At 7/11/09 12:07 AM, EyeLovePoozy wrote:
This thread is CHOCK FULL of wild accusations and ridiculous insinuations. I can still smell the butthurt from this thread two hours after I log off, for Christs sake.
I understand that of course. I've said before numerous times in this thread, that I think most of the discussion here is opinion based, not fact based (and this applies to, you know, online forum discussion in general anyway). Trying to make this thing into a fact based discussion would be a pretty pointless exercise, because it would be impossible. I've accepted many, many times before that any point I bring up will not be enlightened by knowing the full picture. I don't know the full picture! The best I can do is just take in as much as I can (which some might say is a relevant phrase if I'm applauding a mod's actions) and try to make an argument that might help people enjoy using this place a little more... or something.
One thing I keep in mind myself when browsing this thread is that I'm often combining what some users have fed back (particularly e-friends I've made here over the years, if I'm being honest) with how I see things myself. People, myself included maybe, may deliberately or non-deliberately exaggerate some things about you and some of other more "harsh" mods, but the way I see it is that people are finding faults with the place, and those "faults" can be discussed even without knowing the full picture. It's interpretivism at its finest. I think you might risk seeing only two sides to the debate otherwise: mods and positive regulars users on one side, against people being "butthurt" about bans, and I think that's... well, a little silly really. Maybe I'm the one being too serious there, it's a matter of someone interpreting me!
You'll have a different opinion I'm sure, but I think at times saying things like "you stupid kids need people to be harsh and badass" (not a direct quote from anyone obviously, hypothetical etc.) is almost as bad as the people that go around saying "Newgrounds is stupid"... on Newgrounds. It's not saying much about the community, a considerable number of which I maintain are more than capable of forming their own opinions of something without choosing between two typical sides. There are some interesting posts here and in other threads that bring up some issues, and these posts are quite often made by people who could claim to be regulars here, who don't often get banned or have any sort of weird, possibly hilarious, "e-vendetta" against any mod. Perhaps your point about "ridiculous insinuations" can be used for the other side too, who knows. Hmm.
It might seem like I'm moaning like an idiot here. If you look through some of my previous posts, it might seem as if I spend my whole life sitting on the fence, moaning about the points digging into my ass. I come to the BBS every day, and I find myself laughing at random threads all the time, but I don't usually post in them, possibly leading someone to think I'm just being stuffy about Newgrounds issues and nothing else. Trust me, it's not the case. I think it's time for me to push my new Literature Forum And Literature Portal Discussion, Film, Japanese Learning, General Literature Discourse, Comfy Slippers And Cat Chat Forum idea. That's a forum I know I'll more active in.
I'm not sure I have anything left to say here (I probably missed something out), but I'll probably find more to talk about as time goes on (!). Hopefully that clears my thoughts up that little bit more, ooh ah. I'll be happy to read any replies from anyone and all that.