At 7/10/09 12:35 AM, MultiCanimefan wrote:
If there's one thing I've said before in this thread(somehwere), it's the backseat modding rule. And yes, I have read NEVR's news post about it, and you can call me stupid, dumb, slow, ignorant, whatever; the bottom line is that I don't exactly like PM'ing a Mod EVERY time a user needs some help. It's so much easier to point them in the right direction without sounding elitist, but the problem is this: What's the difference between pointing them in the right direction and just telling them where they need to post?
There's a lot of room for confusion and differing opinions as far as the backseat modding rule is concerned.
Frankly, I don't think ANYBODY should be getting banned for just trying to be helpful, but the problem is that some users do come off as condescending or whatever when all they're really trying to do is be helpful.
I try to ban for backseat modding as LITTLE as possible, because most of the time, unless it's a user saying "MODS SHOULD BE DOING THIS", or something along those lines, it's usually just someone trying to be helpful.
I just had a conversation via PM with a user who was banned for backseat modding, and I told him that the best way to avoid having a mod misinterpret your post when you're trying to point another user in the right direction, is to make the tone of your post as clearly benevolent as possible. Put a smiling emoticon at the top of your post, for example... or one at the end of your post. Or both, lol.
The point is, if you make it really obvious that you're just being nice and trying to help a user out, then you shouldn't get banned. There's nothing in the rules against just being nice and helping people out, but if a mod sees your post and thinks you're being a bit of an ass about it, then... yeah.
So, in summary, make the TONE obvious. If there's room for a mod to come in and say you're being an ass, then you're leaving yourself open for a ban which frankly, you shouldn't be getting if you're just trying to help out.
At 7/10/09 12:42 AM, Mendou wrote:
It's not even an offensive word anymore.
I think that depends, really. I also think there's the larger issue of the fact that the admins obviously don't want their site to be seen as one that will allow its userbase to fling around homophobic / racist / sexist (etc.) language like monkeys throw around their own crap. That's not really the image anybody should want from a site they frequent, regardless of how accustomed people have become to using / hearing those words.
The bottom line is that the rule is still there, so we're still going to ban for it. And to be fair, it's rule number one, and it's probably the one I see broken the most frequently.