NG, I'm curious. What's cheating?

[moonkhist]

Seeing as this site is inhabited with mostly guys, I'm curious to see what you all think cheating is.
As in, on your girlfriend, or your girlfriend cheating on you (For some, your boyfriend).
Pecks on the cheek, flirting, making out?
What is your definition of cheating?
I saw a BBS post of someone saying "if it's just a peck, it's not cheating. anything more is."
Or something along those lines, I'm not exactly directly quoting.
I'd have to say I disagree with that.

mmkay, now, your turn?

[HecticCircleCrap]

At 7/15/09 02:31 PM, moonkhist wrote: "if it's just a peck, it's not cheating. anything more is."

Hi, I'm the guy that said that.

The reason I said that is because my girlfriend has friends she might peck on the cheek once in a while when they meet. No big deal, really. I never fear she might be a lesbo when I see that.

[moonkhist]

At 7/15/09 02:33 PM, HecticCircleCrap wrote:

At 7/15/09 02:31 PM, moonkhist wrote: "if it's just a peck, it's not cheating. anything more is."

Hi, I'm the guy that said that.

The reason I said that is because my girlfriend has friends she might peck on the cheek once in a while when they meet. No big deal, really. I never fear she might be a lesbo when I see that.

Oh, okay. Yeah! That makes sense. I thought you meant pecking other guys on the lips or whatever.

[ngfan14]

At 7/15/09 02:31 PM, moonkhist wrote: Pecks on the cheek, flirting, making out?

Any of that is cheating, in my opinion. If you're dating someone, the only thing you should do with anyone else is hang out, talk, and give a hug.

[YouLostTheGame]

Dunno if I qualify to post on here, as I'm a girl, but whatever. I consider cheating to be anything you wouldn't want your significant other to know you're doing. If you know he/she would get pissed off if you were flirting, or gave someone a peck on the lips, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.

[lux2000]

Cheating no such thing unless of course you use god mode but that means using your console but finding your bodies keyboard can be diffulct

[HecticCircleCrap]

At 7/15/09 02:34 PM, moonkhist wrote: Oh, okay. Yeah! That makes sense. I thought you meant pecking other guys on the lips or whatever.

No, she has male friends.

[moonkhist]

At 7/15/09 02:35 PM, YouLostTheGame wrote: Dunno if I qualify to post on here, as I'm a girl, but whatever. I consider cheating to be anything you wouldn't want your significant other to know you're doing. If you know he/she would get pissed off if you were flirting, or gave someone a peck on the lips, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.

Hey, I'm a girl too and I post. Though I didn't mean to make the thread directed at the boys only, sorry. :P

But I agree with what you said completely.

[ifureadthisdie]

At 7/15/09 02:35 PM, ngfan14 wrote:

At 7/15/09 02:31 PM, moonkhist wrote: Pecks on the cheek, flirting, making out?

Any of that is cheating, in my opinion. If you're dating someone, the only thing you should do with anyone else is hang out, talk, and give a hug.

What if in the country she's from every male to girl or girl to girl kisses each others cheeks to say hello?

[Nohimn01]

you guys are stupid.

It depends on your standards, and the context of what's going on. People dating porn stars don't consider their gf's work cheating.

[TAUfanatic]

At 7/15/09 02:35 PM, YouLostTheGame wrote: Dunno if I qualify to post on here, as I'm a girl, but whatever. I consider cheating to be anything you wouldn't want your significant other to know you're doing. If you know he/she would get pissed off if you were flirting, or gave someone a peck on the lips, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.

well,thats a very open statement but it makes sense,if its something you or the partner can feel guilty or secretive about then it is cheating

[Struggle]

I might get a bit jealous is she's flriting a bit, but i wouldn't consider it cheating because i've done the same thing lol. Pecks on the cheek are fine, but the lips isn't. I'd say anything more than on the cheek is probably pushing it.

[ReverendMayhem]

Just as long as nothing phsically enters my significant other than I'm usually alright. never really been the jealous type

[Viridis]

Even flirting is a bit much if you're in a relationship. I wouldnt go any further than friendly chatting or a hug.

[TropicalParadise]

At 7/15/09 02:35 PM, ngfan14 wrote:

At 7/15/09 02:31 PM, moonkhist wrote: Pecks on the cheek, flirting, making out?

Any of that is cheating, in my opinion. If you're dating someone, the only thing you should do with anyone else is hang out, talk, and give a hug.

I kiss my grandma on the cheek.......

Ohhhh my godd...... So I've been cheating with MY GRANDMOTHER?!?!?!?!

[robotking98]

First, let me explain one thing. It's not cheating if your not married yet. That said, I would only consider cheating as having sex with a different person than the one your married to.

[Blaze-Heatnix]

Having NO interest whatsoever except your girlfriend sounds fucking stupid.

[o0-0o]

Anything intimate is cheating. Like a friendly kiss on the cheek would be fine.

[robin1232]

At 7/15/09 02:33 PM, HecticCircleCrap wrote:

At 7/15/09 02:31 PM, moonkhist wrote: "if it's just a peck, it's not cheating. anything more is."

Hi, I'm the guy that said that.

The reason I said that is because my girlfriend has friends she might peck on the cheek once in a while when they meet. No big deal, really. I never fear she might be a lesbo when I see that.

nope, the french even greet that way (the dutch too, but thats different)

[Jawdyn]

It depends on the girl, and how she naturally is with her male friends. Taking that into consideration, i'd draw the line at a peck on the cheek.

[Snake-Arsenic]

At 7/15/09 02:35 PM, ngfan14 wrote:

At 7/15/09 02:31 PM, moonkhist wrote: Pecks on the cheek, flirting, making out?

Any of that is cheating, in my opinion. If you're dating someone, the only thing you should do with anyone else is hang out, talk, and give a hug.

I agree with the flirting and making out. As for the peck on the cheeks, how culturally insensitive of you.

[Ultor]

Its when someone dates someone else behind your back and becomes intimate with them without you knowing.

[lauf]

I think cheating has to do with agreements you make with your GF/BF. I think cheating starts with kissing and further. Anything before that, i don't consider a real problem.

[SirNickaroo]

Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, A , B

Everytime

[bmxdudleydo]

At 7/15/09 02:36 PM, lux2000 wrote: Cheating no such thing unless of course you use god mode but that means using your console but finding your bodies keyboard can be diffulct

I know, and if ur console broke...Wait r we talking about the same thing?

[RED-X-MASTER-777]

hm.. cheating on someone is actually kissing them. I mean the French kiss eachother on the cheek when they greet eachother. But cheating on someone also depends on how long you cheat on them for. if it's a few secounds, it's not really cheating on someone, unless those few secounds continue

[TheWolfe]

It's less about the action, and more about the meaning.

[Atgod88]

I remember in middle school people got accused of cheating, which didn't make any goddamn sense to me since they weren't doing it. Apparently people would get two girlfriends at once, and then proceed to see movies and that was cheating. I can understand kissing but what dumbass would get 2 girlfriends, why make it official?

[Sensationalism]

It doesn't count if you were drunk and it especially doesn't count if you can't remember it.