Being nice is overrated (heres how)

[Masterzakk]

Most nice people I know are actually passive agrassive assholes who are trying to get something out of you. I know this for a fact because I am a "nice" guy. Even though I wish I could slaughter everyone in sight and get a reward from it I still act like a guniunely nice person. I am sure that pretty much everyone who has done something "nice" is doing it for a reward. Selfishness is a vice and charity is evil (IMO) because hobos are pretty much assholes to everyone. People donate to the homeless to "feel nice" even though I think feeling accomplished and ruining someone elses life is a much grander reward. I told my cousin, I hated her and I got a very good charge out of that and I was her favorite! Oh lordy yes.

[D3NTATUS]

Are you a psychologist?

[yurgenburgen]

Being nice really doesn't get you anywhere in life. From experience I can say that when you're nice and polite to people, they just try to use it as an excuse to walk all over you. Then when you refuse to take their shit, they act like you in some way owed them the privelege.

Like salesmen. When you get these twats coming to your door trying to sell you shit you don't want, no amount of polite refusal will get rid of them. You have to slam the door in their face to get the message across.

[D3NTATUS]

At 7/16/09 08:12 PM, yurgenburgen wrote: Being nice really doesn't get you anywhere in life. From experience I can say that when you're nice and polite to people, they just try to use it as an excuse to walk all over you.

That's not called being nice, that's called being passive. You just can't take their shit the first time and expect them to back off the second.

[TailsDollFan]

Eh, whenever I act nice or perform a nice deed to someone, I always feel fulfilled and happy. <3

Don't worry, I'm sure I'll grow out of it soon enough.

[TheDaveAngle]

Well, with shite like this being spouted off, no wonder it's so hard to find nice people in this day and age.

[Masterzakk]

At 7/16/09 08:00 PM, D3NTATUS wrote: Are you a psychologist?

Yes I am. Also why does noone read the entire thing! Being a dick to everyone is a great feeling.

[NapoleanD]

At 7/16/09 08:12 PM, yurgenburgen wrote: Like salesmen. When you get these twats coming to your door trying to sell you shit you don't want, no amount of polite refusal will get rid of them. You have to slam the door in their face to get the message across.

So true haha

Hilarious, somewhat true write-up on "nice guys"

[AngryBanana]

At 7/16/09 08:22 PM, Masterzakk wrote:

At 7/16/09 08:00 PM, D3NTATUS wrote: Are you a psychologist?

Yes I am. Also why does noone read the entire thing! Being a dick to everyone is a great feeling.

What makes it such a great feeling?

[Masterzakk]

At 7/16/09 08:23 PM, AngryBanana wrote: What makes it such a great feeling?

The sad look in her eyes made me feel stronger and more powerful thats why.

[SpikeAlpha]

Your evidence stated in your post, is that nearly everyone must think the same way as you?

Too big for wikipedia links? How about a youtube comment that blew your mind? Any of those?

[yurgenburgen]

At 7/16/09 08:16 PM, D3NTATUS wrote: That's not called being nice, that's called being passive. You just can't take their shit the first time and expect them to back off the second.

No. I'm talking about taking shit from them, I'm talking about how when you're polite to someone they assume that you will take their shit, and they'll try walk all over you, and when you tell them not to, they act like it's their right.

[yurgenburgen]

At 7/16/09 08:30 PM, yurgenburgen wrote: No. I'm talking about taking

I'm not talking about

[D3NTATUS]

The central flaw of this thread is that you are projecting your actions onto everyone, when that is not so. I dislike hurting people or being mean, whereas you obviously enjoy it. In my experience, being nice gets you friends and a reputation as a nice guy, which is pretty helpful when you need a favor or someone to help you out.

At 7/16/09 08:30 PM, yurgenburgen wrote: No. I'm talking about taking shit from them, I'm talking about how when you're polite to someone they assume that you will take their shit, and they'll try walk all over you, and when you tell them not to, they act like it's their right.

Oh, I see what you mean. My apologies.

[ShaolinFunk]

I'm nice. I don't try to get anything out of anyone.

[yurgenburgen]

At 7/16/09 08:34 PM, D3NTATUS wrote: Oh, I see what you mean. My apologies.

It's alllllllllll good man.

[tweekee]

I do nice things even if im only helping the person. I remember when I gave my friend 20 bucks just so he could buy a microphone for Xbox live. I didn't get crap out of that but I still did it. I wish I could tell people "Fuck you, no."

Even when I disagree with them I still pretty much take their side while barely holding on to my opinion. I remember saying Germany has the best metal ever. My friend said america has good metal and I just said "well America has good bands but Germanys is just a higher average of awesome and only barely." I completely disregarded my germany has the best metal ever opinion to be nice to someone. seriously if you can teach how to be more of a bastard I will gladly say yes.

what about if someone holds the door open for a person or people. There was absolutly no reward for that, it's called being nice. they could've just let the door close or slam it in their face. but they were NICE and held it open. so don't say it's overrated. it may not help you physically but some people actually like to be nice. and some people who don't like to be nice can't help but being nice. doing something for someone is a nice thing, reward or not.

[thenemisis14]

At 7/16/09 07:59 PM, Masterzakk wrote: Most nice people I know are actually passive agrassive assholes who are trying to get something out of you. I know this for a fact because I am a "nice" guy.

Thats the definition of dickhole abuser actually...

Even though I wish I could slaughter everyone in sight and get a reward from it I still act like a guniunely nice person. I am sure that pretty much everyone who has done something "nice" is doing it for a reward.

Let me get this straight... you are homicidal but your nice? What?

Selfishness is a vice and charity is evil (IMO) because hobos are pretty much assholes to everyone.

You Left Hand Path??? If your not get real... stick to shit you really know about...

People donate to the homeless to "feel nice"

first bit of sense ive heard so far i think

even though I think feeling accomplished and ruining someone elses life is a much grander reward.

you need to get some empathy.. you know that thing that lets you feel the pain of others

I told my cousin, I hated her and I got a very good charge out of that and I was her favorite! Oh lordy yes.

again this makes you nice... how again?

Yes I am. Also why does noone read the entire thing! Being a dick to everyone is a great feeling.

Do you have anyone who likes you because you must be lonely as hell

Left Hand Path/ Right Hand Path Explaination

[OddlyPoetic]

At 7/16/09 08:00 PM, D3NTATUS wrote: Are you a psychologist?

He could certainly use one.

Sociopathic prick

[Masterzakk]

At 7/16/09 08:38 PM, thenemisis14 wrote: Thats the definition of dickhole abuser actually...

Yep thats my point.

Let me get this straight... you are homicidal but your nice? What?

Well yeah. I wouldn't kill anyone unless it was legal though.

You Left Hand Path??? If your not get real... stick to shit you really know about...

Yeah you could say I'm of the left hand path. I know what your talking about.

first bit of sense ive heard so far i think

O rly now?

you need to get some empathy.. you know that thing that lets you feel the pain of others

Empathy hasn't helped me sense ever.

again this makes you nice... how again?

I put up the illusion I'm nice.

Do you have anyone who likes you because you must be lonely as hell

Yes my family members love me even though not much else. Even though I said mean things to them and make my mom feel guilty.

[gizmo12345]

im nice to nice people, but assholes will be treated as such

[Robotchk12]

I may act like a jerk, but I'm actually a nice person.

[Masterzakk]

At 7/16/09 08:59 PM, Robotchk12 wrote: I may act like a jerk, but I'm actually a nice person.

No your still a jerkass.

[Straight-Edge]

Then explain the fact that I'm an extremely nice person (in real life, anyway) who secretly does genuinely wish the best for everyone around him

[Masterzakk]

At 7/16/09 09:12 PM, Straight-Edge wrote: Then explain the fact that I'm an extremely nice person (in real life, anyway) who secretly does genuinely wish the best for everyone around him

No your just a passive agreesive self-centered asshole who wishes that he gets shit from other people. Atleast people like me admit our inner assholeness.

[Faires]

Hmm you have an interestin' Opinion !!

But I will help People and wil be nice, still !

[Robotchk12]

At 7/16/09 09:15 PM, Masterzakk wrote: No your just a passive agreesive self-centered asshole who wishes that he gets shit from other people. Atleast people like me admit our inner assholeness.

No, you don't have to admit you're a punkwad; it already shows.

[Masterzakk]

At 7/16/09 09:16 PM, Robotchk12 wrote: No, you don't have to admit you're a punkwad; it already shows.

Oh really where?

[OddlyPoetic]

At 7/16/09 09:16 PM, Robotchk12 wrote:

At 7/16/09 09:15 PM, Masterzakk wrote: No your just a passive agreesive self-centered asshole who wishes that he gets shit from other people. Atleast people like me admit our inner assholeness.

No, you don't have to admit you're a punkwad; it already shows.

Yeah, and he's a self-centered prick who thinks he knows the intricate personnel details of total strangers.

[blackattackbitch]

No, you're just an asshole.