At 10/7/09 08:31 PM, Mendou wrote:
I think a lot of the problems with this forum come from the fact that the users on here care too much about absolutely nothing.
Oh yeah, definitely. Actually, one thing I tend to be quite worried about (for realz) is that people might see me as a cold, crabby, maybe a little cantankerous at times; the Internet definition of "serious" basically. I honestly don't want to look that way - I wouldn't be pleased with myself if it was true to me.
Well, less pleased than I am now ;)
Anyway, yeah. My mind goes back to something DumbassDude once said, something along the lines of "Sure Scarab makes long posts, but he makes no effort to have a conversation." That got me down. Hopefully I've become more normal since then while just sticking to what interests me. I like to be helpful too - self-satisfaction and all that.
I think my previous post here works along the same lines as your comments. Hypocritical humour on my part? Well, that's up to everyone else, haha.
At 10/7/09 09:08 PM, Luxury-Yacht wrote:
I'm going to be honest right now, and maybe a bit off because I'm doing shots of Bacardi 151 and chasing with Sierra Mist.
Oh dear, alcohol and this thread do not mix well together.
Scratch that, alcohol and the BBS don't mix well together!
If there is something that has been lacking in the forums as of late, I'd say that it would be genuine intellectual/thoughtful discussion topics and people willing to discuss them. Seriously, very few topics nowadays are really stimulating. The only threads that seem to elicit a response that includes any amount of insight and thought are fucking personal advice threads, and those don't count because you can get that shit anywhere.
Maybe I'm just getting older and it takes more for me to take interest in something, but God damn, there are just so many topics around that don't interest me at all. I can't even tel you how many times I've gone into a topic and pressed the reply button only to go back a page on my browser after realizing that what I was about to say contributed nothing overall because the topic wasn't worth replying to.
I know what you mean, though I'm never sure how to define a stimulating thread. I tend to read through things I lot more than getting actually involved with a discussion, but I quite often enjoy myself anyway. I find myself learning a surprising amount around the BBS, whether it's just a bit of trivia or it's a recommendation (like, someone says "I enjoy Jack Kerouac's books, does anyone have any recommendations? And I say to myself, "I like Jack Kerouac too, better check out those recommendations!") or from something much "deeper". I've found that even arguments give away an amount of understanding to a passing reader... but maybe I'm going a bit too far with that one. I don't condone random arguments for the sake of some form of education!
I've found that really looking into your own interests helps. I call them my "hot topics". I may read more than I post here, but if one of my hot topics pops up, it's fairly likely I'll wear the keyboard out in what's probably some sort of rant. For me it's film, education, sociology, literature, and the pop culture reference here and there for laffs. I try where I can to come up with something that someone might find interesting, and I find myself clicking back partway through a reply sometimes... but oddly enough this is because I start thinking, "You're not giving anything new to this thread are you?", at which point I just shrug and carry on, ready for another wacky adventure.
As for humour on the BBS, I honestly do find the place more amusing in various ways than I let on to. Granted, a considerable amount of the ideas people come up with are dated or they don't appeal to me, but I have laughed at loud at many, many threads and individual posts over the years. I still do, regularly, but you know, this is a tricky thing, opinions on technique, etc. Comma. Humour can be filed under "the arts", so the same characteristics apply! I totally understand what you mean though, I'm just rambling.
I've sort of gone off the point of the thread by just discussing random things that Luxury-Yacht has brought up, but I've taken the title literally. Also, I'm bored.