At 6/25/09 03:33 PM, Lizzardis wrote:
So, can I be a member?
At 6/25/09 03:34 PM, lawlmaster wrote:
here are my problems. I go to school with religious zealots, i had a serious video game addiction (which i am over now) i nearly shot myself in the head,and my mother dumped me for a druggie.
Alright, well you may want to elaborate a little, or else it is rather hard to help you out, ya know?
Start with the more serious problems first, as they are most important.
About your mom dumping you for a drug addict, my mom's done the same.
The best thing to do, is always be there for your mom, no matter what she says, she's at serious risk here as drugs definitely do fuck up lives, she may not think it can happen to her, but if she's in an environment that has drugs around most of the time, it's very easy for her to try them, and she too could become addicted.
Just make sure she knows how much she means to you, and that you'll do anything you can to help her, of course, that is only IF you truly do want to help her, assuming that you do.
There is really nothing you can do, as a kid of hers, sometimes it is also best to just stay away at times like these, and let her learn the hard way, I did that with my mom after she rejected my help all the times I had tried.
Suicide is a very serious problem, make sure you get as much help as you can, as soon as you can.
Talk to a psychologist or something like that, get some anti-depressants if you don't have some already, just know that they will not make you happy, but they balance your brain chemicals and what-not to help you as much as they can, at that point it is up to you to make yourself happy, I suffer from severe manic depression and also anxiety, just yesterday I had the worst attack I have had in years, but I got through it, make sure you have somebody you can talk to at all times, expressing yourself always helps! Do things that make you happy, I'm assuming you wanted to kill yourself due to depression? That would make most sense in my eyes... Do what you can to make yourself happy, it may sometimes seem that you never will be happy, but there are ALWAYS things that can cheer you up, don't worry too much.
To deal with the religious kids at school, you can either ignore them, or find a new school, let your parents know that you can't handle them, I know how anything religious people can be, I myself am religious, as a LaVeyan Satanist, going to a school full of Christians would bother the hell out of me, regardless of a religion, if they preach about it all the time, you want to smack them in the face, I understand. Switch schools, if you can, because if you stay there in an environment that you dislike, and can't really handle, it will definitely stress you out, increase anxiety, and depression as well.
At my school, personally, I find the kids there to be way too immature, they always are doing stupid shit that is just so childish, I know they are young, blah blah, but once a person reaches ninth grade they should realize it's time to grow a set of balls, and mature a little, or a lot in some people's cases.
If you could elaborate a little more on some of your problems, we will be able to help you more. I'll do the best I can.