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I dunno...I think the parents did the right thing here. Most transgendered individuals knew almost from their first concious thought what gender they were supposed to be; trying to change their thinking to correspond to what their body is would cause only a childhood full of pain and confusion.

That being said, it seems this article blew the lid off of this child's new life and put in jeopardy his/her new start.


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At 5/21/09 12:46 PM, WilliWowza wrote:
At 5/21/09 12:43 PM, Viper-Studios wrote: No it doesnt work like that at all. Gender Is like a nicer way of saying sex.
No it isn't.

why does a gender test on a newborn baby just tell you if its a penis or vagina?


You cant prove someones state of mind so it doesnt really matter what someone perceives themselves as
So years upon years and thousands of people who research Psychology are totally wasting their time. You can't prove anything, but you ascertain certain things and you can't just pan off everyone as lying when they say they are transgendered. Just because it doesn't affect you doesn't mean it doesn't affect other people.

Until you can read minds then there is no 100% way of determining a state of mind, the study is only to make predictions.


If your not born as a certain gender you will never actually be that gender.
Except if you're transgendered and take hormone treatment and have sex change surgery.

Then again it just makes you a mutilated being and you can never have babies like an actual female does if you were a male. Transgenders look nothing like females most of the time and you can pick them out. Females to males are often very creepy with wimpy voices and a strange look to them and it doesnt seem natural. Your arguement seems like faith based religious stuff which I doubt you believe in, as my arguement is a completely basic scientific explanation.

plus can you look at this and tell me its a woman? Is there a woman here that will say this is = to them?

Young boy will grow up as a girl?

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At 5/21/09 12:47 PM, CooperCreep wrote: I thought that when a boy was to be transgendered to a girl (and girl transgendered to boy), they would later on in life suffer depression-related issues.

Due to dipshits like you giving them a hard time.

If there is nothing the boy can think of doing in life by his response of nothing, then his parents are failing at raising him into a man.

Good thing your parents raised you into a retard.


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Whatever. The kids not getting a sex change and he probibly wont until he's at least in his late twenties. There are still rules about what qualifies someone for a sex change... I forget what they're called though and I don't feel like looking it up.

This is probibly what the kids going to do, they will most likely take androgen blockers to post pone puberty for a short little while, spend two or three years talking to a psychiatrist and if everything seems like it's in order then they'll take actual female hormones.

I'd guess they'd probably start taking the hormones when they turn eighteen, but it could be a couple years sooner than that. Than they'll spend the next eight to ten years transitioning until they finally get the final procedures.

They will be forced to pay thousands of dollars so I'm sure that if they really wanted this they'd have to do well in school and get a well paying job. And the expenses will help fuel our economy. So if you want to save the economy, get a sex change.


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At 5/21/09 12:55 PM, Viper-Studios wrote:

plus can you look at this and tell me its a woman? Is there a woman here that will say this is = to them?

The looks of people who are transgendered vary just like the rest of us. Not all biological women are model gorgeous and softly feminine; not all biological men are burly and have deep, sonorous voices.

But to me, this is exactly why it is a good thing that these parents started early. Their child now has a much greater chance of looking like a soft, feminine female than if they had waited and allowed the jaw, chest and shoulders to broaden and masculinize and the voice to deepen. Then it would take some very expensive surgery to correct and even so, their child would stand a much greater chance of looking more like a "drag queen" than a biological female.


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At 5/21/09 12:58 PM, Zen444 wrote:
At 5/21/09 12:47 PM, CooperCreep wrote: I thought that when a boy was to be transgendered to a girl (and girl transgendered to boy), they would later on in life suffer depression-related issues.
Due to dipshits like you giving them a hard time.

If there is nothing the boy can think of doing in life by his response of nothing, then his parents are failing at raising him into a man.
Good thing your parents raised you into a retard.

seems like coopercreep won this one due to lack of intellegent responses to decent questions.

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At 5/21/09 11:53 AM, triplenoob wrote: Maybe the guy just thinks he is born to be a girl, that happens to other people. But I hope it is rare.

It's not rare, asshole.

But stupidity like yours isn't.

At 5/21/09 11:49 AM, HeartbreakHoldout wrote: Do we encourage Schizos to listen to the voices?

Yeah and when remember when homosexuality was considered a mental disease you fucktard? Thank god we got rid of those deranged lunatic homos.

At 5/21/09 11:36 AM, JaY11 wrote: I'm a hateful dipshit that doesn't understand anything.

That's cool bro.


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At 5/21/09 01:00 PM, NeverHundred wrote:

They will be forced to pay thousands of dollars so I'm sure that if they really wanted this they'd have to do well in school and get a well paying job. And the expenses will help fuel our economy. So if you want to save the economy, get a sex change.

Right now, I'd be wiling to do it just to get a damned job. I hate this economy!!!


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At 5/21/09 12:55 PM, Viper-Studios wrote: why does a gender test on a newborn baby just tell you if its a penis or vagina?

That's a sex test. They always say 'The sex of the baby is _____'. Not once have I ever heard 'The gender of the baby is_______' . Doctors know the difference.

Until you can read minds then there is no 100% way of determining a state of mind, the study is only to make predictions.

What kind of pre-school reasoning is that? That's like me saying there's no 100% way of determining that gravity exists. There isn't. It's only a theory. But it's a theory that's widely accepted because of substantial evidence.

Then again it just makes you a mutilated being and you can never have babies like an actual female does if you were a male. Transgenders look nothing like females most of the time and you can pick them out. Females to males are often very creepy with wimpy voices and a strange look to them and it doesnt seem natural. Your arguement seems like faith based religious stuff which I doubt you believe in, as my arguement is a completely basic scientific explanation.

plus can you look at this and tell me its a woman? Is there a woman here that will say this is = to them?

What are you basing this on? Some pictures you googled? You can't pick out transgendered people because once they've made the change, that's it, they're female/male then and most likely wouldn't want to be referred to as their previous sex.
Oh and not all 'actual' females can have babies, so does that mean they're not real women either?
There are successful transgendered operations which you would have no idea that they used to be the opposite sex, you just choose to have a narrow view on the subject. Not to mention the later they leave the change the harder it is. As in your stupid example picture.

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At 5/21/09 01:02 PM, Viper-Studios wrote: seems like coopercreep won this one due to lack of intellegent responses to decent questions.

I didn't see any question marks you retarded troll.


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This 'katie' is a retard, he should be ABLE to make his own desicions, not made by his/parents

It's not that I'm so smart, it's just that I stay with problems longer.

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At 5/21/09 01:01 PM, galatea1 wrote:
But to me, this is exactly why it is a good thing that these parents started early. Their child now has a much greater chance of looking like a soft, feminine female than if they had waited and allowed the jaw, chest and shoulders to broaden and masculinize and the voice to deepen. Then it would take some very expensive surgery to correct and even so, their child would stand a much greater chance of looking more like a "drag queen" than a biological female.

Well I guess you need to watch if your girlfriend is having a period or not because to me if you have sex with one, its still gay.

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At 5/21/09 12:47 PM, CooperCreep wrote: I thought that when a boy was to be transgendered to a girl (and girl transgendered to boy), they would later on in life suffer depression-related issues.
Due to dipshits like you giving them a hard time.

If there is nothing the boy can think of doing in life by his response of nothing, then his parents are failing at raising him into a man.
Good thing your parents raised you into a retard.

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At 5/21/09 01:02 PM, Viper-Studios wrote:
seems like coopercreep won this one due to lack of intellegent responses to decent questions.

Thanks Viper-Studios for comment, even though Zen444 should be worried about now


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At 5/21/09 01:03 PM, WilliWowza wrote: Oh and not all 'actual' females can have babies, so does that mean they're not real women either?
There are successful transgendered operations which you would have no idea that they used to be the opposite sex, you just choose to have a narrow view on the subject. Not to mention the later they leave the change the harder it is. As in your stupid example picture.

yeah but if you have sex with a man that told you he was a woman its gay. If the man gets fake titties and inverts his penis and you fuck the inside of his penis its still gay. Either was when you fuck a cock its gay. So how are they a female when its gay to have sex with them and most guys wont do a tranny because of this.


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Well every guy has a bit of a girlish feeling in him, i guess. This guy's got more than a little though..

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At 5/21/09 12:55 PM, Viper-Studios wrote: plus can you look at this and tell me its a woman? Is there a woman here that will say this is = to them?

The problem with a a transgender transition is that although androgen blockers can prevent the male body from creating more testosterone and hormone pills can let it create female characteristics, there really isn't anything that reverses the effects of puberty. They really can't erase that unless they get extensive plastic surgery.

But if a boy where to get ahead of the curb and start androgen blockers and hormone therapy before the effects of puberty... in most cases they wouldn't end up looking like that. They might look a little androgynous, but chances are you wouldn't even notice.

I'll let the reader decide whether or not that is a good thing. I'm not really picking sides, I'm just throwing what I know on the subject out there.


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That is wrong.

I seriously don't have anything else to say.

My opinions are so useless, I don't even listen to them.

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At 5/21/09 01:04 PM, rsslee43 wrote: This 'katie' is a retard, he should be ABLE to make his own desicions, not made by his/parents

I think he/she did. And his decision was supported by his/her parents.

When I was pregnant with my second child, I thought long and hard about what I would do if my child was born with ambiguous genitalia (did you guys know that is the most common birth defect?) or later showed a gender identity situation. I pretty much came to the same consensus these parents did and frankly, I applaud them.


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At 5/21/09 01:09 PM, Team-xtrem wrote: yeah but if you have sex with a man that told you he was a woman its gay. If the man gets fake titties and inverts his penis and you fuck the inside of his penis its still gay. Either was when you fuck a cock its gay. So how are they a female when its gay to have sex with them and most guys wont do a tranny because of this.

What are you talking about?

Who honestly gives a damn if it's 'gay', that's so childish. If you want to be that specific on semantics then having sex with a pre-op transgendered could be considered gay, but once they've had the operation and they're a female, that's it. it doesn't matter what they were before, they go through the whole process to become male/female and that's what they are by the end of it.

I don't know where you got this 'its gay and most guys wont do a tranny because of this', since it's clearly just your own opinions. You could have sex with a transgendered person and not even know, is that gay?

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At 5/21/09 01:14 PM, galatea1 wrote: When I was pregnant with my second child, I thought long and hard about what I would do if my child was born with ambiguous genitalia (did you guys know that is the most common birth defect?) or later showed a gender identity situation. I pretty much came to the same consensus these parents did and frankly, I applaud them.

Well if your born without your junk you might as well just be a girl though I would live a sexless life cause i couldnt live with myself either being gay or being a makeshift lesbian. Still when "Kaite" is old enough to start fucking and is he/she fucks guys it will always be gay on both ends of the spectrum.

Please someone try to tell me that having sex with a born male is not gay if your a man.

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At 5/21/09 01:14 PM, WilliWowza wrote: You could have sex with a transgendered person and not even know, is that gay?

I can't believe you thought I'd be bothered you were originally from Iran!

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At 5/21/09 01:14 PM, WilliWowza wrote::

I don't know where you got this 'its gay and most guys wont do a tranny because of this', since it's clearly just your own opinions. You could have sex with a transgendered person and not even know, is that gay?

You shouldnt have sex with people you dont know its unsafe practice. Especially when your friends find out you had sex with someone and one of them knows it was a tranny and then your friends will all call you a fag for it. As far as being childish, men never grow up to be 100% mature anyway so you just life a life of immaturaties around you. If people were mature then there would only be the history channel and learning channels and stuff and noone would play videogames.


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At 5/21/09 12:55 PM, Viper-Studios wrote: plus can you look at this and tell me its a woman? Is there a woman here that will say this is = to them?

This is why I'm saying it needs to start early, not during puberty.

At 5/21/09 01:02 PM, Viper-Studios wrote: seems like coopercreep won this one due to lack of intellegent responses to decent questions.

This is from the same person who doesn't know the difference between gender and sex? Classic.

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I have something to say: Learn to stop being so ignorant of transgender/transsexual people. They may (may is the key word here) suffer depression and stress related illnesses but only due to the insane amount of prejudice from people like you. Gender-related "problems" also isn't caused by faulty primary socialisation 99.9% of the time (which when it does, it's child abuse). It's more likely to be caused by biological factors such as genetics (incorrect gender gene to the sex genes and genetic disposition) than the developmental fault of the parents.

So before replying to any message, think. Just think before you let any fingers touch the fucking keyboard keys. Oh and open your mind a bit, preferably with a hacksaw.

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At 5/21/09 12:55 PM, Viper-Studios wrote: Until you can read minds then there is no 100% way of determining a state of mind, the study is only to make predictions.

or just ask the person?

If your not born as a certain gender you will never actually be that gender.
Except if you're transgendered and take hormone treatment and have sex change surgery.

no, actually. You dont have to take hormones to change your gender, you dont have to do anything but truly believe you are the other gender
"Although gender is popularly used interchangeably with sex (male or female biology), or more recently with "sexual orientation" and "identity" (including LGBT), historically, within the social sciences, including political economy, it refers to specifically social differences,[3]"

Then again it just makes you a mutilated being and you can never have babies like an actual female does if you were a male. Transgenders look nothing like females most of the time and you can pick them out. Females to males are often very creepy with wimpy voices and a strange look to them and it doesnt seem natural. Your arguement seems like faith based religious stuff which I doubt you believe in, as my arguement is a completely basic scientific explanation.

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wait hold on are you saying that "Transgenders look nothing like females most of the time and you can pick them out. Females to males are often very creepy with wimpy voices and a strange look to them and it doesnt seem natural" is a scientific explanation?

plus can you look at this and tell me its a woman? Is there a woman here that will say this is = to them?

If I saw her walking down the street i would probably just think it was an unattractive woman before i jumped to man.


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At 5/21/09 01:14 PM, WilliWowza wrote:

I don't know where you got this 'its gay and most guys wont do a tranny because of this', since it's clearly just your own opinions. You could have sex with a transgendered person and not even know, is that gay?

And not only that, but there is a fundamental difference between being transgendered and being "gay" or "transexual". A transgendered person is a girl trapped in a male's body and vice versa. This is a birth defect, not a decision. They have proven that a person could look like a very masculine male and have the DNA of a female; there is such a thing as testicular feminization where someone that looks as feminine as any girl is biologically a guy (there have been cases where women have seen a doctor to find out why they are not menstruating only to find out they are biologically male). Why would correcting this flaw with medicine and then allowing the individual to go on and live as the gender they always knew they were meant to be and have what I personally see as a heterosexual relationship? Why would that make anyone "gay"?


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At 5/21/09 01:21 PM, Team-xtrem wrote: You shouldnt have sex with people you dont know its unsafe practice.

I agree.

Especially when your friends find out you had sex with someone and one of them knows it was a tranny and then your friends will all call you a fag for it.

My friends are moronic bigots. I'm not so bothered by someone calling me names that mean nothing.

As far as being childish, men never grow up to be 100% mature anyway so you just life a life of immaturaties around you. If people were mature then there would only be the history channel and learning channels and stuff and noone would play videogames.

I'm far from mature, but there's a difference between dicking around and having a laugh and having ignorant views about people's lives and what they have to live with.

At 5/21/09 01:21 PM, BananaBreadMuffin wrote:
At 5/21/09 01:14 PM, WilliWowza wrote: You could have sex with a transgendered person and not even know, is that gay?
I can't believe you thought I'd be bothered you were originally from Iran!

Now you are infidel and you not even know it.

Young boy will grow up as a girl?

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At 5/21/09 12:18 PM, Mechabloby wrote: A bit too young, really... and is he having a sex change, or is he just going to be a effiminate young boy? Should go all the way if you're more comfortable like that, really, or, y'know... wait until you grow up.

Indeed, I remember when I was little I tried on my mom's lipstick and the time when I had my nails painted by my neighbor

My mom washed it off with rubbing alcohol (or at least that's what I remembered, could be something else like detegent)

It could've been worse though.


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At 5/21/09 01:02 PM, Zen444 wrote: Yeah and when remember when homosexuality was considered a mental disease you fucktard? Thank god we got rid of those deranged lunatic homos.

Wait, can transgendered be gay? That shits fucked up.

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