At 6/3/09 05:14 PM, SCUD14 wrote:
This is what's making the BBS un-fun. Far, far too many users (Mods and regulars alike) taking an online forum as seriously as cancer of the brain.
I do agree with a large part of what you're saying. I think I should say now that within this thread, I feel as if some of the posts I've made go a bit over-the-top in the stuffy department, and they may even come off as a little bossy when discussing another user's ideas. If anyone has felt like that when reading a post of mine here, then I'm sorry. If that's the case, then I probably need to work on my tone.
I think there's a fine line between taking an online forum super-seriously, uppity even, and letting the whole thing descend into e-anarchy as two extremes, as you go on to imply. As I've said before, I post in this here thread because I like the Newgrounds BBS (I honestly don't think it's "shit" as too many seem to believe; I could do be doing much worse things with my time than what I generally do here, trust me), and when relaitively established regulars/e-friends start to disappear for various reasons, then I'd prefer to get to the bottom of it, like many users and mods alike here have had a crack at discussing. That's what I believe to be the primary intention of this thread anyway: as far as I see it, it's certainly not to bitch to/about other users, that's just pretty painful to read, as usual.
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Just something while I'm here, I'll bring up something about SuperMarioBroS and the points he made. I've been saying for a long time in this thread that the great, sometimes unforgiving, world of online foruming is turned by opinion, and that's clearly obvious in this thread. Hey, they're important things about ourselves when we're talking to people we don't know and have never met face-to-face. Going by that maxim, your points are fair enough.
I feel though, that you don't do yourself much justice by going out there and addressing specific mods in the way that you do, if you see what I mean. It's similar to that thought of, "You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours" in this certain thread, which I'll admit is a little unfortunate at times, but it's reall only fair if you're asking for change at the same time. I do actually remember that "game" you attempted to get going, though not in great detail admittedly. I remember it being complicated, and I wasn't really all that surprised by the lock if I'm honest with you. As for another point: I've got to say, it's better to ignore posts if you believe they're uninteresting, stupid, etc. to you personally, even if they're getting in the way of a potentially good discussion. It's happened to me, sure, but you can't really have everything. I'd love it some of the fundamentals about BBS behaviour could be changed, while still allowing people to have a fun time... but I'm fine with what we've got, if truth be told.
As for Malachy... well, again, this is down to personal opinion, but I think he's a good mod, and he seems to be a decent guy from when I've spoken to him in Stickam once or twice, or in the largely informal Politics forum regulars lounge. I think I was first introduced to him shortly before he was made review mod, and I can't say I've seen him be a major arsehole or anything. That, and he made me laugh once. Just for that, he could be in my good book, yes, I constantly carry around a good book and a bad book.
I think I know how you feel. I had a negative opinion of BadReligionSkater for a while because of a 30-day ban in 2006. Hey, I was being a moron, it was fair enough. I like to think I learnt from it. aviewaskewed is another one, after a comment he once made addressing me. I think he's a nice guy now, from me being a self-proclaimed Politics lurker extraordinaire, and from posting in this thread. I'm betting most "grudges" work their way eventually. Sure, I don't love all the mods now, but I think that might be asking too much. As I've said before, they're a diverse bunch. That's not to say they don't have their shared... ahem, ways though. ;)
Just some thoughts anyway, ehm.