Having some... Sexual issues.

[EpicFail]

Okay guys, so I sleep over at my girlfriend's house quite often, and of course, we always want to have sex, this girl and I just began dating a few days ago, but have had a thing for a number of weeks. Every time we are going to have sex though, I can never get an erection, we've really done every thing we can to get me one, but it just... Won't work.

I can get an erection with other girls though, I have in the past, I have while dating my girlfriend, I can get an erection from porn as well...

I don't want to be in a relationship where we can not have sex though, I mean... It's not all I care about, I really do like my girlfriend a lot, but if we can't have sex, it really brings down the relationship meaning to me a lot... And I am not the kind of guy to cheat on a girl... So, I know it's not me to blame for not being able to get an erection, and she is doing everything right, I mean my dick can get hard-ish... But not... Not a full erection, she's given me head, handjobs, I do things to her, but it won't get hard, any guy reading this should understand what I mean by not a full erection... Just when you're getting hard but aren't officially hard yet..

So, what do you guys think that I should do? I mean... This is really stressing me out, and as soon as we try for like, 10-20 minutes, she gives up and I go outside for a cigarette and beat myself up over it, but it's NOT my fault it seems, seeing as I can get an erection from anybody but her....

[stick-man-dude]

At 7/2/09 05:57 PM, EpicFail wrote: this girl and I just began dating a few days ago, but have had a thing for a number of weeks.

This is really throwing me off

[Hydecka]

Stop beating it so much.

[MJOLNIRchief90]

Well, you could always try viagra. Or you could go into another room, get yourself "prepared" and then get it on with your girlfriend.

[EpicFail]

At 7/2/09 06:01 PM, stick-man-dude wrote:

At 7/2/09 05:57 PM, EpicFail wrote: this girl and I just began dating a few days ago, but have had a thing for a number of weeks.

This is really throwing me off

We've liked each other for a number of weeks... And acted like we were dating... But nothing was official? What don't you understand?

[Steak89]

Duh.

[Scuzzfest]

*Glances at username*

Giggle.

We're not the best people to ask in this situation to be honest.

[FrozenTrooper]

At 7/2/09 06:04 PM, Steak89 wrote: Duh.

And if OP has high blood pressure, you just killed a man.

[stick-man-dude]

At 7/2/09 06:04 PM, EpicFail wrote:

At 7/2/09 06:01 PM, stick-man-dude wrote:

At 7/2/09 05:57 PM, EpicFail wrote: this girl and I just began dating a few days ago, but have had a thing for a number of weeks.

This is really throwing me off

We've liked each other for a number of weeks... And acted like we were dating... But nothing was official? What don't you understand?

You said you've been sleeping over at her house and having sex. That's like sleeping with your best friend if you weren't technically dating yet. It's just really wierd to me.

[Proottalfain]

It seems psychological, so forget about Viagra. Try stimulating yourself with porn before getting on with her, perhaps it'd work.

Or maybe you two aren't ready yet.

[HecticCircleCrap]

It's called "Viagra". Or it's because hers is the first real vagina you have seen and s are attracted to it more. Otherwise, get Viagra.

[biohasard]

Don't masturbate for weeks... Try to prevent yourself from even getting a boner. Then have her strip for you. You will get as hard as hell. Then fuck the shit out of her.

If all else fails go to your doctor about this shit.

[Carmilla]

Chances are the stress of the situation is the problem. Lighten up and stop concentrating on sex so much when you are with her. Just hang out and let things happen instead of pushing it so much.

And he doesn't need Viagra, you idiots. That's for erectile dysfunction which, since he can get erections at other times, he obviously does not suffer from.

[alfred-ashford-95]

You said you get an erection from looking at porn look at porn then once you get your erection from that fuck her

Hehe Erection...

[MultiCanimefan]

Could be anxiety, the fear of not being able to perform.

[Twilight]

Maybe she's a dude and you're turned off by her balls rubbing against your leg every time she gives you head laying down.

[Cybersief]

I found it funny your name is EpicFail. :)

And... Yeah, I have no clue. I think they have sex psychiatrists or whatever the fuck they're called.

[Dry-Ice]

Just relax.

A number of things could be causing it, you might be too sexually excited about it which is causing it to become too big a deal. You could be too tired at the time you meet her, or you could be jerking off too much.

Remedy it by lowering your masturbation rate (as in, stop it for a while) and make sure you're not physically or mentally tired when you get there.

When you're going to meet up with her, tell yourself "we don't need to have sex, we might not have sex, lets just enjoy the company and friendship" and you'll eventually relax yourself to the point where you'll easily be able to perform repeatedly with no problems.

[Luis]

if your gf is into oral sex she could service you for a bit, or maybe you can do it mutually. I think you should incorporate more foreplay into it and just relax. I dunno what conditions you are having sex in but rushed sex is usually hard to get real pleasure out of it anyway. So maybe dont have sex with her as often but when you do set aside a good chunk of time where you can take your time with it.. like with the feathers or other kinky shit.

[squadus2]

Try rubbing it out with sandpaper.

Always does the trick for me.

[rome-lherison]

Wow dude maybe you're not sexually connected to her.

[FrozenTrooper]

Jesus christ, why do all the threads that ask for sexual advice end up having like, 2 trillion mods post in them? That's just insane.

[FBIpolux]

At 7/2/09 06:15 PM, Luis wrote: if your gf is into oral sex she could service you for a bit

If she isn't she deserves a good kick in the butt.

[MultiCanimefan]

At 7/2/09 06:16 PM, squadus2 wrote: Try rubbing it out with sandpaper.

Always does the trick for me.

Do you use both sides?

[Ultimato]

Viagra.

[EpicFail]

At 7/2/09 06:17 PM, FrozenTrooper wrote: Jesus christ, why do all the threads that ask for sexual advice end up having like, 2 trillion mods post in them? That's just insane.

Because mods actually take the time to post in threads that really need posting in and are serious? And the mods just love me, really... I've talked to OMG SO MANY AND THEY LOOOOVE ME. I love them, Luke especially, only because he has the same name as me, Luke is Dry-Ice, in case you idiots didn't know.

[FBIpolux]

At 7/2/09 06:25 PM, EpicFail wrote: Luke is Dry-Ice, in case you idiots didn't know.

Hey, stop generalizing now. I might not know his RL name (well now I do), but I'm not an idiot.

>:(

[EpicFail]

At 7/2/09 06:30 PM, FBIpolux wrote:

At 7/2/09 06:25 PM, EpicFail wrote: Luke is Dry-Ice, in case you idiots didn't know.

Hey, stop generalizing now. I might not know his RL name (well now I do), but I'm not an idiot.

>:(

I know YOU'RE not an idiot, you're brilliant buddy! Uncle Fail loves you.

[PowerRangerYELLOW]

Lmao maybe your gay.

[Greenfrost6]

Relax, take a Playboy out back and get prepared, once your ready, go do it. But don't rush it.