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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 01:53:34 Reply

U EXPLAIN WAT LOVE IS THEN???? is it not a feeling of attraction toward somebody?? R there not different forms of love??? brotherly love, friendly love, spouse type love?? who r u 2 say that they arent in love??? 2 me love is one of the most fake human emotions b/c the love u feel 4 someone can b LEARNED!!!!!! if u want 2 love the way the person in this post is talkin bout, u simply hav 2 stay near/ hang out wit someone long enough and u will b in true love!!! howevr the human heart is very fickle which is wat causes those teen break ups and divorces.


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 01:58:41 Reply

At 4/12/09 12:54 AM, nightlyillusion wrote: I think love is different for a lot of people, what might be the hint that you are in love with someone might not be the same hint I will get, i think it all is based on personality and personal preference on how you come about being in love. I really seriously absolutely think it has nothing to do with being a teenager though it might play a part. But this is what I THINK.

wat u think is RONG!!!!! naww just playin................love is an confusing emotion, so although u think u kno when ur in lov, u mite not b in love at all!!! So ur half rite about the teenage thing, understanding wat love is comes from personal values and experience. This is y teenagers break up so often but adults can make it in2 marraige!!! Teenagers r just startin 2 look 4 wat theyy want in a lover where as adults hav already been through the teenage thing and kno wat they want in a lover.....


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 02:01:29 Reply

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 02:03:50 Reply

Thinking you are in love, is basically love in itself. It's not a bunch of teenagers pretending to love eachother, it's that they can't tell the difference, and they feel love regardless of basically all understanding.

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 02:23:34 Reply

At 4/12/09 01:58 AM, BHBK wrote:
At 4/12/09 12:54 AM, nightlyillusion wrote: I think love is different for a lot of people, what might be the hint that you are in love with someone might not be the same hint I will get, i think it all is based on personality and personal preference on how you come about being in love. I really seriously absolutely think it has nothing to do with being a teenager though it might play a part. But this is what I THINK.
wat u think is RONG!!!!! naww just playin................love is an confusing emotion, so although u think u kno when ur in lov, u mite not b in love at all!!! So ur half rite about the teenage thing, understanding wat love is comes from personal values and experience. This is y teenagers break up so often but adults can make it in2 marraige!!! Teenagers r just startin 2 look 4 wat theyy want in a lover where as adults hav already been through the teenage thing and kno wat they want in a lover.....

I knew you were gonna post in here :) It is quite confusing but saying all the 13-16 year olds are just feeling infatuation and wanting to "get some" is just retarded to say...........I mean seriously most of us on here are not in our 30s yet so no one should be talking about who knows what about love and who doesnt...........WE ARE ALL STILL TRYING TO FIGURE OURSELVES OUT


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 02:27:44 Reply

Your post is unnecessary. I have 3 friends who have been in relationships since the 9th grade (14 years old) and have been going steady onto our senior year in high school.


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 10:27:49 Reply

I dont really think love matters with age. I think it matters with one's maturity and with how he or she is handling his or her feelings towards the other person.
Though it is rare that we find young yet mature thinking teenagers, there are few others who, through experience, learned to be mature and because they have learned this at a young age they tend to have fewer mistakes when it comes to love.
For me its a good thing to experience love or just "puppy love" for teenagers..
But not to much exposure since it may destroy their concentration in their studies.

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 10:29:37 Reply

well, what IS love?

and baby, don't hurt me.

don't hurt me.

no more.


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 10:31:01 Reply

I see what you are saying; that teenagers pronounce love too quick. BUT! Does that mean that they can never be in love? Just because in some cases it's not true, that doesn't mean it's not real love in all cases. Give them a chance, you ass!


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 10:36:14 Reply

At 4/11/09 04:24 PM, DJ-Keen wrote: ..are "in love".

How do we convince them that love is not the same as the infatuation they experience at the beginning of puberty?

Example: "OMG i met a gurl on teh bus 2day adn shes hawt i love her naow".

No. That's your teenage hormones. Love is much different.

If someone could explain it better, please feel free to.

Dude there's this thing called a "crush" if u didn't know a "crush" is when you see someone you think is hot and you WANT to love them and have that person love you. only an idiot has never heard a crush. your also angering people. so I guess you are an idiot cuz you have never heard of a "crush".


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 10:37:00 Reply

Love, such a defeating feeling :c


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 10:39:15 Reply

i thought i was "in love" when is was 12 then i when i wanted to ask that person out sunddenly the felling was over


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 10:45:32 Reply

Never mind, It's not hurting you is it? Just let them have there moment.


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 11:05:27 Reply

What the hell are they supposed to say to their partner then? I really like you lots?


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 11:11:12 Reply

In my opinion, it most certainly possible to be in love at that specific time in life. In nearly all cases, though, the "love" that the two share is just the desire to have sex with one another at one point, continue that cycle for a short while, and then move on.


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 11:35:17 Reply

Love is currently illogical for us, due to the fact that we are unlikely to fulfil the ultimate condition of love, which is procreation. Love is only logical when it has created one or more offspring to continue our species.

Logical prevails over all, and due to the fact that I am ruled by cold, hard logic, I can see the positive benifit of not being in love. This is not sociopathy, due to the fact that I can have fellings, but due to my intelligence and ego I see that those who are not beneficial to society require extermination, unless they prove themselves to be a benefit.

I am likely to become a sociopath, but I will not, due to the fact that it is also illogical. I have a rather high IQ, bordering on genious, that is both a boon and a curse. I can see paterns and logic where others see only chaos, but that also means that I become irritated at others incapability to grasp issues which to me are simple and logical.

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 11:52:02 Reply

I find it hard to believe that you can tell every 13-16 year old person how they feel.

Dude, I know what love is, and just because I'm 16 doesn't mean I'm blinded by hormones.

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 11:56:20 Reply

At 4/12/09 11:52 AM, Mz-frost95-fr wrote: I find it hard to believe that you can tell every 13-16 year old person how they feel.

Dude, I know what love is, and just because I'm 16 doesn't mean I'm blinded by hormones.

Agreed, I am 14, and I understand love, but I see that it is illogical for those under 16 to experience it.

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 11:58:01 Reply

what is love?
love is llamas.
therefore you're not in love until you're bitten by a llama.

I think I may have got it wrong though...

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 12:00:13 Reply

most "love" that they think they feel is actually lust, there's nothing that you can do about it. i've learned to live with this (yes it's always annoying) but you shouldn't worry about other people.


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 13:09:35 Reply

At 4/12/09 11:05 AM, Shnam wrote: What the hell are they supposed to say to their partner then? I really like you lots?

"You mean a lot to me."

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 13:47:49 Reply

At 4/12/09 11:52 AM, Mz-frost95-fr wrote: I find it hard to believe that you can tell every 13-16 year old person how they feel.

Dude, I know what love is, and just because I'm 16 doesn't mean I'm blinded by hormones.

I'd bet money that that is his expected reply from every single person he just described.


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 13:53:51 Reply

I am thirteen and I agree with the OP, I used to care but now I can't manage to give a flying fuck. It's just pointless to try to convince yourself that you are "in love". What teenagers feel (and me too, I am a teenager too) is just hormones, like the OP said. Real love is something psicological and way more deep than "that girl is preety, I wanna date her. Oh shit! I'm in love!"

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 13:55:13 Reply

At 4/11/09 04:26 PM, RKthrilla wrote:
At 4/11/09 04:24 PM, DJ-Keen wrote:
No. That's your teenage hormones. Love is much different.
How can you say what love is?

Have you ever known the true feeling of love?

The question is...

WHAT IS LOVE?


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 13:57:14 Reply

At 4/12/09 01:55 PM, Xavierthewarlord wrote: The question is...

WHAT IS LOVE?

You are ASKING for a Baby don't hurt me...

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 14:00:46 Reply

Only 1 year and 2 months till I'll finally not be in love :D

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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 14:01:54 Reply

At 4/12/09 01:57 PM, Zyphonee wrote:
At 4/12/09 01:55 PM, Xavierthewarlord wrote: The question is...

WHAT IS LOVE?
You are ASKING for a Baby don't hurt me...

The joke is lost on you.


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Response to 13-16 year olds that think they... 2009-04-12 14:33:52 Reply

This is love ;D