by his girlfriend. Honestly, I can tell. It's not exactly fair that I say this since I only met her twice, but I can't stand her. She's just one of those people you hate, but you have no idea why. She just seems snobby to me. But onto the whole brainwashing thing...
I heard of guys being "whipped". It's common and lots of guys are prone to it. We went to his girlfriend's softball game a few weeks ago. We were on the bleachers talking about stuff and his cell phone vibrates. He gets up.
"Where you going?" I asked
"Sara wants a vitamin water" he told me.
Although that didn't really bother me, I didn't really notice how whipped he was. It was the week after when we went to her other game and we were sitting on the bleachers. It was a hot day out. In the middle of the game he asks me if I want to go get Dairy Queen with him. I told him I didn't want anything. He begged and I gave in. So we went to Dairy Queen, he ordered a ice cream and we walked back to the game. He was eating pretty fast. We stepped onto the field and he threw away the remaining ice cream.
"Do I have any chocolate on my face?"
"No" I replied
We kept walking. Sara was in the dugout. We were walking back to our seats and he looked at me with a serious look on his face.
"Listen...if Sara asks, you wanted Dairy Queen."
"What?!" I said
"She'll kill me if she finds out I left. Just cover for me!"
My friend went up to the dugout area and Sara asked where we were. I took my seat at the bleachers. She raised her voice, but I couldn't really understand what she was yelling about. My friend apologized and sat back down with me.
TL;DR - My friend's whipped and doesn't listen to me when I tell him so.
Posintg this on newgrounds is only going to get you some smart-ass replies
Good job :D
Have you tried bitch-slapping her and calling your friend a pussy?
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At 6/21/09 12:12 PM, gdog163 wrote: Posintg this on newgrounds is only going to get you some smart-ass replies
Good job :D
I have faith in the small handful of mature people on this board.
What about talking to your friend?
I know it's the obvious solution...
Whats it to you?
Let him make his own damn mistakes.
This doesn't seem weird at all. He probably doesn't want her to break up with him.
Is this his first girlfriend? How as he before he went out with her?
Pm me about anything, you cumdumpster.
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At 6/21/09 12:17 PM, Ghyfty wrote: This doesn't seem weird at all. He probably doesn't want her to break up with him.
Is this his first girlfriend? How as he before he went out with her?
he's had girlfriend before but this has been his longest relationship. 7 or so months, I'm not sure. I try talking to him, telling him to stick up for himself and do whatever he feels like doing, and he just pretty much shrugs it off then does what she tells him to.
At 6/21/09 12:13 PM, TJoyal wrote: I have faith in the small handful of mature people on this board.
Honestly asking, what did you want to happen from posting this? If you just wanted to vent, that's cool, and I'm sure we can all laugh with you at some of the absurd stuff you've had to go through with your friend.
OR, did you want some reassurance that things aren't as bad as you might think? Do you want to get them to break up?
At 6/21/09 12:17 PM, Ghyfty wrote: This doesn't seem weird at all. He probably doesn't want her to break up with him.
Is this his first girlfriend? How was he before he went out with her?
Fixed.
Pm me about anything, you cumdumpster.
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Well, sit down with your friend and ask him to list her contributions to their relationship. If he can't think of anything more substantial than "sex," then maybe he should leave her.
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At 6/21/09 12:19 PM, DiaLady wrote:At 6/21/09 12:13 PM, TJoyal wrote: I have faith in the small handful of mature people on this board.Honestly asking, what did you want to happen from posting this? If you just wanted to vent, that's cool, and I'm sure we can all laugh with you at some of the absurd stuff you've had to go through with your friend.
OR, did you want some reassurance that things aren't as bad as you might think? Do you want to get them to break up?
I want advice on how to get it through to him that he shouldn't take her bullshit. She's not the greatest person I've ever met. Every girl I know (and most guys) that know her find her to be a bitch. Not to mention she's kind of known to have "been around" with lots of guys before. I just don't want my friend to let her get to him or anything. So advice would be good.
Your friend needs to sit down with his girlfriend and talk openly to her. They shouldn't have secrets for eachother, and give in to eachother a bit more. If his girlfriends can't even accept that little thing, they have a problem.
At 6/21/09 12:32 PM, Twilight wrote: Well you did leave during the game.
She was probably pissed that he missed some of the game, no biggie. More evidence is needed to find out if he's really "whipped".
And the Vitamin Water part is a bit far fetched. Alright, what the hell is the girlfriend doing calling him while she's supposedly playing a softball game?
Either you're lying or you're lying.
She was in the dugout when she called. I said the bit with the water was no big deal. But the fact he wanted to lie to his girlfriend and put the blame on me because he was scared to get her mad seemed pretty bad.
At 6/21/09 12:28 PM, TJoyal wrote:
I want advice on how to get it through to him that he shouldn't take her bullshit. She's not the greatest person I've ever met. Every girl I know (and most guys) that know her find her to be a bitch. Not to mention she's kind of known to have "been around" with lots of guys before. I just don't want my friend to let her get to him or anything. So advice would be good.
I know you care about your friend, but it's not up to you whether he stays with her or not. If you really can't stand her, or if you think she's a bad influence, you are fully in your right to tell your friend so, and that if he wants to hang out with you that's fine, but you aren't going to stick around with someone who you don't get along with.
However, if you're not willing to perhaps end a (good?) friendship, then I'd say take the high road and be a good friend. You don't have to like his girlfriend, but if you still want to keep your friendship, then you have to just suck it up and be a friend.
You told your friend, that's all you can do. If she likes to have a tyrant of a girlfriend, then so be it.
My signature was old so I changed it.
Wow, your friend's got it bad! You should just try and convince him you're right, if that fails, see if you can get some dirt on her, then maybe he'll dump her or something.
It's hard to decide what would or might work without knowing either of them.
You guys are all real swell.
At 6/21/09 12:03 PM, TJoyal wrote: by his girlfriend.
more like pussy-whipped
amirite?
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slap him across the face and tell him he's whipped
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Tell that negro to put his bitch back in her place.
At 6/21/09 12:03 PM, TJoyal wrote: by his girlfriend.
Dangit, I thought this would be about aliens, not chicks.
Oh, wait, there's no difference...
At 6/21/09 12:03 PM, TJoyal wrote: by his girlfriend. Honestly, I can tell. It's not exactly fair that I say this since I only met her twice, but I can't stand her. She's just one of those people you hate, but you have no idea why. She just seems snobby to me. But onto the whole brainwashing thing...
Anyone snobby is someone who has been raised by parents who were either highly strict or really loose and let their child do whatever the hell they want. Glad I fit nowhere into those 2 categories.
We went to his girlfriend's softball game a few weeks ago. We were on the bleachers talking about stuff and his cell phone vibrates. He gets up.
"Where you going?" I asked
"Sara wants a vitamin water" he told me.
Sign one that the girl is too full of herself to get up and do something herself, also a sign she is dating him just to use him as a tool and toy of amusement.
Although that didn't really bother me, I didn't really notice how whipped he was. It was the week after when we went to her other game and we were sitting on the bleachers. It was a hot day out. In the middle of the game he asks me if I want to go get Dairy Queen with him. I told him I didn't want anything. He begged and I gave in. So we went to Dairy Queen, he ordered a ice cream and we walked back to the game. He was eating pretty fast. We stepped onto the field and he threw away the remaining ice cream.
TL;DR He felt guilty for eating ice cream and he didn't want her to notice.
"Listen...if Sara asks, you wanted Dairy Queen."
"What?!" I said
"She'll kill me if she finds out I left. Just cover for me!"
I would tell the bitch to fuck off.
My friend went up to the dugout area and Sara asked where we were. I took my seat at the bleachers. She raised her voice, but I couldn't really understand what she was yelling about. My friend apologized and sat back down with me.
He seems to be the bitch in the relationship, how disappointing.
TL;DR - My friend's whipped and doesn't listen to me when I tell him so.
You could have wrote he is dating a dominatrix.
At 6/21/09 12:19 PM, TJoyal wrote:
Is this his first girlfriend? How as he before he went out with her?he's had girlfriend before but this has been his longest relationship. 7 or so months, I'm not sure. I try talking to him, telling him to stick up for himself and do whatever he feels like doing, and he just pretty much shrugs it off then does what she tells him to.
If it's been this way that long then you could help him end it, loving someone doesn't mean you change for them at all or submit and become their bitch, you have to keep the field equal and not make your mate into a toy or someone you can bitch at.
At 6/21/09 12:28 PM, TJoyal wrote:
I want advice on how to get it through to him that he shouldn't take her bullshit. She's not the greatest person I've ever met. Every girl I know (and most guys) that know her find her to be a bitch. Not to mention she's kind of known to have "been around" with lots of guys before.
She sounds like a dumb ass who can't make up her mind about what she wants, she just goes through guys like they are wind up toys then stops being with them after they stop playing her sick and shitty mind games. I would have ended it in 2 weeks if I was with her and tell her to grow up and quit being such a bitch.
At 6/21/09 12:34 PM, TJoyal wrote:
She was in the dugout when she called. I said the bit with the water was no big deal. But the fact he wanted to lie to his girlfriend and put the blame on me because he was scared to get her mad seemed pretty bad.
He's too scared to end it because he probably doesn't think he'll ever have another date, if you don't want to be right in the middle keep trying to help and tell him being a bitch to a dominatrix is the same as him being the hoe. Just help him to end, this is just ridiculous.
You gotta tell your friend that if he actually "fears" his girlfriend, than she isn't right for him. Really, you shouldn't be dominated in a relationship like that (unless he's into that type of thing.)
Wasn't there a comedy central movie about this type of thing once?
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well my one friend was getting whipped by his girlfriend, but luckily we (me and another friend) caught it early, and we gave him a couple nudges in the right direction. now it's all good though cause he doesn't take shit from her at all.
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At 6/21/09 08:31 PM, Eggys wrote: Because there's a thing called a friend and maybe if you ever get one you'll understand why people go out of their way to help them.
On that note, just hope your friend's girlfriend dumps him eventually. Or better yet, they resolve that weird issue with being "whipped." Try to get him out of it.
Or maybe people should learn to act like adults and make their own choices?
Or better yet, how about actually considering that this guy might, y'know, LIKE this girl--evil succubus though she may be. I'm really sure that going up to him and saying "yeah, even though you like this girl, I am going to be the opposite of a friend and not give 2 shits about your feelings" is the mature thing to do.
I mean, friends don't care about what their friends think, right?
/sarcasm
To be honest, I don't think there really is a way to 'get through to him'.
I mean, he's going to have to figure out that she's a bitch on his own.
I would say 'talk to her about it' but she'd probably end up crying back to your friend...
I guess, you're gonna have to try sitting down and having a serious conversation with him about it, no interruptions. If she's that bad he'll probably figure it out on his own... there must be something good about her if he cares so much for her.
Try understanding what he's thinking, that's all you really can do for the time being.
Good luck. :D
At 6/21/09 12:19 PM, Metal-Sonic-v2 wrote: Well, sit down with your friend and ask him to list her contributions to their relationship. If he can't think of anything more substantial than "sex," then maybe he should leave her.
My thoughts exactly, as if ur friend can't even be happy with his lass because she orders him around etc, then whats the point of having her as a girlfriend?
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