If I ever married my boyfriend, what we'd probably end up doing is, obviously, applying for the marriage license through the courthouse first, and then get a justice of the peace or someone who is licensed to do marriages and take them to wherever the venue is.
I don't necessarily want a church wedding or something huge if I ever get married, but I still want stuff like a cake and a white dress. You only get to do it once (hopefully), so I don't want to miss out.