and tell you that she's pregnant too.

[The-Laugher-Of-Lor]

Yes you are. But you should start going out with guys. That'll show her.

[X-Gary-Gigax-X]

At 7/21/09 02:39 AM, Sekhem wrote: getting dumped for a woman? ahahahahaha
you must have been TERRIBLE

Woah, how did I miss THAT?

[yurgenburgen]

Yes, you are over-reacting. You'll get over her before you know it. I know these 'first loves' seem like they are perfect and will last forever and everything, but at that age nothing is set in stone.

[111122223138]

a little :D

don't worry..hang in there x3

[Me-Patch]

What you're experiencing has nothing to do with your ex. You obviously had no real emotional bond with her you just feel rejected, inferior, and unlovable. You're pain is largely narcissistic and perhaps even a deeper evolutionary response meant to motivate you somehow.

I shall ponder this some more.

[paradox9]

the thing is i know there are more people out there but i just feel worthless and kinda used, because it was only a week

[Maxxx01]

At 7/21/09 02:43 AM, paradox9 wrote: the thing is i know there are more people out there but i just feel worthless and kinda used, because it was only a week

I think it's safe to say almost everyone on Newgrounds has been in a relationship that didnt last more than 2 weeks

[BrainlessDan]

You need to calm down. You was only together for a week. Just smoke some weed and sit back and let all of your problems go away, and relax for a minute.

[Munzy]

First of all, it's her fault. If she decided to go out with you when she still had feelings for dickwad monkeyfucker (aka her ex) then she is the one who has no control over her feelings.

You shouldn't feel worthless if it's her fucking fault.

It was a week, so fuck it, you will meet awesome girls who are more stable than her and you can do a lot better for herself. Just keep trying, she's a bitch, don't let it bother you..
.

[Jercurpac]

I don't think someone who you only dated for a week actually counts as a girlfriend nor does she qualify for Ex status after you stop going out. She's just some chick you saw a couple times, but it didn't work out. If this is how you feel after going out with a girl for a week you might as well just resort to asexuality right now because losing a girl you've been seeing for months might kill you.

Looking on the bright side though while you're wallowing in a puddle of self-pity, tears, and was almost assuredly a small amount of excrement, you can always relieve some of that stress y masturbating to the thought of your lost love dive face first into some other chick's snatch. In fact, I think I'm going to crank one out to that thought myself.

[Shikamarana]

At 7/21/09 03:01 AM, Jercurpac wrote: In fact, I think I'm going to crank one out to that thought myself.

Oh Snap!

That's a little bit mean, bro. But yeah, he's kinda right, OP.

[zach8thorn]

i think u r wut they call a..........emo

[chi-master08]

Man, you don't have a right to bitch about that. If she's leaving you for no other reason then that she just doesn't know what her feelings are, then there isn't shit you can do about it. That or you were giving off a creepy vibe. It happens to the best of us.

Now, if she left you after a week just to be with another guy who you know is a complete dick and a man-whore, ( if you guys can't tell that this happened to me! ) then yes, be completely and totally pissed, you arguably have a right to do so. Until then though, don't be a bitch. Only psycho beast girls love guys who are bitches.

[paradox9]

its easy to tell me to forget about it if your not in the position yourself, and to chi-master im not bitching, i dont hold anything against her i just blame mysellf

[PenguinKommando]

Dude you sound like youre in fifth grade you dated for A WEEK, It probably wansn't meant to be,

[chi-master08]

At 7/21/09 04:12 AM, paradox9 wrote: its easy to tell me to forget about it if your not in the position yourself, and to chi-master im not bitching, i dont hold anything against her i just blame mysellf

Oh. My bad. You really don't need to blame yourself. I've been there, in the end just think that if she really wanted to be with you then she would still be with you, and would have gotten over something that was wrong with you. I honestly doubt it had anything to do with you.

But I personally think girls pull this kind of shit to mindfuck guys, so you may just need to vent.

[paradox9]

At 7/21/09 04:16 AM, chi-master08 wrote:

At 7/21/09 04:12 AM, paradox9 wrote: its easy to tell me to forget about it if your not in the position yourself, and to chi-master im not bitching, i dont hold anything against her i just blame mysellf

Oh. My bad. You really don't need to blame yourself. I've been there, in the end just think that if she really wanted to be with you then she would still be with you, and would have gotten over something that was wrong with you. I honestly doubt it had anything to do with you.

But I personally think girls pull this kind of shit to mindfuck guys, so you may just need to vent.

in honesty i was crying almost al night last night and today i just feel completely worthless, i guess i vented so it got something out, but right now i dont feel like crying i just feel completely useless etc.

[Me-Patch]

At 7/21/09 04:18 AM, paradox9 wrote: in honesty i was crying almost al night last night and today i just feel completely worthless, i guess i vented so it got something out, but right now i dont feel like crying i just feel completely useless etc.

Listen kid you will totaly get over this with time. Right now you're feeling rejected because, well you were rejected. It's a natural response. But soon you'll realize that someone was once romanticaly interested in you, and that means it will probably happen again. So just get back on the horse and prepare to fall off a few dozen more times.

[Scary-Kids]

If your reacting like this over a gf of 3 days....your fucking sad.
i dont want to know whaat its like when you have one for a week

[GiantDouche]

Oh my god would you shut the fuck up? Your life is not bad at all.

[chi-master08]

Ok, in the end you'll see exactly what I'm about to tell you because this has happened to the one girl that I had really deep feelings for, I'll also add that this may only apply to guys that are actually nice and try to be really good to their girlfriends.

Alright, now if you feel really shitty but you don't feel like harassing them about it, then they'll eventually get into another relationship. They may go through the motions for a while, maybe even until school gets out.

But then the most amazing of all miracles will happen. They'll break up with whomever they have been dating. Whether they do it or the other person does it, it will happen. And if the same thing happens here happens to you, then it will be bad. Like as if the Roman Empire just fell.

And then you come back into the picture, maybe not intentionally, like what happened to me; but it will more than likely happen. And if you do everything just right, she'll fall right back to you.

And everything will be perfect. I'm still dating this same girl and we're about to hit our year mark.

[Lepy]

She's gay. Don't even worry about it.

[TheWolfe]

You were so revolting, you turned her into a lesbian.

Well done.