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Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 03:54 PM Reply

This isn't a relationship help thread. It's about wether my adulthood could cause problems due to the law.

I am 18 years old, and recently started dating a 16 year old girl, and so far things have been going great. Her mother is against her having a boyfriend though, and she doesn't know about me. I was wondering would there be any way I could get in trouble (with the law) for dating somebody who isn't an adult like I am now? (Here in Quebec, Canada, the adult age is 18)

People tell me it could be classified under 'pedophile' just because I'm an adult. Is this true?


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 03:56 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 03:54 PM, MarchelloBB wrote: People tell me it could be classified under 'pedophile' just because I'm an adult. Is this true?

If it's 18, then yes, technically it is illegal.

However, you can both deny it and most likely, nothing will come out of it.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 03:57 PM Reply

You will only have legal problems if you get caught having sex with her.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 03:57 PM Reply

The age of consent is 14 in some countries and 16 in others, which makes you dating her legal, the only thing you can't do is publish nude photos of her.

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 03:58 PM Reply

oh no you are 2 years older than her, the horror.
There is nothing wrong with dating someone under the legal age if you are just over it. Sure sex may be illegal for 2 years but plenty of 16 year olds have sex anyway so who cares.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 03:58 PM Reply

Like the dude above me said, just don't get caught rapi... I mean having sex with her, or it will be considered rape baby! The parents will lay their wrath upon you.

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 03:58 PM Reply

I hope you get arrested you fucking pedophile.

i'm cool now right guys?

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 03:59 PM Reply

The age of consent is 16 in Canada, you can date a 16 year old, this doesn't really have to go on any further.

Just don't publish nude photos of her.

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:00 PM Reply

You's gonna go to jail.

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:02 PM Reply

Thanks for those of you who posted seriously, it's a good thing she just turned 16 last week!


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:04 PM Reply

I know where I live there can be a four year age difference as long as the girl is over the age of 16 and the older person isn't in a position of authority over the younger person like a teacher or something. You'll have to check local laws for yourself though. It could be different.

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:06 PM Reply

So basically, having sex is illegal? I'm a criminal :(

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:08 PM Reply

Obviously, you are not gonna get in trouble for that. Do you think you are the only 18 year old in the world who dates with a 16 year old? ;) And if it´s just "dating", I think it´s never a problem anyway.

Not 100% sure, but I believe where I live, a 12 year difference is the maximum allowed if one is underaged. So as a 25 year old, you may still have a relationship with a 13 year old. Although quite a big difference in maturity, that law doesn´t seem unreasonable to me... And no-one´s gonna go for 7 year olds when he´s 19. Or at least I have never heard of such a case :p


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:10 PM Reply

A 'Pedo' is someone who is attracted to prepubescent children.

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:10 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 03:54 PM, MarchelloBB wrote:
People tell me it could be classified under 'pedophile' just because I'm an adult. Is this true?

No, you would be classed as a statutory rapist not a paedophile. The pyschological definition of a paedophile is somebody who is attracted to pre-pubescent children and a 16 year old is way past puberty.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:10 PM Reply

End that shit now, you should know better than to date a girl of that age, and expect anything good from it.

I mean, you're already having doubts and I was with a 15 y/o back when I was 17/18.. trust me, get the fuck out of it now, and find a chick your age or older.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:13 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 04:08 PM, Auz wrote:
100% sure, where I live, a 12 year difference is the minimum allowed if one is underaged. So as a 25 year old, you may still have a relationship with a 13 year old. Although quite a small difference in morality, that law doesn´t seem unreasonable to me... And no-one´s gonna go for 7 year olds when he´s 19. Or at least I have never heard of such a case >:(

A 25 year old fucking a thirteen year old.Wow your country needs Chris Hanson.

erm here's some filler words.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:13 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 04:10 PM, Lotus wrote: End that shit now, you should know better than to date a girl of that age, and expect anything good from it.

I mean, you're already having doubts and I was with a 15 y/o back when I was 17/18.. trust me, get the fuck out of it now, and find a chick your age or older.

Can you explain? I'm not expecting this relationship to last forever, if that's what you're thinking. Whatever will happen will happen.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:14 PM Reply

The general family term of a pedophile is an old man having sex with young children, yet there are marriages that seem fit and normal with a 15 year age difference. I suggest trying to work it out with her parents, although some of the 16 year old parents are bullshit assholes and are against anything that they don't seem fit, like dating and such. So if you cant work it out with her parents, you can wait til she is 18 and go from there, because her parents could file a lawsuit against you if you date her without their approval, and that's still bullshit, so be careful.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:15 PM Reply

dont see anything wrong with just dating her, but untill she is 18 you shouldnt go further then that

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:16 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 04:13 PM, lawlmaster wrote:
A 25 year old fucking a thirteen year old.Wow your country needs Chris Hanson.

erm here's some filler words.

Only based on Modern Western Society do we find a 25 year old dating a 13 year old, awkward.
If you lived 70 years ago, you wouldn't find anything wrong with this.

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:16 PM Reply

You're a fucking child molester, and her mother will find out and then call the cops, and you'll go to jail and be raped. I hope.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:17 PM Reply

I think this could do you some justice.

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:18 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 04:00 PM, Ramirezoid wrote: You's gonna go to jail.

And there ain't no sixteen year old girls in super jail!

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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:18 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 04:17 PM, esko-man wrote: I think this could do you some justice.

Not much, it doesn't show provinces for Canada.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:22 PM Reply

it dosent matte how old u are it just matters that you love eachother.
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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:27 PM Reply

thanks again all :D


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 04:35 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 04:13 PM, lawlmaster wrote:
At 3/18/09 04:08 PM, Auz wrote: Not 100% sure, where I live, a 12 year difference is the minimum allowed if one is underaged. So as a 25 year old, you may still have a relationship with a 13 year old. Although quite a small difference in morality, that law doesn´t seem unreasonable to me... And no-one´s gonna go for 7 year olds when he´s 19. Or at least I have never heard of such a case :p
A 25 year old fucking a thirteen year old.Wow your country needs Chris Hanson.

erm here's some filler words.

I was saying "having a relationship". A serious relationship. I never mentioned anything about fucking ;)

Anyway, I just looked it up and found a very recent article about a 26 and a 14 year old. The 26 year old went unpunished since the relationship was serious, but it was decided that from then on people have to be 16 or older before they can have sex with eachother.

So I guess a 12 years difference is indeed no problem here, as long as you don´t have sex with eachother...


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 05:14 PM Reply

Leave this topic. Authorities are being contacted.


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Response to Dangers of dating a 16 year old? Mar. 18th, 2009 @ 05:16 PM Reply

At 3/18/09 05:14 PM, deevvon wrote: Leave this topic. Authorities are being contacted.

Hahaha, is this some kind of joke related to Sirtom?


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