At 4/9/09 09:39 PM, ornery wrote:
She is 23, she is allowed to go out without parental permisson.
Here's the thing...
She lives with her parents. It's their house and thus their rules... there's no middle ground in gaining independence and living with your family.
I'm in between... I have a place, but I rent it out (and using the rent to pay for the place...)
But I'm at my parent's home... albiet that I'm 27, I've had my wild days. It's great to be at home, really... I'm earning my own house, and I literally don't have to do anything but be landlord once in a while. Which is good because I can't find one fucking job right now in this friggin economy, and if I lived on my own... I would have been homeless and lost all those years of payments on that house.
If that means that I have to occassionally phone in once in a while when I'm out, I think that's a wonderful compensation...
And giving people discounts at starbucks is a nice thing, i say fuck starbucks for fireing her, all she was doing was pricing their coffee correctly for once. As for not being able a to find a new job, it aint easy these days. Who is she hurting really?
Maybe she did it way too many times. It's one thing to do it once in a while, and another thing of doing it all the time.
Patience is weighing thin and I'm hoping my mom will finally kick her out because my dad and I both hate her.
Seems like an unfair bias. She may be a bit of a lazy lump but from what you descirbe her as she is just a bit different and you are being unfairly judgemental. Maybe mention something that is actually bad and not just your general dislike for someones appearance or view on life.
I feel the same.
Although, I have HORRIBLE blood relatives. They've stole my mother's inheritance (a big ol plot of good land in Mexico...) and my uncle is a drunken violent man with a big fixation with guns.
I have a half-sister, but that was because my mother was raped. My uncle abused my mother and tried to make the baby abort. And when my mother immigrated to the US-- he decided to raise my half sister, and he basically told lies about my mom... that she abandoned her and stuff like that.
My mom and sister re-united 30 years later, and I got to know my half sister until I was 24 years of age. And my uncle was very upset that we have a good relationship... my half sister hates my uncle now, and that seems to hurt him really good.
and it gives me undesirable pleasure to see that bastard hurt in that way.
Because he deserves it for being such an evil man...