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I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:45:23 Reply

Today I went to see Terminator 3 with my grandparents, and then after that, we ate at a restaurant. When we finished eating, my grandma turned to me and said, "Your father is working tonight, so if you don't want to be at home all by yourself, you can come over and hang out with us". I told her I would be fine. She said, "Oh... Ok". She looked really sad. "We have HBO, you know..."
My grandpa said angrily, "He doesn't want to hang out with us, just leave him alone." (they fight a lot).
So then my grandma wrote down their home phone number, handed it to me and said, "Well, if you ever get bored or lonely, just give us a call and we'd be happy to come and pick you up".
I don't understand. They call my dad almost every day asking to hang out with us, and almost every time, we do.
Why are grandparents so sad and lonely?


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:46:48 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:45 PM, Headshot777 wrote: Why are grandparents so sad and lonely?

Because they know they are going to die soon. So love them.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:47:17 Reply

Your grandfather stormed the fucking beach of Normandy. Show that man some mother fucking respect you cunt.

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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:47:31 Reply

because they are just gonna keel over and die someday, so they want to be happy

T3 is still in theatres?

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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:47:52 Reply

Yeah I hate it when my parents or Grandparents drop the guilt bomb on me.

It's my Dad's fault I'm socially awkward anyways.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:50:42 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:47 PM, mastershake141 wrote: Your grandfather stormed the fucking beach of Normandy. Show that man some mother fucking respect you cunt.

I show them my respect almost every day. Even my grandma, and she didn't storm any beaches.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:53:56 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:47 PM, CowGoMoo wrote: T3 is still in theatres?

Yeah, because the "other" T3 didn't exist. Ever.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:54:06 Reply

Because they love you and wish they could spend more time with you.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:54:58 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:53 PM, Tabascork wrote:
At 6/3/09 11:47 PM, CowGoMoo wrote: T3 is still in theatres?
Yeah, because the "other" T3 didn't exist. Ever.

Shit. Whatever the newest movie is, I dunno.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-03 23:59:47 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:45 PM, Headshot777 wrote: Why are grandparents so sad and lonely?

Because their grandson, the child of their child, would rather sit in an empty house dicking around on the internet rather than spend time with members of his family who care about him and are near the end of their lives.

I dunno, call me crazy, I guess they just want to enjoy seeing you as much as posible while they can before it's all over for them.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:00:21 Reply

A/S/L grannie?


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:01:22 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:59 PM, THEJamoke wrote:
At 6/3/09 11:45 PM, Headshot777 wrote: Why are grandparents so sad and lonely?
I dunno, call me crazy, I guess they just want to enjoy seeing you as much as posible while they can before it's all over for them.

*sigh* Not helping...
But, really, how often do you spend time with your grandparents?


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:03:34 Reply

At 6/4/09 12:01 AM, Headshot777 wrote: *sigh* Not helping...
But, really, how often do you spend time with your grandparents?

When they were alive, I spent a lot of time with them. They tell great stories and they think everything you do is incredible and they make great food and they support you no matter what unless you are being an idiot in which case they will point that out because they love you.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:04:20 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:50 PM, Headshot777 wrote:
At 6/3/09 11:47 PM, mastershake141 wrote: Your grandfather stormed the fucking beach of Normandy. Show that man some mother fucking respect you cunt.
I show them my respect almost every day. Even my grandma, and she didn't storm any beaches.

I was just fucking with you man, I'm sure you show them respect, I think all grandparents want to be around their family more. Also if your grandfather really did storm Normandy on D-day that's fucking awesome.

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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:06:18 Reply

They are old, so they ain't going to be around much longer.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:07:01 Reply

Ah shit, I forgot to say, if you feel like an asshole, then call them and make up for it. Go see them again and this time make it your idea and not theirs. They'll appreciate the gesture very much, and you'll alleviate some of that guilt as well. Go on man, give them old timers some more fond memories. That's the great thing about grandparents, give them some quality family time and they're all good.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:07:05 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:47 PM, mastershake141 wrote: Your grandfather stormed the fucking beach of Normandy. Show that man some mother fucking respect you cunt.

STFU TWAT!


Not only do I not know what's going on, I wouldn't know what to do about it if I did.

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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:12:27 Reply

Take a deck of cards to their house. They'll have sex with you.

No, they'll appreciate that, more than you think.

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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:15:25 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:45 PM, Headshot777 wrote: Why are grandparents so sad and lonely?

I'm sure we'll all know when we're older. But really I think it's because they like still being a part of the world. I mean, they're old so they're relatively close to death (I know that sounds bad but you understand) so they try to still stay involved with the people they love as much as they can before they snuff it.

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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:17:58 Reply

At 6/4/09 12:03 AM, Scrotaculous wrote: When they were alive, I spent a lot of time with them. They tell great stories and they think everything you do is incredible and they make great food and they support you no matter what unless you are being an idiot in which case they will point that out because they love you.

Yeah, that's all true. I probably would regret not spending more time with them if they died.

At 6/4/09 12:04 AM, mastershake141 wrote: I was just fucking with you man, I'm sure you show them respect, I think all grandparents want to be around their family more. Also if your grandfather really did storm Normandy on D-day that's fucking awesome.

Haha, kinda. I haven't heard a lot of his army stories. I know that he jumped out of a bunch of planes, though.

At 6/4/09 12:07 AM, THEJamoke wrote: Ah shit, I forgot to say, if you feel like an asshole, then call them and make up for it. Go see them again and this time make it your idea and not theirs. They'll appreciate the gesture very much, and you'll alleviate some of that guilt as well. Go on man, give them old timers some more fond memories. That's the great thing about grandparents, give them some quality family time and they're all good.

I'm sure that would make them feel awesome. Still, it's pretty awkward to be around them. As I said, they fight a lot.

At 6/4/09 12:12 AM, Bad-Man-Incorporated wrote: Take a deck of cards to their house. They'll have sex with you.

No, they'll appreciate that, more than you think.

It's funny because my grandpa used to be a blackjack dealer at this huge hotel and casino here in Vegas. He would greatly appreciate that.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:20:26 Reply

At 6/4/09 12:12 AM, Bad-Man-Incorporated wrote: Take a deck of cards to their house.

Ones with naked girlys on them.

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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:21:02 Reply

If you have family, don't take that shit for granted.
I'm talking honestly and not trolling you. I won't say sappy junk like "imagine yourself old and lonely" or anything to attempt to draw empathy or sympathy.
If you have to be chemically dependant, have a few beers or whatever, and go over and show love to your family members.
People like you making me fucking jealous.

No offense. :)


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:21:57 Reply

At 6/4/09 12:12 AM, Bad-Man-Incorporated wrote: Take a deck of cards to their house. They'll have sex with you.

So that's why my grandma did that to me.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 00:24:01 Reply

My grandpa used to do things like that,

Oh hey boy, come on over and play colico vision with me, ill school you good,

no thanks papa, i got a comadore 128 now...


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 01:07:20 Reply

Have them play a few video games with you. If you have a wii this is a great time to dust it off and get the spiders off. Anyway they have hbo. This is a great time to have those party type of games which are somewhat easy to play. Kinda like mario party but not the other sucky minigame wii games. I'm sure you can have some fun.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 01:11:11 Reply

All you have to do is call them up without being provoked. Say you want to spend time. They'll die of sheer love and surprise.

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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 01:16:23 Reply

At 6/3/09 11:54 PM, Rig wrote: Because they love you and wish they could spend more time with you.

Rig said it best.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 01:19:08 Reply

Man, god damn, I am a cruel person but even I know that my grandparents are on their last legs and it's not loneliness, it's regret and realization that they're going to die and missed out on a lot of things during their lives. If I could take it all back I would have spent every moment with my grandpa, he is on his deathbed, he is going to die poor and he just wants so badly to walk again and be able to love his children. I can't even show my face to the man without feeling like I did so much less than him and have let him down completely. If it kills you, hang out with them, because it kills them even more.


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Response to I feel like an ass hole... 2009-06-04 01:21:40 Reply

They must not have friends. Take them to a social event.


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